Dating and relationships poll: What are the qualities in a significant other that you look for?
Beauty, kindness, God fearing, Christ following, ambition, intelligence
Not a feminist bitch (probably none out there who aren't anymore), looks, has a job and car etc, doesn't smoke, and better be down to fuck. I know im probably asking too much, but thats why im happily single and dont want to give up my freedom for a relationship, it would be a downgrade tbh.
Loyalty, respectfulness, kindness, intelligent, sense of humor, patience
Personality, loyalty, intelligence
I’m old and been married over 40 years. But here is what I can’t stand in men. It’s that false bravado thing. Where they’ve done it all and know it all. Also hate any signs of being over controlling.
Smart, open, likes kids, goal oriented, and able to put up with my shit (This is the hard to find quality).
Relationships aren’t awesome if they are about nouns. I don’t want a person. I want a verb - to play, to watch, to be.
Honesty, Kindness, Able to laugh at themselves & employed
She needs to be compatible both in politics and religion.
Healthy (takes care of self)
Good taste in music, intelligence, good morals etc.
Also a singer. We can sing our way to a relationship just like my grandparents had danced their way to marriage.
Smoking hot bod, just kidding, reasonably attractive or cute will work.
Required: Physical Attraction, Catholic (with strong faith), sense of humor, wants kids, good person
Preferred: Intelligent, into sports, likes guns
No-goes: Liberal, facial piercings, obese
Shared values, life goals, and a complementary personality type. If you have those things in common, you have the best foundation for a successful relationship.
I think you should also feel an attraction for each other, but I found that while I was very attracted to my wife when I married her (and I still am), my love for her has grown even though we are getting older and aren’t as attractive as we once were.
Sense of humor. Intelligent. Kind. Empathetic. Can keep up with my sarcasm (and preferably give it right back to me!). Loving. Honest.
Good sense of humor, likes to do the same kind of things.
kindness, sense of humor, a bad boy glint in his eye, confidence, dependability, willing to talk and listen.
Physical attractiveness, a good moral compass, a strong work ethic, maturity, open-mindedness, willingness to commit.
I dont know, but whatever those qualities are, my wife embodies all of them. I love this woman.
Someone who understands the difference between flirting and friendly
Just someone who can make me happy
Only you can do that
She Walks In Starlight
She walks in starlight of another world
In a realm forbidden to me
Except for borrowed time, when,
Unknown to all, she is with me
Between night and the hues of dawn
When the world is gifted sleep
Where the sky carpets the earth
That is where she awaits me
She bears with her the sorrow
Of separations from unknown
She kindles warm promises
Of tomorrows to behold
She is all colours of the rainbow
She is pristine driven snow
She is gentle soft rain
To my parched yearning of yore
And when the storm ravages
I rush to the cliffs o’er the sea
Where the rolling mists surround
She beckons only to me
Across time, through ages
Her dancing eyes sing to mine
Of hope, peace, quiet - until I awaken -
Grasping at wisps of memories.....L.A.C. 5/21/2017.....143-41.....
Not a dick
Able to compromise
My most important issue is non aggression. Sweet, calm, even tempered, lovely, whatever you call it.
I had a few mostly short stormy relationships, and am tired of it.
Not sure why short tempered and sometimes clingy (the combo is awful) people are attracted to me. I am not your shrink.
The main ones for me:
Compassion, a good listener, honest, loyal and a great kisser
Kindness, acceptance, humor. I want a beautiful soul more than a beautiful face, luckily I have both.
Wish I knew. Seems the ones I’m into the most are the ones I never thought I would be.