I have an aunt who is mean, nasty and downright horrible to be around. Do you have a member of your immediate family who you avoid or don't like??
I avoid my crazy sister like the plague.
I have a cousin who is just an awful human being. She is hateful, nasty and very cocky. I avoid her like the plague.
My nasty aunt has a daughter who is a poor excuse for a human. I avoid this cousin too
We (my husband & I) avoid most of our family members. They're one or more of the following: hateful, drama-filled, selfish, jealous, user, manipulative, two-faced, lying, hypochondriac, infantile, delusional.
We only have a handful from each side that we want to be around.
My own mother, sadly. She's an intolerant, blasphemous individual.
Sad indeed, for you and her.