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MountainMan82 February 7th, 2019 10:08pm

Is it weird to be attracted to women that are a lot more mature than someoneโ€™s age? Asking for a friend.

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RussianThunder Russia and USA
02/11/19 11:13 am

There’s a fairly big age difference in my parents (father’s older) but my mom says, “You go where your heart leads you”. She dated guys her own age but her heart led her to my father. She says “yup, it shocked her too”. My dad saw fireworks but didn’t think a woman like my mom would be interested in him. He was wrong.

So, if their heart takes them to an older person, it’s fine.

To clarify though, if you are a perv and are 40 and your heart takes you to a 10 year old, seek help, don’t follow it.

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Robert01 existentialist
02/08/19 5:46 am

Someone's got a crush on Stacy's Mom.

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Axl752 NY
02/08/19 5:30 am

Milf is the most popular search term in pornhub.

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MountainMan82 Pacific Northwest
02/08/19 10:20 am

lol you’d know that

GeezerGolf Show us your papers
02/07/19 6:41 pm

Tell your friend that “no man is owner of his instincts.”

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GeezerGolf Show us your papers
02/08/19 11:24 am

Oh, yes, I forgot the rest of Eli Weisel’s quote, “...but, we have to try.”

SuperAgain They lie, Get Over It
02/07/19 4:43 pm

“Asking for a friend” ...everyone knows what that really means. ๐Ÿ˜‰

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orgblu10 Shamerica
02/07/19 3:54 pm

Tell your friend that once you're an adult, you're an adult, and if you're relating to other adults, stop using age as a criterion for anything. We are who we are. We like who we like. And if somebody doesn't like it, it's their problem.

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MountainMan82 Pacific Northwest
02/07/19 3:55 pm

Ok I will thank you

Krystina Let Freedom Reign
02/07/19 3:12 pm

Happens all the time. Since I hit 40, I can’t believe the amount of 20 somethings and 30 somethings that hit on me.

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MountainMan82 Pacific Northwest
02/07/19 3:14 pm

Well ig that’s a good thing

MountainMan82 Pacific Northwest
02/07/19 3:15 pm

Women get better looking the more they age it’s like wine ๐Ÿท someone told me that once

Krystina Let Freedom Reign
02/07/19 3:22 pm

I’m good with that. ๐Ÿ˜

MountainMan82 Pacific Northwest
02/07/19 3:25 pm

I’m in my prime if you can even say that. In 10 years I’ll probably be 300 something pounds and depressed. Hopefully not but most men don’t care about themselves after high school or until their 30s.

Krystina Let Freedom Reign
02/07/19 3:30 pm

That’s a recent development... recent as in the last few decades.

Krystina Let Freedom Reign
02/07/19 3:37 pm

The culture of America is changing. Men used to be career driven, many working blue collar jobs that would keep them fit. Whether blue or white collar, they had to work hard to be able to get a woman and then to be able to take care of their families.

In other words, we had gender roles that were healthy for both men and women.

Now we have 3rd wave feminism which is encouraging girls and women to achieve and strive for greatness and doing absolutely nothing to encourage boys and men. So, men are getting lazier, not working as hard, not staying in shape, etc.

MountainMan82 Pacific Northwest
02/07/19 3:38 pm

Maybe in the 50s and 60s but men now usually don’t care. I think it’s a society thing

MountainMan82 Pacific Northwest
02/07/19 3:41 pm

I think it’s great women want to do more but you’re right about how it’s changed we should work as hard too not get lazier because women are succeeding that’s stupid

Krystina Let Freedom Reign
02/07/19 3:41 pm

That’s my point. There’s a cultural shift that,
IMO, has been brought on predominantly by third wave feminism. It’s not a change for the better either.

Krystina Let Freedom Reign
02/07/19 3:43 pm

If you’re interested in self improvement, I recommend listening to lectures by Jordan Peterson or reading his book, 12 Rules for Life.

MountainMan82 Pacific Northwest
02/07/19 3:45 pm

I’ll take a look at that I know who he is he’s pretty cool but never heard of his book

MountainMan82 Pacific Northwest
02/07/19 3:46 pm

I’m sorry for being hard on myself I just can’t get a girlfriend and have never had one and I keep thinking I’ll never find anybody and if I do I’ll screw up like the only time a girl liked me

MountainMan82 Pacific Northwest
02/07/19 3:47 pm

Yeah ig I’m not really against feminism but I think there needs to be a place for masculinity and understand that it’s not bad

Krystina Let Freedom Reign
02/07/19 3:56 pm

It’s okay to be against feminism... today’s feminism. It’s horrible for both genders, IMO.

If you listen/read Dr. Peterson, I think you might help yourself. If you help yourself be all you can be, you’ll be deserving of a good woman. And honestly, the competition is not nearly as stiff as it used to be among men. So, you do some self improvement to the point that you’re happy with yourself and you’ll find someone. And, if you self improve enough, you’ll even get to be picky about who you choose to be with. ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ

MountainMan82 Pacific Northwest
02/07/19 4:00 pm

Yeah I know but I’m not against the core feminism like equality like pay and job availability. I’m kinda picky but kinda not I like thin and thick women and my age and older which when I say old that’s good not bad and idk I have this girl I like but I’m taking things slow and she likes the feminist movement so....

Krystina Let Freedom Reign
02/07/19 4:06 pm

Yeah, if I were a young male, I would steer soooo far away from any self identified feminist, I can’t even tell you. I consider self identifying as a feminist today to be a huge, massive red flag of man hatred and potential sexual assault charges. But, that’s just me and I’m immensely against the current feminist movement. I find it toxic, extremely toxic. I don’t, however, find masculinity to be toxic.

MountainMan82 Pacific Northwest
02/07/19 4:09 pm

Well she doesn’t talk about it but she was defending it when I told her it was bad and she changed my mind and this was before I liked her but she doesn’t have short hair or rage she’s actually somewhat conservative so idk Lol I think it’s just rebellion against her strict parents

Krystina Let Freedom Reign
02/07/19 4:11 pm

Well, you gotta do you, hon. I’ve given you my thoughts on it.

MountainMan82 Pacific Northwest
02/07/19 4:14 pm

I appreciate them very much โ˜บ๏ธif it doesn’t work out with her I’ll be done with love

Krystina Let Freedom Reign
02/07/19 4:21 pm

No. No. You’re far too young for that. And you know the old saying, there are truly plenty of fish in the sea.

Krystina Let Freedom Reign
02/07/19 4:25 pm

I don’t know? Would you date you? What do you have to offer? What do you bring to the table for a partner? View it from the other person’s perspective. If you feel you’re a good catch, then you’re probably a good catch. If you don’t think you are, what do you have to do to make yourself a good catch?

MountainMan82 Pacific Northwest
02/07/19 4:29 pm

Well no since I’m a guy lol but idk I’m funny and laugh a lot which people like I’m always trying to be nice and respectful and make others happy I like to joke around but I’m a tad over weight I’m not the biggest around but I am y’all I’m 6,2 but idk other than my personality I’m nothing but a fat slob