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aj1545 Cat Lady
08/02/15 10:04 pm

Disagree. My mom is a single mother. I mean that. My dad is no dad. I see him maybe twice a year, though hes biologically my father.

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catpillow Florida West Coast
08/02/15 8:07 pm

I have to pick the cat; he's too cute not to pick.

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BusinessJustin Tamriel
08/02/15 8:29 pm

True statement, the best disagree option I have seen yet.

susanr Colorado
08/02/15 5:25 pm

Huh. I don't really get it. My daughter's father was "in" her life, but mostly from a distance, except for summers she spent with him and occasional visits. Most of the time there was no one else buying her clothes, making her meals, reading to her,

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susanr Colorado
08/02/15 5:27 pm

putting her to bed, taking her to the doctor, going to parent-teacher meetings, and on and on. I have utterly no animosity toward him for any of this - I was the one who took her far away; we're still good friends. And also we usually lived with

susanr Colorado
08/02/15 5:28 pm

other people, so there were others in her life.

But to say that I wasn't a single mother just sounds screwy, to me.

Ru12bseen Ignoring the Ignorant
08/02/15 9:06 pm

I think she means to point out more the women who declare themselves single mothers in a victim sense when in reality, the father is very involved. From what you've said, I'd say you were a single mother.

firefly5 the verse
08/02/15 10:19 pm

Right. I took "in their life" to mean "actively involved in their life and well-being, but not romantically involved with the mother."

firefly5 the verse
08/02/15 4:44 pm

Single + mother != single mother

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Ru12bseen Ignoring the Ignorant
08/02/15 9:05 pm

So, then the same for father?

aj1545 Cat Lady
08/02/15 10:05 pm

Yeah, if hes doing the day to day work of parenting.

firefly5 the verse
08/02/15 10:15 pm

Yes, very much the same. Single + parent != single parent.

NDAmerican Florida
08/02/15 4:21 pm

Exactly, this!

But I was tempted with that adorable picture of that cat.

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FemmeAdamWest in the Tardis library
08/02/15 4:17 pm

After seeing the first picture pop up on my news feed multiple times I've decided that people are taking two different meanings from the phrase "single mother"

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Ru12bseen Ignoring the Ignorant
08/02/15 9:07 pm

Agreed. There are drama mommas who declare themselves single mothers like its a badge but isn't true.

Rosebud Ohio
08/07/15 7:54 am

My new sister in law wouldn't let the dads of her two kids (one being my brother) be a part of the kids lives yet consistently went on about being a single mother. Interested to see what she says now that she and my brother are suddenly married...