Time to liven it up. What is one thing you would absolutely never reveal on a first date? Inspired by the attached article. Let’s see if we can do this without getting all partisan.
I did your sister. 😮
Lol I think XXX said something similar below.
My exes, politics, religion
The amount of debt I have
I had my first kiss and lost my virginity on the same night
To the same person?
I hide my tentacles until the third date.
I wouldn’t talk about my ex.
In a normal dating situation, that is if I wasn’t already married, I can’t think of a single thing.
I’m asexual, autistic and don’t like people. I don’t date.
I'm married. 😂
There was a time long long ago when you were dating. Lol
True, but if I went on a first date tonight, I definitely wouldn't inform the woman that I was married.
Oh. Lol. I’m running on a delay today!
True story Ron. Gotta keep that on the down low
I would never talk about my sexual history, politics, religion, my job or fight club. I understand things have changed since my last date in 2005. If you’re out for the sex, by all means, take your dates temp. You’ll know quickly. It was always a turnoff for me because the crop of guys I was getting from match and yahoo personals back in the early millennium, were sketchy at best because online personals weren’t as mainstream. I didn’t do them for long. I didn’t like to hear about exes, stds, desperation for a girlfriend, or when guys would tell me what they thought I wanted to hear.
Sorry for the bad link and I did something in my settings where I unclicked notifications, thanks @susanr and @GrandmaAlice for reposting link.
I’d say just about anything if it fit the conversation. I suppose if I had sex with one of her relatives I may hold back until the second.
I would never tell them how many sexual partners I’ve had or that I’ve smoked pot. I would also never talk about my exes.
Sex... I’m not the kind of girl to even discuss that or our sexual histories on a first date. When I was dating last year, I was stunned by how many wanted to discuss it so early.
My friend went out with a guy that asked her on the third date if she was into something sexual. I think that’s appropriate to wonder given that she made out with him the previous two dates. Lol
But not the first date or before the first date
& let’s not forget the guy who wanted me to agree to meet him & give him a BJ with even sharing our last names
Or the guy who after our first meeting & me telling him that I wasn’t interested sent me a video of him masturbating! 😱
I didn’t even hug him goodbye! These guys are nuts!
Lol I love your stories. There was the one time i gave my little bro keys to my apartment so he could use my laptop. He opened up and saw a dick pic on my messenger. Lol
That’s so horrible. There’s no way I’d make it in the dating world.
Honestly, I learned to laugh about it, but I quickly got tired of it & I was ready to give up on dating when God sent me David.
I really hope it works out for the two of you.
Thanks. I do, too.
Well David sounds like a prince among men from what you’ve said and you deserve that after the battlefield you just described..lol
Thanks! He’s a good man! I’m a blessed & happy girl!
I usually never talked politics on a first date.
I'd rather not discuss politics, but avoiding anything else would depend on her own history and the vibe of the conversation. It would be different with different people.
I want to say that I was divorced. That isn’t it. My wife knows I was divorced before.
Number of exes
At this point, I don’t really think I’d consciously hold anything back. Other than to maintain social mores of course.
First date, I might try to avoid the whole anti-imperialist thing. But it wouldn't take more than a second date for that to be revealed. Hell, it's such an important part of my identity, I've gotten super bad at hiding it.
Depends on why I'm dating. If it's just for fun then I doubt I'd reveal much, if anything "personal".
But if the goal is to meet a partner then I don't think anything is off the table. I wouldn't want to just throw things out there but if the date goes well I wouldn't have an issue being open about who I am.
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Thanks, GA. I read it.
I would never reveal my financial situation.
I would hesitate to tell the person how many different women I had been with.
That should come out at sometime, but not the first date.
Probably too soon to delve into my sexual fetishes
Coffee an onions aren't sexy for most.
You should probably wait until the end of the second date before the bill comes.
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