Which would you rather be with the knowledge that you can only have one and not the other.
It's better to have lost in love than never to have loved at all.
Man that's tough. At first I thought respected. Then I thought about what my life would be like without the love of my husband & children but then I realized my husband probably wouldn't love me if he didn't respect me.
The way I posed the question, you get one but not the other. So would you rather him love and not respect you or respect and not love you??? You can have one but not both for this exercise.
It came down to respect. If love doesn't have a foundation of respect then it's not a love worth having.
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