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inge October 15th, 2013 2:56am

Have you found your true love (soul mate, best friend, woman/man of your dreams, insert other term here)?

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LilL44 Stuck In Suburbia
10/16/13 8:17 pm

Nope but I think I've still got a lot of time. More then 2 years or high school plus college and life after college so I'll be okay :)

Loadmaster Sacto
10/15/13 1:22 pm

I didn't know it when I met her, and I abused her kindness, her warmth, her trust, and a the relationship in its entirety. She lost all respect and love for me for a long time, and my friends recently revealed to me that I was visibly depressed during that time. I didn't know what I had...

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Loadmaster Sacto
10/15/13 1:25 pm

...and the path to reconciliation was the most painful walk I've ever made. I learned who she was during this journey. She's my best friend, she's the only love I could ever have, or want to have. She is my soul mate, and 5 years of mental and emotional anguish proved that to me.

bliggs Veni Vidi Vigor
10/15/13 12:59 pm

I've always been told that I didn't have to look for love, that it would find ME. I'm still waiting. Lol O.o

14573 Scary Numbers
10/15/13 10:42 am

Looking down binoculars held backwards.

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jms in the middle of Nowhere
10/15/13 7:09 am

Yep!! Been married for almost 22 years!!! We knew each other for literally hours when we both knew we were right for each other. We've had our rough times but we've had far more good!!!

Arya8
10/15/13 5:07 am

Yes. :) we have known each other almost 15 years (met online) and have been together just over 2. Celebrate second wedding anniversary in a couple weeks. <3

Rob Be Safe Be Smart
10/15/13 5:07 am

I had given up the search, until recently.

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Arya8
10/15/13 5:08 am

When I gave up the search and decided to become a crazy cat lady is when it happened for me.

theavgguy I.E.
10/15/13 1:01 am

Yes, it was a wonderful thing.

chickencookie It really is
10/15/13 5:14 am

I thought you were breaking up with him?

wiildkat Propertarian
10/15/13 8:46 am

Oh I'm not referring to him :/ but I haven't done it yet... I delay breaking hearts as long as possible.

chickencookie It really is
10/15/13 8:49 am

so your true love is gone or not in your life. Ive had a few of those myself.

wiildkat Propertarian
10/15/13 4:37 pm

Yeah. We were engaged, but he's no longer in my life. I know I'll find love again somewhere :)

EnderWiggin So disillusioned...
10/14/13 10:37 pm

Had my practice marriage and practice daughter @20. Left the former, took the latter. 5 years on, ran into "her" @ college. Ten years later, she's working @ a co-op five blocks from my apartment. Started dating. Ten years later, here I am in bliss.

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EnderWiggin So disillusioned...
10/14/13 10:38 pm

Side note: knew her in high school, but didn't ruin it by dating then.

Arya8
10/15/13 5:09 am

Very similar to my story in some ways.

listgarten SF Bay Area
10/14/13 10:01 pm

Back from my shower! What did I miss!

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Abolitionist Voice of the people
10/14/13 9:50 pm

I love women bad with a little touch of class

Abolitionist Voice of the people
10/14/13 10:10 pm

LOL. I like classy freaks

inge MIA
10/14/13 10:13 pm

Hey Abo. Always wondered...how old are you?

Minyanko Tumblr
10/14/13 9:45 pm

Nope. And Id be happy either way.

listgarten SF Bay Area
10/14/13 9:28 pm

I got it! Even got a pic of it!

zman117 Ohio
10/14/13 9:28 pm

BULL!!
So do I!

listgarten SF Bay Area
10/14/13 9:28 pm

Instagram it, lol
I'll Instagram mine right now too

PuppyLvr In love with Listgarten
10/14/13 9:29 pm

I saw who was first...

inge MIA
10/14/13 9:29 pm

It's like old times

PuppyLvr In love with Listgarten
10/14/13 9:30 pm

Sorry, list... Z got this one

listgarten SF Bay Area
10/14/13 9:30 pm

IPL FTW!
... And now I have to go take a shower. #worsttiming

listgarten SF Bay Area
10/14/13 9:31 pm

But me has pics! It's on Instagram, lol :P

PuppyLvr In love with Listgarten
10/14/13 9:31 pm

I know, I saw the pics... But I was reloading a lot because I was gonna go for the 100. Z was first

zman117 Ohio
10/14/13 9:32 pm

The numbers got all messed up!

inge MIA
10/14/13 9:33 pm

Oh z....*shakes head*

zman117 Ohio
10/14/13 9:34 pm

Nobody is talking to you, inge!

inge MIA
10/14/13 9:35 pm

It's all about ME, Z!

MrLucchese If curious, ask.
10/14/13 9:37 pm

She's got a point...

zman117 Ohio
10/14/13 9:38 pm

Yeah, I know...

listgarten SF Bay Area
10/14/13 9:25 pm

Zman is waiting for 100. Lol :p

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zman117 Ohio
10/14/13 9:27 pm

I don't do that anymore

zman117 Ohio
10/14/13 9:28 pm

Nope!
⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️⬆️

Zod Above Pugetropolis
10/14/13 9:21 pm

One of them. She'll do.

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zman117 Ohio
10/14/13 9:22 pm

So romantic

comppete Las Vegas
10/14/13 9:12 pm

Yes, As you may know, we will be together 37 years this December and married 36 years in December.

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brittani Support Our Troops
10/14/13 9:11 pm

I have but it's never going to happen unfortunately.

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inge MIA
10/14/13 9:18 pm

You are beautiful and sweet, you will find someone love

listgarten SF Bay Area
10/14/13 9:07 pm

Listy-poo? Puppylvr just made fun of me for you calling me that :P

listgarten SF Bay Area
10/14/13 9:08 pm

This comment supposed to be reply...

inge MIA
10/14/13 9:09 pm

I'm so sick and getting delirious. Don't mind me

inge MIA
10/14/13 9:10 pm

Haha, I call everyone "insert name-poo". Sorry, you aren't special

listgarten SF Bay Area
10/14/13 9:19 pm

I thought I had something special!

listgarten SF Bay Area
10/14/13 9:24 pm

What? Being acknowledged by Inge for being special is like a SoH rite of passage.

inge MIA
10/14/13 9:30 pm

lmao

vanguarde Kennesaw, GA
10/15/13 4:58 am

Van poo?
Doesn't really ring:..

inge MIA
10/14/13 9:04 pm

Hi Listy-poo. How are you?

listgarten SF Bay Area
10/14/13 9:08 pm

Listy-poo? Puppylvr just made fun of me for you calling me that :P

Mattwall1
10/14/13 9:02 pm

(Pulls out high level binoculars) hello (echo echo echo echo)

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listgarten SF Bay Area
10/14/13 9:04 pm

Binoculars don't amplify voice...

Mattwall1
10/14/13 9:05 pm

No, but they help me search. While calling out

Goldiemol dry side of WA
10/14/13 8:46 pm

Yes, yes I have and not at all who I would of thought but he is the one my soul loves. I would of laughed in your face if you would of told me he would of been the love of my life.

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inge MIA
10/14/13 8:53 pm

I love this

inge MIA
10/14/13 8:53 pm

I love this

inge MIA
10/14/13 8:52 pm

There you go again, being all cryptic

MrLucchese If curious, ask.
10/14/13 8:56 pm

Whoopsies... :P

listgarten SF Bay Area
10/14/13 9:01 pm

I get it ;)

inge MIA
10/14/13 9:05 pm

I feel like I'm missing something?

listgarten SF Bay Area
10/14/13 9:06 pm

Inge! At first I thought puppylvr posted that comment because she says that to me ALL THE TIME and she said it to Kyle yesterday on the Google+ hangout.
I wrote last comment thinking puppylvr wrote your comment, lol :P

MrLucchese If curious, ask.
10/14/13 9:13 pm

Haha... :P
Yeah, you guys don't know who I'm talking about in my comment.
List, you get up on time this morning? :P

listgarten SF Bay Area
10/14/13 9:15 pm

No, lol :P
Slept through my alarm, didn't end up taking shower :P

And I understand what you mean in your first comment. It's a guy thing...

listgarten SF Bay Area
10/14/13 9:16 pm

Confusing you, Inge? We should've invited her after OA was done... Kyle, I'm blaming you.

MrLucchese If curious, ask.
10/14/13 9:19 pm

No, List... You don't know who exactly I'm talking about. :P

I DID invite her... She just hates me.

listgarten SF Bay Area
10/14/13 9:24 pm

Not WHO maybe, Kyle... But maybe how?

Minyanko Tumblr
10/14/13 9:44 pm

WAIT

KYLE

LIST

DO YOU TWO KNOW EACH OTHER AWAY FROM THIS COMMUNITY

MrLucchese If curious, ask.
10/14/13 9:51 pm

Kind of? I mean, we follow each other on Instagram and we hung out with PuppyLvr and Jakecrs905 on Google Hangouts for like five hours last night, haha.

PuppyLvr In love with Listgarten
10/14/13 9:53 pm

I think it was 7ish... O.o

listgarten SF Bay Area
10/14/13 10:00 pm

But I left after 5 hours... Something about sanity and getting some sleep and school... You know

PuppyLvr In love with Listgarten
10/14/13 10:02 pm

Sanity is overrated!

musicfreak Loving Life
10/14/13 8:44 pm

I am still looking :) but he is out there.

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MaryMallory Mrs. Sherlock Holmes
10/14/13 8:42 pm

Yes. His name is Sherlock Holmes.

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inge MIA
10/14/13 8:40 pm

Yay

inge MIA
10/14/13 8:30 pm

There's plently of crazy out there.

Abolitionist Voice of the people
10/14/13 8:36 pm

I don't just want crazy; I want intellectual, street smart crazy. I may have found it though.

inge MIA
10/14/13 8:39 pm

Interesting mix of crazy

Evseng2
10/14/13 8:26 pm

In 2013, at age 20.. The girl that exemplifies my definition of true love (that I feel I'm in love with) is still being pursued, but I don't think I'll ever be able to call her mine

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LeDerpityDerp We are not our failures
10/14/13 8:26 pm

At age 18 I found him, and today I'm so happy to still have him.
I'm so very lucky. :)

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LeDerpityDerp We are not our failures
10/14/13 8:32 pm

Well.. Technically at 17, but I wasn't with him til I was 18 ;)

LeDerpityDerp We are not our failures
10/14/13 8:59 pm

19. We've been together over a year now :)

Kris Humidity Central
10/14/13 8:24 pm

I believe so, and with him no longer here I'd very much hope to gain find his equal someday.

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inge MIA
10/14/13 8:40 pm

I'm so sorry Kris

zman117 Ohio
10/14/13 8:17 pm

Yes but she lives all the way in damn California!

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inge MIA
10/14/13 8:21 pm

What a bitch!

zman117 Ohio
10/14/13 8:26 pm

Tell me about it!

inge MIA
10/14/13 8:27 pm

I'm sure she's soooo worth ditching Ohio for ;) :P

zman117 Ohio
10/14/13 8:32 pm

Well lets not push it...

inge MIA
10/14/13 8:35 pm

UGH. die alone then

zman117 Ohio
10/14/13 8:37 pm

Likewise!

inge MIA
10/14/13 8:42 pm

Maybe I will!

tenletters New York
10/14/13 8:16 pm

Ice cream and I are very happy together.

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Rosebud Ohio
10/14/13 8:16 pm

Yup! I got lucky and met him young. 7 years ago, and started falling in love with him immediately after we met the second time 6 years ago.

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Scrazzle Winter is Coming
10/14/13 8:16 pm

Had it and lost it. Most of the time I figure I won't find it again.

TheMadScientist the mad laboratory
10/14/13 8:22 pm

Not that same thing. Every love is different.

Scrazzle Winter is Coming
10/14/13 8:27 pm

I'm not getting my hopes up in any case. Agonizing over it is, well... Agonizing.

inge MIA
10/14/13 8:12 pm

Forever alone should be a legally acceptable marital status :)

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MisterE Conservistan
10/14/13 8:27 pm

I can't picture you being forever alone.

inge MIA
10/14/13 8:30 pm

It's self inflicted. I'm enjoying it

MisterE Conservistan
10/14/13 8:33 pm

At least you don't want both things at the same time.

inge MIA
10/14/13 8:36 pm

I still don't get what that means

MisterE Conservistan
10/14/13 8:36 pm

I'm cray cray.

inge MIA
10/14/13 8:40 pm

Yes. Yes you are

MisterE Conservistan
10/14/13 8:03 pm

I'm hoping she's out there somewhere. She might even be right under my nose.

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Rosebud Ohio
10/14/13 8:14 pm

She could. I couldn't stand my husband at first (and vice versa). We "met" a second time, didn't know then it was the annoying person we knew before and have been together more or less since.
My brother also has known his gf for years, they've been dating for 1. Had no relationship interest before.

rlands
10/14/13 8:03 pm

I have a bunch of loves, but not one true one, I don't think. But I do have a best friend that I didn't even have to find, she was just there.

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Gill81 Burque
10/14/13 8:03 pm

No and I'll probably be looking forever.

musicfreak Loving Life
10/14/13 8:45 pm

Not true. Someday you will find someone. Just keep looking and taking chances.

SaintAnger sumkindamonster
10/14/13 8:02 pm

I think so, but I don't believe Emma Stone knows who I am. I'll keep looking, for now.

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inge MIA
10/14/13 8:05 pm

One day Anger...one day

pipes
10/14/13 8:06 pm

I seriously don't get this Emma stone obsession. I heard her mentioned a bit in your poll the other day Inge.

SaintAnger sumkindamonster
10/14/13 8:09 pm

I believe I was part of that! I just like redheads and find her very attractive... Even as a blonde.
I also like my responses to be linear. This one was a joke. The other one was more of a real answer.

aurealis the sky
10/14/13 8:00 pm

Forever* looking

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Statek Im from the Internet
10/14/13 7:59 pm

I may be a lot closer than I think or there already, but I can't be sure right now, so I'm still looking

MisterE Conservistan
10/14/13 8:09 pm

*Plays a recording of George Takei saying "Oh my."*

MisterE Conservistan
10/14/13 8:09 pm

*Plays a recording of George Takei saying "Oh my."*

Ghostreconss mars
10/14/13 8:14 pm

It's not how it sounds I promise, haha.

Mattwall1
10/14/13 7:58 pm

Still looking

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Mattwall1
10/14/13 8:09 pm

I'm define toy hoping she's out there somewhere.

Mattwall1
10/14/13 8:32 pm

Definitely* stupid autocorrect.

violence Pretty hate machine
10/14/13 7:57 pm

I'm inclined to think so.

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