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Reuters July 28th, 2015 4:34pm

I just found out that my girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me a few days ago. Have you ever been cheated on?

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CudOfCow Oregon
07/31/15 3:35 am

Not knowingly and I've never cheated on anyone. Sorry to hear...

CudOfCow Oregon
07/31/15 3:36 am

Keep your dignity though man. You don't deserve to be with such a shit head. Break it off and don't look back. Don't even waste your time feeling bad about it.

twss trump is a garbage human
07/28/15 7:18 pm

I'm so sorry to hear that. My advice: do what you know is best for you. If that's letting go of the relationship, let go. If it means giving it another shot and forgiving, do that. Whatever it is, don't ignore what your heart tells you. You'll know.

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Reuters Canada
07/28/15 8:33 pm

Thank you.

susanr Colorado
07/28/15 10:31 am

Not that I'm aware of. I'm really sorry you're having to deal with that.

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Reuters Canada
07/28/15 5:03 pm

I'm so lost. I never imagined it could feel this bad. She was my everything.

Ru12bseen Ignoring the Ignorant
07/28/15 5:20 pm

Mind if I ask what you mean by cheating? Some people mean different things. Also, have you two talked yet about it?

Reuters Canada
07/28/15 6:23 pm

She got drunk and went to a guy's hotel room and had fun times. The guy was her boss, I met him that same day when we all went to a county fair together. I'm stupid for not figuring that one out sooner.

Ru12bseen Ignoring the Ignorant
07/28/15 6:45 pm

Was there any indication it was coming? Does she seem sorry?

Reuters Canada
07/28/15 6:50 pm

Nope. It was completely a surprise. We were perfect earlier that day. She is extremely regretful and very apologetic. Idk what to do.

Ru12bseen Ignoring the Ignorant
07/28/15 8:30 pm

Seems like recovery and forgiveness if she's still in it.

Reuters Canada
07/29/15 6:03 pm

We talked today. We're trying that now, I hope I can get past it.

Ru12bseen Ignoring the Ignorant
07/29/15 6:24 pm

Ima give you advice that many would disagree with but that I truly believe. Don't let sex be the determining factor of the strength of your relationship.

Ru12bseen Ignoring the Ignorant
07/29/15 6:24 pm

If the strength and pillar of your relationship is the essence of the other person, it will last through things like this. Shit happens. Don't let it ruin something good if it is good. If it's not good, don't pretend. Life is too precious for that.

Reuters Canada
07/29/15 7:53 pm

I'm much happier now, we had a good talk. We still love each other and we're going to get through this with ease. We've always had a near-perfect relationship. Thanks got your advice! :)

TierasPet
07/28/15 9:44 am

Yes and I'm very sorry to hear you are going through that.

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