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MrsCrayonWax June 3rd, 2018 1:49am

Time to liven it up. What is one thing you would absolutely never reveal on a first date? Inspired by the attached article. Let’s see if we can do this without getting all partisan.

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MrsCrayonWax
06/05/18 1:17 pm

Lol I think XXX said something similar below.

daverator Connecticut
06/04/18 11:39 am

I had my first kiss and lost my virginity on the same night

Squidboy Snarkapottamus
06/04/18 10:15 am

I hide my tentacles until the third date.

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Zod Above Pugetropolis
06/03/18 11:18 am

In a normal dating situation, that is if I wasn’t already married, I can’t think of a single thing.

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RussianThunder Russia and USA
06/03/18 9:20 am

I’m asexual, autistic and don’t like people. I don’t date.

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ronderman North Carolina
06/03/18 9:13 am

I'm married. 😂

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MrsCrayonWax
06/03/18 9:20 am

There was a time long long ago when you were dating. Lol

ronderman North Carolina
06/03/18 11:34 am

True, but if I went on a first date tonight, I definitely wouldn't inform the woman that I was married.

MrsCrayonWax
06/03/18 1:10 pm

Oh. Lol. I’m running on a delay today!

bluerum29 optimistic idealist
06/04/18 1:49 pm

True story Ron. Gotta keep that on the down low

DunkinFrunk Austin area, Texas
06/03/18 6:46 am

Financial information

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MrsCrayonWax
06/03/18 5:50 am

I would never talk about my sexual history, politics, religion, my job or fight club. I understand things have changed since my last date in 2005. If you’re out for the sex, by all means, take your dates temp. You’ll know quickly. It was always a turnoff for me because the crop of guys I was getting from match and yahoo personals back in the early millennium, were sketchy at best because online personals weren’t as mainstream. I didn’t do them for long. I didn’t like to hear about exes, stds, desperation for a girlfriend, or when guys would tell me what they thought I wanted to hear.

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MrsCrayonWax
06/03/18 5:42 am

Sorry for the bad link and I did something in my settings where I unclicked notifications, thanks @susanr and @GrandmaAlice for reposting link.

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xxxceo Nationalist
06/03/18 4:48 am

I’d say just about anything if it fit the conversation. I suppose if I had sex with one of her relatives I may hold back until the second.

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snagglepuss Story Time
06/02/18 10:46 pm

I would never tell them how many sexual partners I’ve had or that I’ve smoked pot. I would also never talk about my exes.

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BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
06/02/18 9:57 pm

Sex... I’m not the kind of girl to even discuss that or our sexual histories on a first date. When I was dating last year, I was stunned by how many wanted to discuss it so early.

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MrsCrayonWax
06/03/18 5:53 am

My friend went out with a guy that asked her on the third date if she was into something sexual. I think that’s appropriate to wonder given that she made out with him the previous two dates. Lol

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
06/03/18 12:51 pm

But not the first date or before the first date

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
06/03/18 12:52 pm

& let’s not forget the guy who wanted me to agree to meet him & give him a BJ with even sharing our last names

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
06/03/18 12:54 pm

Or the guy who after our first meeting & me telling him that I wasn’t interested sent me a video of him masturbating! 😱

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
06/03/18 12:55 pm

I didn’t even hug him goodbye! These guys are nuts!

MrsCrayonWax
06/03/18 1:09 pm

Lol I love your stories. There was the one time i gave my little bro keys to my apartment so he could use my laptop. He opened up and saw a dick pic on my messenger. Lol

lcamino Florida and Georgia
06/03/18 5:41 pm

That’s so horrible. There’s no way I’d make it in the dating world.

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
06/03/18 9:07 pm

Honestly, I learned to laugh about it, but I quickly got tired of it & I was ready to give up on dating when God sent me David.

lcamino Florida and Georgia
06/03/18 9:50 pm

I really hope it works out for the two of you.

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
06/03/18 10:38 pm

Thanks. I do, too.

MrsCrayonWax
06/04/18 4:49 am

Well David sounds like a prince among men from what you’ve said and you deserve that after the battlefield you just described..lol

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
06/04/18 9:43 am

Thanks! He’s a good man! I’m a blessed & happy girl!

imanag My heaven on Earth
06/02/18 9:33 pm

I usually never talked politics on a first date.

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orgblu10 Shamerica
06/02/18 9:10 pm

I'd rather not discuss politics, but avoiding anything else would depend on her own history and the vibe of the conversation. It would be different with different people.

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cpaswr just say the letters
06/02/18 9:01 pm

I want to say that I was divorced. That isn’t it. My wife knows I was divorced before.

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jlong105 Indiana
06/02/18 8:36 pm

Number of exes

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benseth 11,780 votes
06/02/18 8:17 pm

At this point, I don’t really think I’d consciously hold anything back. Other than to maintain social mores of course.

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DoctorWasdarb Marxist Leninist Maoist
06/02/18 8:15 pm

First date, I might try to avoid the whole anti-imperialist thing. But it wouldn't take more than a second date for that to be revealed. Hell, it's such an important part of my identity, I've gotten super bad at hiding it.

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LazySteelworker USA
06/02/18 7:35 pm

Depends on why I'm dating. If it's just for fun then I doubt I'd reveal much, if anything "personal".
But if the goal is to meet a partner then I don't think anything is off the table. I wouldn't want to just throw things out there but if the date goes well I wouldn't have an issue being open about who I am.

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EarlyBird Portland
06/02/18 7:03 pm

The link won’t open.

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orgblu10 Shamerica
06/02/18 9:11 pm

Thanks, GA. I read it.

EarlyBird Portland
06/02/18 7:01 pm

I would never reveal my financial situation.

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Nik
06/02/18 6:54 pm

I would hesitate to tell the person how many different women I had been with.
That should come out at sometime, but not the first date.

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CoffeeNow Powderpuff Leftist
06/02/18 6:52 pm

Probably too soon to delve into my sexual fetishes

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CMChristian gone
06/02/18 7:26 pm

Coffee an onions aren't sexy for most.

MrsCrayonWax
06/03/18 5:41 am

You should probably wait until the end of the second date before the bill comes.

ProudAmerican44 New Joisey
06/02/18 6:52 pm

The article isn’t working..

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ProudAmerican44 New Joisey
06/03/18 2:44 am

Thanks susanr!