Have you ever been on a competitive team in which many members constantly whined about how bad the group was?
I was one of the complainers. It was a coed team ad the girls we had didn't really want to play, they just wanted to say they were on the team.
I have 2 girls on my team who are like that now. They are so annoying.
Maybe their complaining is legitimate. Maybe the group sucks.
Maybe. But in many cases, the complaining does nothing but create tears in the group.
No. The only competitive team I've been on was a swim team, and I don't remember any whining at all. We weren't great, but we were quite good as a group, & the group dynamics were supportive & pleasant.
Yep. Swim team. They're all a bunch of b******
Yea and I was chief complainer