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SticksandStones March 19th, 2015 6:47pm

If you could change your sexuality, would you?

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KAnne Atlantic City, NJ
03/19/15 1:05 pm

Why in the world would anyone "come up" with "fake" sexualities? Pan means all, not a frying pan.

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GlockMan1 Alabama
03/19/15 1:27 pm

God made me who I am just like He wanted me.

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MrLucchese If curious, ask.
03/19/15 3:13 pm

I enjoy feeling attracted, love, sex, and being able to see someone in that way adds a level to the relationship, even if you never do anything with said attraction. It changes the dynamic a bit.

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KAnne Atlantic City, NJ
03/19/15 3:25 pm

Ah, the Godwin's law of homophobia!

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tdyakker lost
03/19/15 1:09 pm

Why would I? What's wrong with the way I was made?

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SticksandStones Stop fearmongering
03/19/15 11:48 am

No way. I can't imagine always (I'm exaggerating here, I think, but I wouldn't know) thinking about sex. I'd get a lot less done.

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SticksandStones Stop fearmongering
03/19/15 5:31 pm

I know that feeling. People have stopped dating me as soon as they find out I'm asexual (and I'm only 16). Luckily, my friends don't really care, and I can talk to them about it. I'm sorry you can't, that must be rough :(

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MrsCzarCastic
03/19/15 3:08 pm

Nope. I'm happy being heterosexual.

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MrLucchese If curious, ask.
03/19/15 12:05 pm

I would like to be pansexual, but I'm not. Being heterosexual isn't bad, though.

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fracy A deeper shade of blue.
03/19/15 12:10 pm

I'm fine being asexual.

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SticksandStones Stop fearmongering
03/19/15 5:04 pm

I'm not. Thought I was, but that's when I was like ten, haha.

SticksandStones Stop fearmongering
03/19/15 5:05 pm

I get it! But I'm sorry :( I've had it relatively easy, I think.

KAnne Atlantic City, NJ
03/19/15 5:08 pm

Jeeze I thought I was completely heterosexual until I was 19!

SticksandStones Stop fearmongering
03/19/15 5:16 pm

I mean, I thought asexuality was the norm for a long time, because we never talked about that stuff in grade school. Then I just thought I just had more control of my hormones, then I finally figured out I was asexual.

SticksandStones Stop fearmongering
03/19/15 5:17 pm

I haven't told many people, but those I have told have been supportive.

KAnne Atlantic City, NJ
03/19/15 1:15 pm

I don't know first hand but I don't think most people are constantly thinking about sex. Surely some of the time, but I think about my asexuality during the day so isn't that the same thing?

KAnne Atlantic City, NJ
03/19/15 5:19 pm

I have support, it just negatively affects my life.

SticksandStones Stop fearmongering
03/19/15 2:54 pm

Well I've heard that when people are attracted to someone, they imagine having sex with them. If you really like someone, that would be a lot of thinking, no? And what do you mean? I don't think about not having sex, but what else would that entail?

KAnne Atlantic City, NJ
03/19/15 5:19 pm

Oh yeah okay. Same here. I thought you meant terminology.

KAnne Atlantic City, NJ
03/19/15 2:57 pm

It's not exactly a cakewalk for me. (Puns!)

KAnne Atlantic City, NJ
03/19/15 5:27 pm

It makes me feel like an alien all the time. Constantly. And I can't date normally. I can't talk about these things with most people either, like straight people can, because they won't accept or understand it.

SunsetLeopard Still writing my story
03/19/15 11:57 am

Not permanently...but I've said a few times on here that I would do it for a day just to see.

MrsCzarCastic
03/19/15 3:11 pm

MrL, curious... Why would you like to change your sexuality?

MrsCzarCastic
03/19/15 3:14 pm

Interesting... Thanks for sharing your perspective :-)