I just found nude photo"s of my boyfriends ex girlfriend on his phone. Six months ago he told me he deleted them. I feel like I'm going to throw up.
Are you around?
Yes I'm around. Who is this and did you take me here any specific reason? Lol
How was work?
Somebody who hasn't been around for a long time. We're safe here.
I see. I hope so. What are you doing?
Work was ok. When do you leave for your trip?
I'll prob be on every once in awhile still
It's only 2.5 days
Have you seen BreakingNews?
I saw it. I have to see if it's credible first before making judgement . Then illl assist
Are you in property management? I was gonna ask a business related question earlier
Someone at the door
I'm back. Ask away.
Where did you go?
My phone was charging I'm still here . I was gonna ask is there any specific platforms you use to have people deposit their rent for s building
Like 20+ unit. Do you have any programs or companies?
They can pay online. We don't take credit card payments in the offices. Only checks.
I mean what online service? The buildings website?
We contract through a concierge service that sets it up with the residents.
Is that what you mean?
Yes that answers enough thank you. I was curious what methods the concierge uses
I don't know the answer to that.
I figured that
I hope you had fun last night.
Do you own buildings or something?
Going to bed. Good nite.
Aww so soon. Goodnight babe 😘
Not yet, hopefully soon.
To clear the air: you are already suspicious of me and uncomfortable opening up. I knew that telling you about my date would make it more so. That's why I said we can't talk anymore.
The balls in your court.
I don't care about the date but it's suspicious for one date to lead to no more talking. You having a bf is the better of the suspicions I Have. Anyway did you fuck him?
Also let me know how I can open up, even if it's not for you for future endeavors
No, I didn't fuck him. Geez.
Ok, I'll tell you how you can open up for your future gf's. 🙄
You give little bits of info about things you do, but never the full story.
You're camping with friends but who are these friends?
You're in a rut but won't explain yourself.
I suspect you have a problem with drugs or alcohol and go to meetings. You don't open up so it's just a guess.
When are you getting home?
I'll be home shortly
You said there's no chance with you so sure my future gfs id like to know. Anyway I went with 2 friends from HS my friend has a house in Massachusetts I go a few times a year and usually hangout with people there. My rut is related to the small town I live in and have trouble escaping along with my job
No I don't use drugs, but I will be more
Open. I used to use them a lot, and sell them
The pics sent is after that period I think
Guess it's not good enough for you
It's fantastic! You gave more info in those 2 comments than the entire time we've been chatting.
I only said ok because I thought you were driving. Didn't want to distract you.
Thank you I'm not driving, in home now I'm just gonna clean up and unpack and shower right now I'll let u know when I'm done
Better not be thinking about your future gf's in the shower. 😡
You don't have to worry. What's up
When I wrote we can't talk anymore, I deleted the app. Then, after a few hours, I missed you and reloaded.
Do you think we should talk a lot less?
Probably should 😥
It sucks. I knew this would happen.
This is one of the only things keeping me on the app still. Did you talk to that guy since?
He's texted me but I haven't wanted to do anything.
You're king around here. U can't leave
Did you not want to do anything because me or because you just didn't want to?
When I found myself reloading the app because I missed you, I didn't want to do anything w him. My mind was on you.
I kept wondering what you were doing, who you were with, etc.
Did you hook up with him at least?
I wouldn't be talking to you right now if he was on my mind.
We should talk a little less often.
I don't want you to get to distracted from real life 😕 but I really like you
I need to get you out of my head.
We aren't right for each other.
What did you make for dinner?
I had dinner before I got home nothing since not really hungry
How about you
I made a peanut butter and jelly sandwich.
Do u ever watch 60 minutes?
Peanut butter sandwich is my favorite quick snack, I could make one real food for you.
Real good** and no not really why which one is on
In open to it what channel and time
I missed 60 mins tonight. I had a feeling you don't watch it. It's too liberal for you. 😜
Lol yeah I thought jt was pretty much a generic interview show? If it's a liberal bias I prob don't watch it, have lately been trying to watch less news
It's a shame too. I used to really enjoy late night TV shows, in my mind they have become pathetic in recent days. I won't watch it anymore it's almost completely political comedy, no more regular comedy
Political commentary** not comedy
I'm getting caught up with VC and WOW! ColWest was a troll. 😦
Never would have suspected him.
Yea I suspected it a long time, there's plenty more though
He wasn't one of those big accounts though, what happens was the VC president deleted something from the website secretly when someone threatened him, he then went and report d it to cover the evidence.
Colonel west had like one other account
I just read the exchange between you and deist. You make me lol.
You mean Colin is a troll?
My battery is at 7%. I need to charge it up soon. Are you going to bed soon?
Yes I think he is and no I got some shows to watch but I'm
Not going out. You can text me later or tomorrow I'll take it as goodnight for now
Phones at 5%. I'll prob be off for a few hours now I'll talk to you later 😘💜
Just got home. Where ru?
Stress is the worst. 😥
Don't answer that. I can't get involved.
We'll talk later 💖💜
No I never have money problems other things though
What do you mean you can't get involved?
Remember I was going to work on not getting closer to you? That's what I meant.
The more you share, the closer I feel. Can't let it happen.
I hope it works out. 💜
I see I thought you were suggesting sending me $ or something 😂
Oops.. I can see why u thought that. 💜
Let's chat tomorrow.
Send me a picture first ;). Ass photo too
Maybe I'll feel less stressed
Not asking if you will, but would you want to in general?
If you were my bf, I could be talked into it.
I'd love to see it
😘. That's you in your pic right?
Here we go again 🙄
We'll chat tomorrow
I'm not asking for another pic can you just answer the question
It's easy babe
I'm considering posting another one to put this thing to rest.
I don't want much of my face to show. Just a little
Ok fine. I post a new one.
Thank you love
To me or as your pic?
Prolly post it.
I'll start looking through pics.
Lots of men are gonna hit on you, I hope you stay my babe
I want to find something that doesn't show much tho.
Yea idc, the perfectly fine as
Long as I get some feedback lol
I can't believe I'm doing this for you.
You could always send it on email or here 😉.
I considered email but I don't want to exchange email addresses.
I'm getting too emotionally involved w you.
If I can't find one I like, I'll see if my neighbor will take one.
You can use like a throwaway email or an image hosting site and comment it here
Is your neighbor a woman? Lol
I thought I told you my neighbor is a guy.
No attraction to him so don't worry.
I'm not finding one I want to post. Maybe I'm being too picky
I had a feeling it was a guy, why not attraction? Is he gah?
Yea you're prob being to picky 😜
I'm tired of looking. Ill post something later tonight or the morning. My battery is almost dead.
G nite. 💕
You made my day much better babe. Thank you so much💜
Sweet dreams 😘
Still working on it.
You got one ready though? I'm excited 😁
Busy work day?
Is this one good enough? It's a little over a year ago.
I like seeing your face try another one so I can see more
Now I'll be embarrassed if I'm not like ke you hoped.
I don't want to show more
One second then you can switch it back lol let me know when to look 👀
I think you look pretty cute, are you Jewish? You can always send my anonymous email
Lmao no not Jewish. Here's one more then I'm done.
Thank you 💜
I'll stop asking for now on, I always thought you were a brunette or is your hair just dark brown?
My hair is brown but I got made up that day for an important date. They did a make over on me. I don't usually wear so much make up and my hair is usually straight.
Aww you got rid of all pics now 😢. But st least for a brief minute, I saw the light.
You look just like one of my old roommates from what I could tell. Sure you're not from NY? Lol
Lol not Jewish not from ny.
I thought YOU were Jewish for the longest time.
For the record, I always thought the roommate was attractive 😉
It's my alias. lol I'd never put my real name on here
I'm Catholic, are you any religion?
No religion but I respect the beliefs of others. I'm not a hater like a lot of atheists are.
I'm not that religious though, haven't went to church in years
You are pretty white eh?
On your poll - ever hit a car and not report it?
I voted yes. Once I was driving after a party and I hit a moving car. I was scared I'd get a dui but the guy I hit was an undocumented Mexican and he was more scared than me. He begged me not to report it.
Lmao lucky you. I work with those guys on a daily basis. I too voted yes on the question
I've smashed mirrors etc. a whole bunch of things and ran lol
You exceed my expectations in looks. Now I wonder how your body looks 😍
Know what's funny? I'm always attracted to my opposite and bad boys. It's you!
Yeah prob me.'you seem like a goodie girl, I assume you were always very good in school?
You aren't a nerd type who plays video games etc. are you?
I'm too much of a partier to be a nerd girl. No video games. Lol
Do you really party that much? I'd expect you to be like a church girl.
You smoke cigarettes? I don't mind
You know I drink and occasionally do coke.
Not really a church goer.
When I've been drinking, I'll smoke.
What does occasionally mean exactly?
How much do you drink when you do?
First question- 1-2 times month
When I drink, I get buzzed.
When I do c, we usually go to a club and dance.
Oh you go to clubs . I should have guessed, with Who your girlfriends?
Yes, babe. I go with my gf's.
No more questions. You're wearing me out.
No more don't worry. Glad you proved you weren't a guy today though 😍😘
Is that what you were worried about?!? 😂😂😂😂
Either that or that you were like 300 pounds
I wish you'd email me another still 😅
We're supposed to not talk so much and we're talking more than ever. Let's slow it down.
I got a text from that guy. He wants to see a movie this weekend. You aren't making this easy.
I don't know. I haven't texted him back.
Because I've been talking to you all morning.
Are you at work right now?
I'm at work and it's getting busy.
Tty after work.
Look, I'll prob be mad if you go but just tell me what happens. I don't wanna hold you back really. especially if you won't commit to sending me an email. Today has been a slow day for me
Will you be home soon?
About 20 minutes . How can you tell I'm not?
Just a guess 😘
So what are we gonna do?
Did you text that guy. Ack?
I agreed to see a movie with him.
Pirates of the Caribbean.
I hope you aren't driving right now.
No I don't really SOH and drive
I'm at the pet store tho
Do you like this person? Or do you just feel it's right
I really like that you care about animals. 💜
I'm not sure how I feel about this guy. I need to give it another shot. I told him I couldn't do anything after the movie, tho. I want an easy out in case I'm not having fun.
Second date and all, things looking different.
Thank you. Had to do some quick pet shopping 😻. And I'm home now so you don't have to worry anymore.
I love the feeling when I know you're in for the night.
You are in for the night, right?
Yes I'm in for the night don't worry 😝
Hard to find this thread lol. Goodnight 😘
You can tag me anywhere and I'll bring you back here. It's easy for me.
It's fine I'll look next time. I don't want to spread to far and wide across SOH
Rainy day today ❤️
Are you home?
No I'm working running around how about you?
I'm still working. You seem to like running around on your time off. You enjoy keeping busy.
My job is not only physical labor on the job I do a lot of paperwork and filing for permits, meeting with people and stuff but budget explains why I'm active a lot on here during the work day. So by rubbing around I mean like that bureaucratic stuff
It's not easy running a business, but I try my best
Wish I could have you as a secretary
I have a feeling we wouldn't get much work done 😍
I would try my hardest to make sure you are satisfied, in sure you could do the same
I would keep you very satisfied. 💖
Trust me I'd need it. I'd take care of you first every time 😘V
home now. What ru doing?
Not home yet babysitting will be soon
How old are the kids?
Like 5 and 7. In leaving at 6:30 I did it right after work because why not
Agree. Why not?
Part of your charm is liking kids and animals. 💜🙁
I don't really like kids 😳. But it's easy $. I want to raise a kid, like how you raise an animal.
You said you want 3-4 kids.
I know you do.
Yes, I do want that many. But sometimes others kids are so poorly raised it's hard to deal with them lol
When will you be ready to settle down?
Prolly 10 years. I want the freedom to travel and work as many hours as I want. So no kids for me.
Where do you want to travel to?
Everywhere. Are you home?
Which countries or areas? Europe? I am home now just did everything
Good nite 💋💖
Who are you going out to dinner with, Goldberg?
Where are you?
Hey I don't know I was joking. I wish I had red lobster.
Was just at the hospital Sorry for the slow response
Oh no. Why were you at hospital?
My uncles cancer came back ):
I'm so sorry babe. 😥
Sending you good thoughts and ❤️.
I'm at the dr now for myself
No wonder you've been so stressed. When u get home, let me know how everything went. 💜😫
In done now
Home for the night. Safe
Not going out
Why the dr appt?
Dermatologist, it was quick. Are you home yet?
Completely random question, do you pay for your own insurance and if so is it private? I won't judge
I have health coverage and car insurance.
Is that what u mean?
I pay for both. My employer helps w the medical tho.
I've been home for hours.
I know you won't judge me. You never do. 😘
What time do you get off? And yes that's what I meant
😉you know. I was curious if you had some sort of Medicare lol.
of course I have Medicare.
Food stamps too. Lol
I'm supposed to work till 5 but sometimes I work longer and sometimes I take off early.
Do you really have both? Lmao
I don't judge you. I hope you've noticed.
Or are you joking
I was joking. I make good money and don't qualify for either.
Have you ever used them?
I have dental coverage too.
I'm on the pill so I see my dr annually. I get my teeth checked annually too.
No, I'm not fucking anyone.
On the pill eh? Expecting to get laid?
Do you see any psychiatrist or therapists?
Every night I get laid by you, in my mind.
I enjoy doing it 😘
Do you have addictions?
My insurance is by work, I admit back in the day I took food stamps (don't tell anyone) because I figured it's free $ and I was living on my own. I have all the same as you. No I don't go to therapy or anything like that. I used to see a psychiatrist to get some pills which were for ADD, they gave me superhuman thinking and productivity, like aderal (or however you spell it) times ten. I haven't had them in at least a year or more though
No I don't use drugs and only drink recreationally. I used to smoke cigs. Do you?
I'll say a little more. When I said I sold drugs and did them, I was talking about pot lol. Sure I've experienced and done hard drugs every once in awhile but not much. But the dealing thing wasn't like a small time thing, it was legit, got shipped form a farm in California. But my friend who used to have the connection who was my best friend started doing heroin and it became to much, all fell apart, for the better. (for me atleast)
I understand if you don't want to talk to me anymore
Of course I still want to talk to you. 💖
You moved out when you were young, I'm sure it was tough getting by. I don't know how you did it.
As far as the other stuff, I've done worse things than you.
Tell me the worst thing you did
I don't care if you smoke. Some of my friends do.
My experimenting w drugs is the worst thing I've done.
I knew you were a good girl 😇
Time to recharge. G nite and sweet dreams. 💕
Talk to you tomorrow babe
Just letting u know I'm home. If we miss each other tonight, catch u tomorrow.
How's it goin?😍
I'm still your babe!
I thought you would ask questions and when you didn't, I thought you didn't want to talk about it.
Not going out with him again.
Why aren't you going out with him?
He's boring. Too nice.
No fire between us.
I like more of the bad boy kinda guy.
What are you doing?
It's killing me that you're taking so long to reply.
Oh you went with him yesterday right.
What ru doing
Last night. Yes
What lame things did he do?
You didn't even know.
Im Confused. When you said "bye" what did you mean?
I thought you were mad about the date.
I forgot but I knew.
I was pissed you didn't answer me
Just showed a house
Where are you going now?
I m watching someone's dog this weekend so I have to go feed it, let it out. That'll take 15 mins. After I have to buy some stuff for the apartment. After that maybe the gym
How about you??
I'm doing laundry and watching a movie.
We can talk more when you aren't on the road. Ok?
I'm not on the road. I don't SOH and drive
Ok, good. What do you want to know?
I'm on a thread with luft talking about whores. He cracks me up.
What are you doing tonight? And a thread where
I tagged you in the poll w luft.
My friend wants to go to a bar tonight but I don't think I'll go.
I'll read the comments in a few. Why no bar?
The friend that wants to go, sometimes leaves with guys from the bar. Then I worry about her all night till I hear from her the next morn. I don't feel like doing it.
When I tell you things like that, I hope you see I'm being completely honest. I'm not hiding anything from u.
I'm going shopping. Ttyl.
Guys have going out much easier, I guess, sucks. And I can tell you're very honest. Why don't you like getting picked up or sleeping around like your friends?
Hi, I'm back.
I find the first time I'm with someone is usually a little awkward. I like the guy to take the lead and if he doesn't, it's not a turn on.
Also, when the day comes that find the right guy, I don't want to tell him I've been with 20 guys.
Another thing, I think it's dangerous to get in the car w a stranger. They could be taken somewhere and gang raped or killed.
My friends think I worry too much. Lmao.
You sound like a good friend. Sorry for the late response I wasntf on yesterday
You are a very courteous person. Do you feel you change overtime?
Also besides sex, do you do anything else the first days?
I think you got mad at me
Not mad. Concerned. What did you do all day?
I finished the routine I described and went to bed early. Did some stuff with my dad today
How about you? Did you end up doing anything yesterday?
I had a few people over last night and today, I spent w my dad. I helped him with yard work. Lol
Sounds like fun. I have a busy week ahead of me 😓
No need to be sorry. 💜
I appreciate the heads up. Ty 💖
I have been on the app much less this weekend. I have a important test to take tomorrow, have been studying and as far as today goes I will prob be busy when I get out of work as well. After like 2pm tomorrow I will b back to normal
I can explain more if you like
Study hard babe. Good luck on the test.
Can't really chat now.
Seeing your poll 💜💕
Is your life chaotic or relaxed?
Chaotic . Easy question. How about you?
I see your answer. Maybe it's just me
Yes, it's you. You seem to thrive on it tho, so it's ok.
Yeah I thrive on it. Right 😅
I think you should email me
I didn't expect to hear from you till after tomorrow.
Thinking of you. Good luck today 💜
Oh god lol it's nor gonna matter but thanks
Are you done being stressed?
For the most part yes
Work is always good. :)
You love it don't you. You doing something else I don't know about?
Nothing you don't know about. Do you?
Seems like you might. Me no I pretty much say anything when asked
I tall you everything! You don't tell me anything!
It's suspicious that you are always running around doing stuff. It's not normal.
Most of the time I'm home, just not from 7-4, sometimes I'm out for an hour or two but not everyday
You sure you ain't hiding anything?
Where do you think I'm running around to? To do what?
I don't know what u do coz u never tell me.
I think you have secrets
What secrets do you think I have?
iPad need charged. Ttyl
You aren't making sense. Let's talk tomorrow.
I just want to know how to be a better communicator with you. Okay. Talk to you tomorrow 😘
Here I am!
Just got home.
How was your day?
It seemed like today lasted forever. I'm glad to finally be home. How was your day?
Busy day. Tomorrow I'll be making the roof of a very high up building . Hopefully I'll survive
You are brave to do it. I'll be thinking (worrying) bout you all day.
Did u pass the test?
I did satisfactory but passed
Was it for a RE license?
No I've had one for a few years. I have been thinking of going to school for an engineers license and it was an exam for the program
I have to take some classes for my re license though. You need continuing education every 2 years.
I had a dream about you lmao
Was it a good one? 😍
Definitely a good one 😘
At the end you gave me your email too. It was the same as your account here
Lol you never give up. 💜
I swear that's what happened at the end. I had a message which said firstname.lastname@example.org
In going away next weekend
Where are you going? Who are you going with?
Pennsylvania but it's not guaranteed and it would be to visit family
Is that ok?
Hi babe. Yes, I'm happy to hear it. I like you doing things w your family.
Why do you like it?
I like it because you moved out when you were so young. I like knowing you are making efforts to stay close to your family.
When did you move out?
Also I had a long hard day of work. I showered already and I'm laying in bed naked
In bed naked?!? 😍
Are u touching yourself?
Wish you were here. Am I allowed to?
Yes, stroke it for me.
Get yourself hard, Alex.
Imagining it's you doing it. Got me up quick, rock hard
Way ahead of you Amanda. What would you do here next?
My mouth is hovering around your dick. I'm begging you to let me suck it but you won't allow it yet.
Big load waiting to go
Come on my face!
Mhmmm so hot. I'll let you taste quickly
The minute you said you were naked in bed, I grabbed my vibrator. I just came. 😍
Love t 😍 . 💦💦💦
Give it a final taste to clean up
I just came too ;p . Felt good doing it At the same time. 😘
Did u cum on my face? 😍
I came all over it. How's it taste?
Felt so so good.
I love the way you taste. So good. 😍
I try to eat healthy, that's why. I'm sorry it was so much ; you'll prob need a shower to get it out of your hair
How big is that vibrator?
My vibrator is average size. I've used it often thinking of you.
When I shave my pussy, I think of you too.
Mhmm so hot. You already must know I like it shaved. Keep thinking of me. Wish next time it'd be my cock instead of the vibrator
Push it deep next time, i love that
If we ever met, would u let me watch u masturbate sometimes?
You can watch me too
Does that turn you on?
Yeah I guess I'd let you watch if you want . And I'll do it to you masterbating, or at least if you showed me your tits or ass
I'm still rock solid lol
You turn me on. Love a man w a high sex drive.
This time will you go down on me?
I'd like to do it everyday . Twice a day if possible. That's what I'm used to
Of course I'll treat you like you deserve . Now?
My pussy want to be licked
I'm ready for you
Let me kiss around your pussy first, kiss your pussy a couple of times too
Mmm.. it feels so good.
Lick lick . Up the pussy and the tip of my tongue is gently touching your clit
My tongue slowly goes down and around your clit, I kiss your legs one more time then go back to the clit, putting more pressure this time and starting to eat
I'm close to cuming again
Omg... so good. I tried to wait for you but couldn't.
It's okay, next time I'll make sure to suspend you longer. We all get our gratification.
That was unexpected fun. Thank you. ❤️
Getting in the shower now.
Anytime. It was my pleasure too 😍. Have fun
There was a beach party I went to. What did you do?
Hi! What's new?
I've missed you a lot! Just got out of the shower, sunburnt as hell. How are you??
Hope you aren't mad at me
Not mad super busy
There's something wrong with my cat. 😥
The vet is keeping her overnight.
Hey in sorry I have been very busy too. What did the vet say? And what has the cat been doing?
Are you ok?
I've been crying all morning 😥
Bella hasn't been eating much lately and this morning, she tried to come to me but kept falling over. I picked her up and took her to her water. When I put her down, she fell over again. 😥
The vet thinks she might have vertigo. If she does, it usually goes away w/in 24 hours.
I called to check on her and no changes.
I love her so much. 😥
Thank you for caring ❤️
Aww I'm sorry 💔. Praying that Bella gets better. Did they do tests to make sure it's not something she ate?
Her eye balls dart back and forth real fast. It's a sign of vertigo.
How are you?
I hope she's ok, im not a vet so I can't give any medical advice. I've been good but busy, weekend was alright, back to work for a few days, this is a slow week because Friday, Monday and ties there will be no work
Why no work?
Friday Is a half day , Monday and Tuesday is a holiday, the Spanish guys don't wanna work on the 4th of July
I forgot bout the holiday. Makes sense.
Does your family get together on the. 4th?
No my family doesn't but I have to go to see other family because someone who won't be around much longer is visiting
On the 4th I'll prob be at either a friends bbw or home since it is Tuesday
Will u be late getting hm tonight?
Will be back by 5:30, why
I like knowing you're home. 💜
I thought you wanted to do something
That would be fun too.
Are you still going to the gym?
I go MWF in the am. My neighbor meets me there and we work out together. It's a little more fun
Are u home?
Never mind. Don't care. Good nite.
You always leave me high and dry. I hate it
I'm not your SOH girl anymore.
Don't text me anymore.
Hey omg sorry my phone turned black for 4 hours. It just turned back on seconds ago
I had no way of contacting you. The phone just turned black, idk why it started working now. But I'll have to get a new phone
I'm sorry 😥
You've used the same excuse before. If your phone really did that, you'd get a new one.
Now I can't sleep because I'm mad.
It's happened like 4 times in the past and it's my 4th iPhone. It happened I couldn't figure a way to let You know since you never have me an email or alternate way of connecting
I feel even worse because I fell asleep long before I saw your message 😫
Let me know what's going on soon. I will be gone soon
Are you still around?
Bella had a brain tumor.
The vet.put her on my lap and she she started purring. The had no chance of recovery. She couldn't eat or walk.
The vet gave her the injection while she was on my lap purring. I held her when she died. She purred to the end.
This is one of the hardest things I've ever done.
I'm taking the rest of the week off work.
Omg I'm so sorry 😥😥😥
She's on the rainbow bridge to heaven now
Thank you. 💜
It's so painful. 😥
I can't remember where you're going this weekend.
Sucks how it happened so fast. How old was she?
She was only 8.
I going over to my mom and dads I might spend the night.
Ok. In here if you need anything 💜
Are u going away this weekend?
Yes I will be
When are you leaving and when will you be back?
I'm leaving either tomorroway or sat. Getting back Monday. I will prob still be here on SOH
In going to Pennsylvania
Ok, glad you be on SOH. 💖
Not a lot but at night maybe sometimes during the day
I'm leaving sat now
Are you driving alone?
Are u home from work?
No to far. And I am but I'm leaving in a few
Because I'm getting negative vibes from u
No I'm still here. Are you feeling ok?
Much better now. Just takes time.
Happy you feel a little better💜
Yea. Tomorrow I can't take off early from work, it's gonna be to late to drive 3.5 hours on a holiday weekend, I wouldn't get there til like 12-1am . I'm leaving sat at like 6
Omg holiday traffic on Fridays is insane. Sat morning is a better choice. Are u staying all week?
The tunnel over the bridge will be far to bad. It will prob take like 3 hours+ alone to get out NY which with no traffic would be 45 mins or less. I'm only going until Monday and leaving early mon.
So you'll be home on the 4th.
I love this holiday because I like getting with ppl for BBQ's. I always have fun.
Yea I'll be gone on the 4th. Prob will go to a BBQ or something like that. You have plans?
Goodnight babe 😘❤️
How are you? I've been out at the pool all day.
Now I'm collecting all Bella's stuff and im going to donate it to the Salvation Army in a little while.
Lucky I wish I was at the pool, I've been working all day. Got some cold beers at home for when I'm out tho. Are you gonna consider a new pet or are you done for awhile?
I was thinking about a new pet but it's too soon. Maybe in a few months.
Yea it's best to wait awhile i think
Ru doing anything tonight?
Going out for awhile. Ttyl.
Not doing anything really since I have to get up early, I'll be local. And have fun
What you do last night?
Went to a club with the girls. Are u having fun?
Na not having much fun, my apartment is flooded and I'm here for a few more days
One of my friends went hm with somebody but I didn't.
How did ur apt flood? When did it happen?
Flash flood, I know it flooded since it's pouring in NY.
Omg.. I'd want to get back asap. Who's watching your pets?
I hired someone.
Do you hookup often??
Won't be home til Monday.. late
I don't hookup very often. Prolly only once a month. How bout you?
You know I'm joking:
👁 ❤️ Bert
Where did u go?
My service is messed up. I'm gonna watch a firework show. I am in the backwoods in PA, like the middle of the forest it's very difficult to get signal
Ok, enjoy! 💕
So many rednecks here. I feel at home
I'd love to have u in bed w me
Wish I were there.
Send me another pic of you 😃
Hi babe! Did u have fun last night?
Went to bed early but I guess, the firework show was no joke 13 mins lol
Looking forward to getting home already
Did you have fun? What u do??
I got sunburned on my back. Wish u could kiss it and make it feel better.
I had a couple neighbors over. We played monopoly and drank wine.
I always lose at monopoly. I hate that game.
Monopoly takes too long, haven't played in years. I have a special remedy for sunburn I'm sure could work pretty good for you
That turned me on 😍 I'd like u to spread it all over my back. Mmmm..
You know how badly I wanna spread it babe 😘. I wouldn't be able to resist but I'd make you all better
I got my vibrator out. I'm thinking of you.
Fuck like I'd fuck you. Slow the. Fast then slow again, deeper and deeper.
But babe I can't have my cock be this hard I am going to be leaving soon, play now imagining me, later I'll be back to play and cum with you
I just came. I couldn't wait!!
Have fun and we'll play again later 😍
Myrmidon is flirting again. You can't get mad coz I'm telling you.
And why would I care if he's flirting? Are you acting on it??
I told you in case you stumble upon it, u won't be mad because I mentioned it
Are you flirting back?
I'm being friendly.
Well I hope not. Your pussy belongs to me 😘😘😘
Yes, it belongs to you.
Can't wait to get home
I have a dr appt in the morning. I did something to my wrist. My right hand and lower arm are swollen.
What do u think you did? Tennis accident?
I first noticed it a few weeks ago but it went away and I forgot about it. Now it's back so I'll get it checked.
What are you doing now? With everyone?
My phones on 1%. I'm going to bed at 10, talk to you tomorrow 💜
Thinking of you.
How have you been
So busy. Heading out to dinner now.
What made you change your pic?
Any particular reason?
Someone requested I put the pic of me back up. Kinda creeped me out. This close enough
The old pic of you or the one with your face you showed me?
I think the first one. I don't remember the guys name
You forgot in one day? Hmm ok
Just asking. What's up
It was yesterday and it's hard to remember.
Ur apt and pets ok?
Big party yesterday?
Yes everything's good, u
Did you fuck anyone when u were out of town?
No I didn't . Have you over the weekend or something? Guilty conscious!
I not a cheater and my battery is about dead.
I didn't say I were but ok. I'm taking z quill soon anyway
Sweet dreams 💕💖💕
I hope you don't have another SOH lover. Do you have other secret conversations like this one??
I'm devoted to you. You are my only SOH lover.
You get flirty though so where did this other person ask about your pics?
Good morning, babe. He sent a pm.
Can you send me another pic?
Good. Did u have a good day? Where are u?
Home yeah today was okay. How about yours? What are you doing this weekend?
I'm helping my dad work on his sprinkler system sat and sun I'm going to a bday party for a 1yr old.
I got work sat, I don't have plans for anything at night except maybe Sunday night. Do you like kids?
I don't like baby's. Kids are ok. What r u doing Sunday?
Sunday I might go to some bar event
Friend I saw the other day maybe, not sure the event is just happening idk if I will go. It's like an all you can drink think
Rather* open bar for a cover fee
Is ur friend a girl?
No don't worry. 2 guy friends
What does she look like?
It's friends from hs, not a girl
Ok, I don't think you'd lie to me.
How strongly do you feel about me?
I'm crazy about you. 😍
TinyAngel is pretending to be my slave in her poll. Should I turn it sexual?
Sure why not. Is it a girl?
I opened the door to it but she didn't bite.
Have u been ok any dates?
15 or 16
I'm talking recently
No dates except the one I told u about.
Do you want to go on a date?
I want to fuck you.
I would fuck you too but you said not even if I was in Florida 😫
My body is very firm. Is yours?
I have a lot of muscle. You are fit?
I love muscles 😍
I'm very fit.
How's your ass? And Brest size?
My ass is round and firm. I wear a B cup bra.
How many know that you and I flirt?
I've told no one, how about you?
Sometimes I get pm's from vc guys and I when I do, I wonder about it. It's never anything sexual tho.
I just got a pm from someone trying to help JMack find social democrats.
lol join them
No thx. The only reason I follow vc is to keep an eye on you.
I'm going to connecuit to buy some things
Who r u going with?
I'm .going to a kids bday party.
My buddy lives on the way it's only like an hour drive
Stay out of trouble. lol i always worry bout u.
Yes I'm home
Hi Bert! 😍
Is there anyone on the app you know in real life, if so who?
I don't know anyone on the app. Do you?
Of course not. But I thought you said your friend was on or something??
What u doing
I told mirdion I was dating someone from the app because he sent me another pm asking if I was available.
I'm not doing much right now. What are u doing?
He's relentless, I'll give him that. Do you consider yourself to be dating besides the app? And I just got home
We aren't dating but it was an easy excuse to let him down gently.
I'll be home in 30 mins.
Let me know. My apartment leaking again meh
It must be inconvenient to deal with the leak. 😘
Going out for awhile. Catch you later.
Miss u 2.
I just read your comments in the don trump Jr. poll. Sometimes you hilarious 😂
Thanks and kiss u too 💜
Is buffalozulu a girl?
I don't know, don't think so.
Do u want to message me on the kik app or send me an email?
Had a major setback 😶
I ❤️ Bert.
Buffalo said he/she likes you. He better be a guy. 😡
Wait, what do u mean "major setback"?
Where do they say they like me? Lol
In a poll that announces your new vc position.
Me: wtg Bert
MrAmerica: you've become conservative lately"
Me: "no, I hate his politics but I like the guy"
Buffalo: "I like him too"
Tell me what's going on w you.
I'm home. It's nothing some work related stuff. How was your day!?
Do u promise it's nothing more than a work related thing? I've been worried bout u all day.
Do you have a gf?
Tell me your secrets!!
No I don't. You don't have to worry about me
Ok, u don't have a gf. Do you owe thugs money? Are u being evicted from your house?
None of the above and I wouldn't get involved in anything like that. Had a bad night sleep
Does it involve alcohol?
Why did you and your friend go to Connecticut last week?
No just a ridiculously short night sleep, and I went for the ride to buy something on Craigslist
Lots of questions I see
You have secrets. I won't ask anymore questions.
What secrets do u think?
How do you know?
Tell me your secrets, Alex!
I won't press you anymore.
You must have lots of secrets if you're this worried 🤔
You know I tell you everything. No secrets, babe. You prolly want to go to bed early tonight. Should I say good night?
I went to bed early last night but you're right. Idk I guess. Goodnight babe💜.
I don't think u tell me everything
There's something your hiding . I know or else u wouldn't be so reluctant
Stop it! I tell u everything.
Good night, love. 💕💖
Why so reluctant on pics and other contact?
We've been through all this. I don't want to get close to a guy that there's no future with.
I get that but at this point whah difference does it make? I'm not saying phone #s or emails, like say an anonymous chat which is more efficient than here
Messenger app, and the pics thing
U think that nem guy is on other accounts?
Private chat rooms lead to things. You'll want nudes, I won't send them.
It's just easier the way it is.
Nem told me in his AMA poll that he has an alt account.
Lol u think this is a long game for nudes? Where's the AMA?
Look a Nems profile. Look at his polls. He posted an AMA poll a couple hours ago.
Yes, I think this is all about nudes.
You can't possibly be serious
I wonder who his alt is. 🤔
I'm not gonna say anything, because this chain is to public and I don't want anyone seeing, but I have a few ideas
Bye I guess since u liked and that signals the end
I'm sorry. The app crashed and I couldn't get back on till now.
Good night. 💜
Friday night. You're prolly out having fun.
Are u on a date?
Hey no I'm here but wondering bout u
It was a fun day at work. One of the girls i work with, and I, went to happy hour after work. Now I'm in for the night.
How was ur day?
Have been very busy lately. Are u doing anything this weekend?
I'm not doing anything this weekend. I've been super busy and I want to veg out all weekend long.
Have you been busy showing houses?
I just sold 2 houses over the last week so I'm good for awhile. I'm getting out too, celebrated 😎
That fantastic!! Congratulations!! 🥃🥃 cheers!
What a good feeling you must have! Proud of you 💜
Who are u going out with?
You must be busy. Have fun but don't fuck anyone. 😜
I didn't fuck anyone and I went to bed early
Probably the same today
It's probably good to relax. You're always so busy.
How about you?
I'm not doing anything all weekend. I'm enjoying time to myself.
My bf and I used to look at porn together. Do u like porn?
Sometimes, it's alright I don't like it much when I'm single, were you a fanatic?
It's not as much fun looking at it alone and no, I wasn't a fanatic. Kinda wish I could look at porn w you.
I bet I could pick out the girls you liked the most.
I've had sex and don't stuff while looking st porn, but never really just watched to watch unless alone. Try and pick the girls,
If we were watching porn together, the girl with long, black, hair, a plump ass and big boobs, would get you rock hard. She's very physically fit and aggressive, sexually.
Do you like the girl on girl action?
True that would be pretty hot, and those are what I like except I usually look past hair lol. Would be rock hard tho
Girl and girl is alright, but not my thing really
You're the first guy that's ever told me he isn't into girl on girl. 🤗
I don't get why it turns so many guys on.
Ok, we'd watch straight porn together 😍
One more question: do u like lingerie?
Do you have you in lingerie? Of course I like it 😍
I think lots of people pretend to like it. I mean to look at it's ok, but you can watch that on TV
I LOVE lingerie! I have a lot. So much fun to turn a man on 😍
Ugh.. the gardeners are mowing the grass and I hate the noice. 😩
Show me 😍. It really turns me on
Can't show you because you'll fall in love and want to marry me. 💋
No faces . I'll love the pic for a few years at least
Btw.. I'm 99% sure buffalo is a girl and I see her talking to you all the time.
It's funny the way we find you attractive even tho we have different politics.
You're kind of a chick magnet on this app. Probably because you're strong and don't back down. Very manly 😍
lol thank you. I still def don't think Buffalo is a girl
If they are they must be young
Are u going to be around tonight for the skinner/Florida debate?
I'll catch it. I like mils
Who is mils?
As in porn
Oh, nice! 😍
I haven't been very busy. Have you?
I thought about texting you earlier but wasn't sure if u wanted to hear from me.
Why wouldn't I?
Just a feeling. How was ur day?
Long day, I'm beat
Are u home yet?
Do u like back rubs? I would give you a good back rub to help you relax.
Thank you very much I need it
I would love doing it for you. Then we could snuggle on the couch and watch tv.
I'd like that. I'm an expert at massages too so I'd give back 😉
Is it hot in NY?
Very hot today, I got a nice tan though. How about by you?
You're buying property? For a young guy, you are very responsible. Im so proud of you! It's great news.
I'm looking into it, I'll be right by u
Hi. Just got home. Long day.
Hi Bert! Anything exciting happen today?
What's up!? Nope, pretty normal day at work. How's things w you?
Do u live in a condo or house? Have u had a roommate?
Multi family house
Hi again! I was getting caught up on the drama you're involved in. Lol
Quite a few updates I must say
What are you doing now?getting ready for bed?
HL is a troll and I told him that in his Drama account.
Yea I'm going to bed. Thank you for that. I have a headache and took Advil pm already. Goodnight, message me tomorrow 😘 ❤️
Ok. G nite.
False fire alarm last night. 😡 I hate those things.
Did th water go off?
No thank god. Just alarms.
What time and why?
It went off at 3 and I couldn't go back to sleep. I don't know the reason why. It's never happened before.
Someone must have been smoking or cooking
I was tired all day yesterday and slept like a log last night. Feel a lot better today.
I'm Happy that you feel better
Thank you babe. 🤗
You haven't sent me a hug in awhile thanks 😍
I just walked in the door. Are you home?
😩 where's my Bert?
Phone died in home
My aunt died last night. 😥
Are you going out tonight?
I was with family all day
I like to hear that. Did u have fun?
Yes I enjoyed it for once. Nice seeing my uncle. Sorry to hear about your aunt 😢. We're you close?
I wasn't very close to this aunt but I liked her. I hope I don't have to go to her funeral.
Have you ever been to one? It's sad and depressing. I hate going.
I have a feeling my mom will guilt me into going. I really don't want to go tho. Funerals are morbid.
I've been to a few funerals this year alone. Yeah it sucks. I haven't lost anyone THAT close yet except my uncle a few years back and then my grandpa like 7 or 8 years ago
You've been to way more than me. I've only been to two and twos enough.
Sorry about your grandpa and uncle. Hope you don't have to go to another one for 20 years or so.
Is VBCN news, you?
I hope so too. And no VCBN is not me, I only went on it a few times, there's like 5+ who go on it
I've had a busy weekend.
Thinking of you.. ❤️
Busy with what?
Are you mad at me?
what are u mad about?
Ur killing me. What's taking u so long to answer me?
I was just asking
Mostly I was at my mom and dads helping in the yard and arguing about why I have to go to my aunts funeral.
Are you going?
You don't seem yourself. I'll say hi tomorrow.
Christ Alex, now I'm upset. What's wrong?
Did u have a bad day?
Sorry I was watching w movie and the phone was on the charger
If u would have said, I'm watching a movie. Can we talk tomorrow, it would have saved frustration on my part.
I'm sorry I fell asleep after
Ok. Give me a day to get over it.
U can leave me tonight if that's what u want
I'm at the supermarket
Guess I'll talk to u tomorrow
Yes, I'm still here.
Thought you deleted by now
How are you?
Even if we called it quits, I'd still stick around to see your comments.
I'm fine. And you?
Thanks I'm good. Have been pretty busy. Anyway is that what you want to do?
No but it seems like you do. If so, tell me.
Do you feel that I'm holding you back?
You aren't holding me back. I went on a date since knowing you.
And I'm not holding you back because I've encouraged you to date.
That one like a month or so ago? I don't feel I'm held back, and I like talking to you. But I may be less active on the app in general in the future
Now I get it.
I would like to keep talking to you, you're prob the last thing keeping me here
I want you to do what you need to do. Don't stick around here just for me.
I'll keep you updated w everything
I hope so. I always worry about you for some reason.
Thx for taking the time to explain this to me.
I doubt it'll be that soon but one day
You'll always be my SOH bf. Even if you leave one day. I'll always think about you. ❤️
So sweet. I think u know why
Why do u always think about me?
Because purp ❤️ Bert. 😍
How u feeling?
I know how I am
Sorry I missed it. 😩
Who do u know that's HIV positive?
Jk a family member
Omg!!! You got me good.
I felt so bad for you.
If you had it, I wouldn't run.
I'm sure your run if you knew me in person and I had it
Hmm.. I don't know about that. Maybe.
Now I am
If your construction job is M-F, when do u work real estate.
Weekends, during, and nights
That explains why ur always so busy.
When was the last time u had sex?
Awhile how about you?
Months or years?
Around 5 months I think. It's the worst thing about not having a bf.
You had a Bf as recently as recent as January?
Seeing if you were paying attention. 😜
He and I split mid Oct.
Good nite Bert 😴💤💤 💙
I went to happy hour after work. Are u going out tonight?
My phones been charging, are u still out?
Hey!!! I haven't been ignoring you. Don't go!
I never got a notification that you said something to me.
I haven't left yet anyway, but around September I might have to
Why? What's going on?
I'd never ignore you, Alex. ❤️
I'm going to be starting some degree a month from now, I'll likely be very busy and may delete the app
You like me too much to delete the app.
It's fun now but i don't think i will have time in the future . Il see what happens
Do u have a crush on somebody else?
No but idk I feel like I waste a lot of time
I'll support your decision whatever it is. Real life comes before SOH life.
If you do leave, you'll be missed by a lot of people.
Of course undoubtedly. Was gonna delete tonight but got bored shortly after
Ok well, I get the feeling you might delete it any day now. I guess I'll say goodby.
No it's not like that. It's not urgent, I just feel that I waste a lot of time
In general on the phone, on social media, etc
Would you say goodby to me before u leave?
Of course but I doubt it'd be forever
Finally you say something nice to me.
I'll be on tomorrow, my phones gonna die it's on 1%
Our relationships changed. It's not fun like it used to be. You've become unpredictable and it's unsettling.
I have just been busy, I am sorry if I seem unpredictable I'm also stressed
We'll talk tomorrow in depth
When you have time, I want to know whats going on with you. You aren't the same with me.
I have time, I just feel like I don't want to hold you back in anyway. I feel maybe we are holding each other back and it's uncomfortable since you aren't even committing to texting on any other format. I have been busy, I don't like when you get upset when I don't answer and I feel it may be unhealthy. I am also starting a very prestigious degree in a month from now and my time will be severely limited.
That all makes sense. Our relationship has run its course. No more private convos.
I just feel it's not going anywhere and neither of us are willing to commit (for good reasons). So maybe we should just talk less and lower expectations. I mean I have only seen a pic of you once and I only send 2 pics. I told you a few weeks ago I don't wanna hold you back and you getting upset the other day made me feel like I'm still holding you back. Sure I'd love to hear more about your love life etc. and be happy for you, and you can continue to tell me about that stuff, but I don't want dependence. I want For both of us to remain active and engaged in real opportunities to find love. What does that mean to you?
I agree w everything you said.
No more dependence
Am I holding you back? In other words have you forfeited opportunities for me?
I haven't been going out as much as I used to because I'd rather see if you're on the app.
I can't in my right mind do that anymore, sorry
I agree. No more private convos.
Call him on it. Take it from me do not stay with a liar.
Tops is right.
I agree. Make him explain himself or kick his ass to the curb.
It would be one thing if you found them and had not already had a conversation about it. This is a Pretty big lie.
It is unfortunate that he is keeping a dishonest trophy. If you are considering dumping him for it then it sounds like there are more problems than some nude pics. Dishonesty is my real issue with the situation.
And I am always happy to be of help.
I wouldn't be in a relationship with anyone if I felt like I had to go through their phone.
That's me too^
It was an innocent thing I was looking for. I didn't want to mention it at first because of the embarrassment but I already said it below. I was looking for a certain porn pic I knew he had and sent it to my phone.
I'm mean, it's still snooping and that's something you shouldn't have to do in a strong relationship. Obviously there's been a breach of trust in the past or you wouldn't feel this way. If you can't trust who you're with, you're wasting your time
my thoughts, exactly. my wife and I trade phones quite a bit. I have no issue with her going through my phone, abd she feels no need to do so.
I agree, but it sounds like she wasn't snooping but just trying to find something they had looked at together to send to herself. It doesn't sound like she didn't trust him and was maliciously going through his phone for proof of a reason why.
I get on the hubby's phone to send myself pictures he has too, I've never considered myself to be snooping when I do this, and if I stumble upon questionable material than it was exactly that - stumbled upon.
I only said snooping because the OP gave the impression her man didn't know she was going through his phone. If I'm wrong, I apologize.
What I hate most about this is now I'll have trust issues. I know I have to leave. Ill act like everything is fine tonight when he gets home and then when he gets in the shower, I will delete all pictures of me from his phone.
Tomorrow morning he'll take off for work and I'll pack up and be gone when he gets home. I don't want drama and more lies. I can't believe he did this to us... :-(
Good idea, who knows if he'd keep them. Plus, revenge porn isn't illegal in most states so your images aren't protected.
That's right. I no longer trust him. I have to protect myself.
True. Just hang in there, it sucks now and will suck for a while, but it gets better.
I hope this baggage doesn't carry over to the next relationship. I've always been very trusting and that's why this hit me so damn hard. :-(
Thank you aj .
They might, but it's not super uncommon and isn't something that can't be worked through. Openness and good communication help a lot with this, especially when you've been legitimately betrayed in the past. Meeting nicer people helped me get trust
In others back. And glad to help if I can :)
This user is currently being ignored
Nem- I've played the scene in my head over and over. I'll confront him, he'll make some excuse of why the pictures were still there, I'll start crying and not know if he's lying or not, blah, blah.. The fact is the pics were easy to see they weren't
Hidden or anything. He obviously saw them everyday and was ok with keeping it from me. Not cool.
Wow, your packing up and leaving a good man just because he kept nude photos of a woman on his phone? Wow. Monogamous people never cease to amaze me. I'm non-monogamous & couldn't even imagine leaving someone for that. I say this with no
offense, mind you. I just marvel at it, that's all.
Regardless, sorry things didn't work out for you. Best of luck moving forward.
Polyamory has to involve both people agreeing on it though. I think the deception here is more the issue.
That is true. I too would take issue with the deception. But, because I'm non-monogamous, I wouldn't ask my husband to remove photos of an ex so I wouldn't be in the situation in the first place. It's just so different is all.
I can see that :)
I never said anything about monogamous. This isn't about that.
It's about the lie!! I told him from the very beginning of our relationship, two years ago, I can overlook a lot of shit. The one thing I WILL NOT forgive, is lying. Trust is everything
I have a real detestation for lying as well. Though, I've been known to forgive more often than not if I'm very in love and the individual is worth it.
If you're going through his phone, there's already issues.
I knew that would bite me in the ass.
Agree with this as well. Though it doesn't negate him keeping the photos.
Agreed AJ. If he kept the photos on purpose then he is guilty as well.
hmm. idk if dumping him would be be best, but at the very least serious words need to be had imo, I would not be pleased in that situation.
If you had agreed on his deleting them beforehand and he still lied, that shows serious disrespect to you. He knew it made you uncomfortable and kept them anyway. He betrayed you. It's fine if I'm a couple neither person minds nude photos from the
Past, but it sounds like your preference was known. Of it wasn't, his lying still warrants a serious discussion.
Leave me alone Nema. You're on ignore. I'm not listening to someone tell me I deserved rape and I'm a coward for the fiftieth time.
I'm fine with almost everything he likes to look at except this one ex girlfriend and he knew it!! I thought it's been gone for months and it's been under his nose the whole freaking time!!
Yeah, that's extremely disrespectful. This is not the same as freaking out over porn and was completely appropriate of you to ask. I'm so sorry you're going through this.
Nema- you're ignored for good, don't bother.
Great reason to never take nude photos :-)
I would at least talk to him first. My boyfriend had contact info and pictures come up on his phone and PC even after he deleted them in front of me. It was automatically in his cloud and forgot to delete it from there. Glad I didn't just leave.
Yes. That. ;)
Talk with him before you dump him. They could have been on the cloud. My phone puts all my old stuff on it from the cloud. I haven't figured out how to delete stuff from the cloud yet. Also, ask him if he still has feelings for her. Either way, you
You have the right to know.
Yeah but no matter what he says, I won't know if it's a lie or not. Plus he's going to be pissed that I went snooping through his phone.
Sounds like you guys might have some trust issues that need to be dealt with. The best thing to do is talk and figure out if you guys can trust each other. If you can't, it's probably a good idea to consider moving on. Good luck.
From experience if he gets more than mildly annoyed that you went through his phone it's because he's hiding something. My ex would flip his sh*t when I snooped and he was cheating. My husband didn't like that I did it but didn't have anything to
Hide so he wasn't that bothered. Talk to him before you end the relationship. The cloud really is an @sshole and puts deleted things back all the time.
True he did deceive you, but I think you should let it be.
Unless you feel threatened by his history with his ex in some way. In that case it's probably better for both of you to move on.
It's nothing. Is it just in the camera roll or saved 2 something special? As long as her number isnt all ovr recent calls & texts & you're not finding hairs that you know are not yours don't trip. Just use a photo app to f*** w the photos have fun.
Guys like to look at naked stuff. Especially girls they know. Dnt know how old y'all are but you can be upset with him for lying bc that bs is just annoying. Smart phones have 2 many features to not end up w some questionable content from time 2time
Idk, no guy I dated was ever interested in looking at naked girls that specifically made me uncomfortable. And I've been asked not to do the same. It's fair. Everyone has different preferences, this isn't some innate male need.
I think there's also a difference between looking at porn and looking at someone you actually have been physical with in the past.
@femme- agree there too. Porn isn't so personal.
It is absolutely NOT an overreaction, and depending on how long you've been together I would pack up and leave too.
I've decided to do just that. I'm packing up tomorrow morning. Thank you for your support.
No problem. And I also don't agree with what people are saying about the cloud. Your cloud album is right next to your regular album and you can delete those pictures permanently in the exact same way you delete them from your regular album.
I am wondering what made you decide to look in his phone, and if this is something he normally is comfortable with you doing, but I feel your answer won't change my response on the matter.
There were some hot lezbo pics I was looking for :-)
Right now I'm so hurt, I want to pack up and be gone when he gets home but I don't know if it's an over reaction. It makes me question what other lies he's told me. :-(
Dump him. You won't ever trust again. Cut your loses now.
pictures do back up and, especially with iPhones, automatically end up back on the phone. I'm on android, but I've found blurry pictures that I'd deleted. but if you can't trust one another, there's no point.