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Mattwall1 October 14th, 2013 7:21pm

Girls: What is the most romantic or generally most memorable way you were asked out or asked someone out?

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TheMrs09 Texas
10/16/13 9:47 pm

When my husband and I first got together he actually asked if I would be his girlfriend. He was 18 and I was 16. I thought it was the sweetest thing ever. All the other guys asked "do you want to go out?" Ok go out for what? Pizza?

Arya8
10/15/13 5:14 am

I've never been asked out in some amazing way. Just be casual and yourself. Seriously. If she doesn't like it, someone else will.

Reneezii Exodus 20. 8 to 11
10/15/13 3:19 am

My ex was a rock wall climber and we went rock wall climbing for our first date and he was at the bottom holding my rope (idk what that's called, lacky?) and when I was coming down, he made me hang there about 2 feet off the ground and held my hand..

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Reneezii Exodus 20. 8 to 11
10/15/13 3:21 am

.. And asked if he could have the pleasure of being my boyfriend. Then when I said yes, he let me down and kissed me. I loved it! Very creative. Especially the part where he didn't ask me to be his girlfriend but asked me if he could be my boyfriend.

Reneezii Exodus 20. 8 to 11
10/15/13 3:22 am

Also, after I already said yes, he told me if I had've said no, he wouldn't have let me down and would've just left me hanging there lol.

Reneezii Exodus 20. 8 to 11
10/15/13 3:28 am

And this was our first date but I knew him a while beforehand which is why I went through with the kissing. But if you don't do anything special, at least ask her if you can be her bf instead of her to be your gf. She'll definitely remember that!

Mattwall1
10/15/13 6:22 am

That is romantic no doubt about it.

leilu SoCal
10/14/13 9:15 pm

I answered private but that's only because I can't remember!!! My engagement however was spectacular ... small countryside castle overlooking rolling hills in Scotland.

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leilu SoCal
10/14/13 9:59 pm

It was pretty awesome! Then as our first anniversary (paper) gift we bought a 1400's map of Scotland. If the house catches fire, we're grabbing that map off the wall!!!

Mattwall1
10/14/13 10:02 pm

That sounds awesome. Did you hear about the independence referendum they're having soon?

leilu SoCal
10/14/13 10:06 pm

No, but I'll look into it. Thanks! Good luck with your date. I said below but I think you should just be casual and go for coffee. Try to find out before hand what she drinks and order for her before she gets there. Details like that go far.

Mattwall1
10/14/13 10:36 pm

I haven't asked. I'm honestly keeping tabs in what is the right thing so I don't so something rash.

spring27 California
10/14/13 6:51 pm

"You wanna grab a coffee?" I said yes, and we closed the shop down talking the night away. Another guy asked me out to a hockey game, that was cool. Oh, and asking to go on a hike was a really good one. Stayed with that guy for three years :)

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Mattwall1
10/14/13 7:19 pm

So just try casual

leilu SoCal
10/14/13 10:00 pm

I think this is the way to do it!

rlands
10/14/13 5:15 pm

I'd stick with the "hey wanna go out sometime?" Keep it casual, don't make a big deal about it.

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megomez712 Vagabond
10/14/13 5:15 pm

Yeah... Still waiting on this one...

Mattwall1
10/14/13 5:15 pm

You've never been asked out?

megomez712 Vagabond
10/14/13 6:03 pm

Every time I went out with someone it was with a guy I was already dating and it was never romantic

Mattwall1
10/14/13 4:25 pm

Fell free to share this. I want to get as many perspectives as possible.

Scarlett50 Missouri
10/14/13 2:59 pm

We were out with a group he was one of the drivers, looked at me and said "you're riding with me" . Kind of "caveman" but HOT!

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cornybread The Large Malus Fruit
10/14/13 2:17 pm

I can tell you what's NOT romantic - getting a drunk text asking if yu wanna chill

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Kris Humidity Central
10/14/13 1:57 pm

Forced him up against a wall, kissed his face hole and said "I like you" and walked away.

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Mattwall1
10/14/13 2:08 pm

Isn't that assault?

Mattwall1
10/14/13 2:17 pm

Yeah.... I'm never doing that to a girl

Kris Humidity Central
10/14/13 2:18 pm

Oh, yeah. Don't do that to a female, that would likely be looked at as assault.
There was build up to that moment between he and I though, it wasn't that bad as it seems

LeDerpityDerp We are not our failures
10/14/13 1:22 pm

Honestly? None of my exes nor my current boyfriend asked me out in a special way.

susanr Colorado
10/14/13 1:06 pm

I can't remember anything very special. That doesn't mean I'm keeping anything private; just that there isn't anything to tell.

musicfreak Loving Life
10/14/13 12:37 pm

Yeah, I don't really ever get asked out. The closest I have come in some guy just going hey wanna go with me and some of my friends to eat... Yeah romantic.

Mattwall1
10/14/13 9:51 pm

Did you at least enjoy the date or whatever you'd call it? And wait, forgive me for forgetting, you're in high school, thighs? (I'm just curious)

Mattwall1
10/14/13 9:51 pm

Right* not thighs. What is wrong with autocorrect

Goldiemol dry side of WA
10/14/13 12:32 pm

I don't remember how my husband asked on our first date but I remember he was always observant of everything and put things back where he got them. he helped fix my computer for me. He uses a mouse with his left hand switched it back before leaving

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Goldiemol dry side of WA
10/14/13 12:35 pm

It should of been a sign that his organizational skills would eventually get on my nerves as I can't live up to them. I still find it endearing, though slightly necrotic.

I believe he asked me out on IM or by e-mail, before texting.

JennaAwesome Book Lover
10/14/13 12:32 pm

I've never been asked out :(

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tash97 viva la vida
10/14/13 4:39 pm

Join the club...

Mattwall1
10/14/13 5:12 pm

Well, I'm on the male side of that line, but may I join the club?