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voc November 14th, 2017 5:28pm

Should women dress modestly to make it easier for men to control their lust?

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bluerum29 optimistic idealist
11/15/17 6:39 am

No, bring on the good scenery. And while they are at it, women need to start looking at us more.

voc I am...what I am
11/15/17 6:49 am

Lol! I don’t know about that. I can’t blame a woman for not wanting to look at a guy. Guys are all hairy and lumpy in the wrong spots. Women are the opposite.

bluerum29 optimistic idealist
11/15/17 7:07 am

I'm not lumpy. Only a little hairy, not all over. Like a nice little prize in the basket

voc I am...what I am
11/15/17 8:48 am

You’re lumpy in the wrong spot. The crotchal area.

LibertyLover Pokemon 201461036800
11/15/17 4:59 am

No, they should dress modestly because they respect themselves and demand respect from others.

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FIAT2LUX On Planet Earth
11/15/17 2:53 am

No. Modesty varies from culture to culture from being naked to being completely covered. Men’s lust is our own responsibility. Don’t shunt it to women.

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Zfilakas Eleftheria i Thanatos
11/14/17 8:12 pm

Hell no.

Don't be afraid to show a little ankle around these old foagies!

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lcamino Florida and Georgia
11/14/17 7:47 pm

Women should dress appropriately for the occasion, and should have self respect.

TomLaney1 Jesus is Lord
11/14/17 7:43 pm

Yes. Dressing provocatively is inconsiderate.

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Zod Above Pugetropolis
11/14/17 7:17 pm

I'd very much rather they didn’t.

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Suzan Hawaii
11/14/17 4:51 pm

I think women should demonstrate their self worth

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Louderthebetter
11/14/17 3:43 pm

I knew this would be a goody.
Remember the time the abortion riot went well over 1000 posts🤬🤮people were so pissed.
Awesome!!

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Maat wisdom listens
11/14/17 3:38 pm

Absolutely not!

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mpurple oh no. trump won.
11/14/17 3:37 pm

I dress the way I do because it makes me feel attractive. If someone looks, including other women, I take it as a compliment.

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Louderthebetter
11/14/17 3:40 pm

Generally, women dress for other women, MO.

Men are gonna look no matter what, we all know this 👀can’t govern the eyes, Unless you’re on the Handmaids Tale.

mpurple oh no. trump won.
11/14/17 3:52 pm

True. I’m actually more flattered when I get a compliment from women than men.

Louderthebetter
11/14/17 3:54 pm

Right?! Because we speak the truth.

voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 3:56 pm

Absolutely right. You could be wearing a turtle neck and a floor length skirt and we’d look.

MrEdwin Mystery
11/14/17 6:06 pm

I have stared at some lumps hidden under a turtle neck, guilty.

xtarite
11/14/17 3:26 pm

No, but they shouldn’t gets passed when someone looks at their exposed skin

mpurple oh no. trump won.
11/14/17 3:34 pm

I don’t get passed when people look at my skin 😂

liam2013 iowa
11/14/17 3:06 pm

No. Men should grow up.

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martyt02
11/14/17 2:37 pm

Yes...if dressing “modestly” means keeping your breasts and bum covered. If it means being covered from fingertips to toes with no skin exposed, no...men will just have to learn to practice restraint.

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ProFreedomBruhh
11/14/17 2:22 pm

Yes, they absolutely should. They always dress like sluts and get mad when men look. It's getting out of hand.

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voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 2:40 pm

So who would you have police that? How are you looking at them that’s causing them to get mad? Is it their fault you can’t control where you look?

voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 2:41 pm

And your name says pro freedom, but your comment says otherwise. 🤔

MrsCrayonWax
11/14/17 2:55 pm

Why did you ignore voc? He’s not a woman.

Louderthebetter
11/14/17 3:11 pm

Pro, why do you hate women? Do you not have a good relationship with your mom?
You went crickets on Voc🦗
Finally the cricket⬆️

MrEdwin Mystery
11/14/17 1:11 pm

Lol no, I enjoy the view.

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rons Thanks America
11/14/17 12:58 pm

Women dress for other women. So if the trend is to dress like a nice lady then that’s what will happen. See what’s trending in fashion.

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Louderthebetter
11/14/17 3:47 pm

Spot on rons👍🏼

Zach21 California
11/14/17 12:57 pm

Women should dress however they want to in public as long as it's legal

LeftLibertarian The Age of Outrage
11/14/17 12:53 pm

What a vile world view that’s an insult to both males and females.

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ItsYourBoy Roman Empire
11/14/17 12:20 pm

They should dress modestly not for men but themselves

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voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 12:29 pm

What would that look like to you? What should they wear in your mind?

makem Chinese Xinjiang Camp
11/14/17 12:20 pm

While women don't have to, it certainly is a cause and effect situation.

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makem Chinese Xinjiang Camp
11/14/17 12:19 pm

Should men wear clothes to make it easier for women to control their lust?

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voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 12:28 pm

I do all the time. You see chicks dig me so I have to wear baggy clothing so they stay off me. It doesn’t work. They just want me more. It’s a curse I tell ya.

MrsCrayonWax
11/14/17 12:42 pm

You need to cover that face mane of yours. You’re tempting the women! 😂

voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 12:44 pm

That is the worst. They are all up in my beardness!

MrsCrayonWax
11/14/17 12:48 pm

Beardness! Lol

rons Thanks America
11/14/17 12:55 pm

Voc, I’m with you on dressing down. I was wearing lowrider jeans and tightie whities since 1962. Wife always said to pull my pants up.

makem Chinese Xinjiang Camp
11/14/17 2:03 pm

Rons, you found yourself a good wife from the sound of it

rons Thanks America
11/14/17 2:55 pm

Yep, but she really should stop calling me droopy draws.

Radon Parts Unknown
11/14/17 11:20 am

Women should just dress modestly. Not to excuse offenders. In the summer, many of them wear shorts that show their ass cheeks. It's getting out of hand.

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Louderthebetter
11/14/17 12:18 pm

Radon, you should watch The Handmaids Tale. You’d like that society.

Radon Parts Unknown
11/14/17 12:24 pm

You joke about how I want some dystopian society. Yet I see the components of A Brave New World be set up more and more everyday.

voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 12:27 pm

Don’t look at their asses. That’s a you problem, not a them problem.

Radon Parts Unknown
11/14/17 12:31 pm

Alright, and I'll just have half my dick showing, not all of it though. Gotta keep the imagination running. Then when anyone gets mad, I'll tell them to just not look at it. It's their problem not mine.

makem Chinese Xinjiang Camp
11/14/17 12:32 pm

Radon, it sounds like they want you to go blind

voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 12:37 pm

Show all your dick. I don’t look at guys crotches anyway. I’m able to contain myself.

voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 12:44 pm

You’re right. I’d be grabbing that dick like it was a $100 bill!

Radon Parts Unknown
11/14/17 12:46 pm

I'm sure everyone else would be fine with grown men walking down the streets naked where their daughters can see.

voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 12:54 pm

They wouldn’t, but guys can walk down the street wearing just a pair of shorts and not many people bat an eye. What would happen if a woman did that? Why do we sexualize a part of the body that was originally built and designed for food storage and consumption?

I do it too, I’m just wondering why?

Radon Parts Unknown
11/14/17 1:17 pm

I'm openly against men walking around shirtless. I believe across the board, preferably and shouldn't be enforced by violence, that people should at least wear mid thigh shorts and a teeshirt

makem Chinese Xinjiang Camp
11/14/17 1:59 pm

Radon, I completely agree. Men shouldn't be walking around shirtless. The same standards should apply to men and women

makem Chinese Xinjiang Camp
11/15/17 5:09 am

I believe in true equality. Equal treatment for everyone. I believe that this manifests itself as the same treatment when there is no legitimate reason why it shouldn't be the same.

voc I am...what I am
11/15/17 8:49 am

So since it’s acceptable (to most people) for guys to go shirtless, it should be for women? I’d go along with that.

snagglepuss Story Time
11/14/17 11:16 am

Should men wear suits?

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voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 12:26 pm

Yes! Guys in suits are hot!!

Except me. I should be able to wear T-shirts and shorts 24 x 7 to show off my sexy calves.

Louderthebetter
11/14/17 2:44 pm

Voc🤣😂
Boys are making me laugh today.

JackTorS Rest in peace my friend
11/14/17 11:15 am

No. Women should be able to dress however they want wherever they want without the fear of being harassed.

I should also be able to park my $80,000 sports car in any neighborhood without the fear of having it stolen, vandalized or stripped to the frame.

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thaisoccerfan MAGA
11/14/17 11:34 am

Ah the utopia

chinito Florida
11/14/17 12:04 pm

I agree Jack. They should be allowed to do whatever they want. Nevertheless, It might not always be a good idea.

voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 12:19 pm

That’s a totally different question.

JackTorS Rest in peace my friend
11/14/17 12:44 pm

The principle is exactly the same.

snagglepuss Story Time
11/14/17 11:12 am

Hell no! Women aren’t to blame for men’s character flaws. They need to stop objectifying and sexualizing women. We have brains!

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voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 11:13 am

Liar! You do not have brains! I only see boobs and butts!!

snagglepuss Story Time
11/14/17 11:17 am

Well if you would stop yanking on your brain you would see clearly!

Louderthebetter
11/14/17 11:24 am

Snaggle😂
Men’s small brain check mates👑their big brain daily
Men stop objectifying women?🤣😂
My first lol of the day.
Isn’t gonna happen.

snagglepuss Story Time
11/14/17 11:27 am

Deny thy youthful lusts!!!
😉

voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 11:29 am

Which brain is my small brain? Sometimes their both pretty small, but only when it’s cold

snagglepuss Story Time
11/14/17 11:30 am

I was in the pool!

Louderthebetter
11/14/17 11:32 am

Seinfeld🤣😂🤗

Louderthebetter
11/14/17 11:35 am

Like a frightened turtle🐢

snagglepuss Story Time
11/14/17 11:36 am

Poor little fella lol

MrsCrayonWax
11/14/17 12:08 pm

Definite shrinkage

Louderthebetter
11/14/17 12:10 pm

Hi🖍right?!

voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 12:11 pm

Jerry Seinfeld was just in my home town on Friday.

Louderthebetter
11/14/17 12:16 pm

No kidding! He and Chris Cornell kept me alive in the early 90’s
He and Dana Carvey are my comedic hero’s.

voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 12:17 pm

I saw him last time he was here. That was 16 years ago. He was hilarious.

voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 2:49 pm

Hey can any of you see the user profreedombruhh who posted above closer to the top? I responded to him and I think he ignored me. Would anyone mind asking him what’s up with that?

voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 2:57 pm

Thank you!

Louderthebetter
11/14/17 3:08 pm

Ahhhh haaaa, I see🧐
Good point.
I got your back.

jfish82285 Tennessean in Colorado
11/14/17 11:10 am

Of course not. That’s stupid. If I’m on a diet, I wouldn’t demand other people not eat fattening foods.

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TheMadScientist the mad laboratory
11/14/17 11:08 am

Half the time I'm not looking at the butt - I'm seeing if there is a usable pocket anywhere!

Come on, ladies need pockets, too!!

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voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 11:13 am

A pocket so they can hold your wallet or cellphone or things like that like my wife makes me hold all her stuff?

anniepoops fear the deer
11/14/17 11:07 am

You should control your lust.

I can walk past shirtless dudes without staring and making them uncomfortable. I don’t harass them either. 🤫🤭

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voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 11:12 am

Really?? I can’t. Shirtless dudes are awesome! I usually go over and start touching their bare chests and maybe tweaking their nipples.

anniepoops fear the deer
11/14/17 11:23 am

I always really, really want to twist their nips. I even am tempted to comment if their ass is fire. Why shouldn’t I? He’s asking for it going shirtless.

Something comes over me, voc. How can I stop it and just release my lust/bad behavior? 😏

snagglepuss Story Time
11/14/17 11:30 am

I like to tug at their chest hairs and do a slap and grab of their ass! 🤡

anniepoops fear the deer
11/14/17 11:38 am

Honestly, they would shave if they didn’t want you to. They wouldn’t workout if they didn’t want people gawking at their abs. Duh!

voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 12:16 pm

I 100% agree! They are asking for it!

anniepoops fear the deer
11/14/17 2:25 pm

Mluts! Woo, I just created that.

snagglepuss Story Time
11/14/17 2:35 pm

Sounds bad lol

anniepoops fear the deer
11/14/17 3:35 pm

Lol it represents their moral decrepitude 😛

elfangor USA
11/14/17 11:02 am

Women shouldn’t dress like sluts, but men should be able to control themselves regardless of what a woman wears.

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voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 11:06 am

But do you want to put something in place to stop women from dressing like sluts?

MrsCrayonWax
11/14/17 11:27 am

What defines slut?

ProudAmerican45 North Joisey
11/14/17 10:52 am

You should see Easter Sunday at my Catholic Church..it looks like the Real Housewives of New Jersey..I️ think it is disrespect in the house of God..

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ProudAmerican45 North Joisey
11/14/17 10:56 am

But in general..if women feel like they need their boobs hanging out to be noticed..I️ say live and let live..and men should behave themselves around it..

Louderthebetter
11/14/17 10:51 am

I just showered. Think I’ll put on my knee high socks and high heels to head off to the grocery store👠ya know to tempt men🙄

Great question for arguments sake.

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Metamorphosis
11/14/17 10:48 am

This seems a lot like a Christian version of Sharia Law. It feels like we are heading in that direction.

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MrsCrayonWax
11/14/17 11:28 am

I didn’t want to be the one to say it but it seems men can’t take responsibility so because anything a woman wears can turn a man on, let’s put em all in burkas!

thaisoccerfan MAGA
11/14/17 11:37 am

Ironic how ignorant you are of the extremity of sharia law 😂

MrsCrayonWax
11/14/17 11:53 am

Women are allowed to be immodest under sharia?

thaisoccerfan MAGA
11/14/17 11:55 am

Not what I said. I was responding to the original response. Stoning and mercy killing I don’t think are appropriate connections to draw to this

MrsCrayonWax
11/14/17 12:07 pm

The premise is that women need to dress modestly lest a man will give into temptation and assault them. Sounds a lot like sharia.

thaisoccerfan MAGA
11/14/17 12:10 pm

Except for cutting off hands, throwing gays off buildings and other extreme things. That’s what I’m saying. Sharia is an extreme conclusion to draw here. Not agreeing or disagreeing with the idea of modest dress. Just saying it’s a tad extreme to complete these

voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 12:15 pm

The comment was they were heading in that direction, not it is that way now. I’m sure that some where, some Christian wouldn’t mind seeing a woman stoned to death or a gay thrown off a building.

thaisoccerfan MAGA
11/14/17 12:17 pm

That’s a horrible thing to allege about anyone. Honestly you must be ashamed of that.

thaisoccerfan MAGA
11/14/17 12:18 pm

And trust me no one wants to head that way. I would bet most Christians wouldn’t agree with this plan to begin with. Much less to associate it with the most oppressive society against women in history.

voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 12:36 pm

Lol! I’m not even a little ashamed. You come into my poll on this thread and comment that mrscrayonwax and metamorphosis are ignorant of sharia law, then seem completely ignorant of how the human mind works when I say there’s probably a Christian who want to see women stoned and gays thrown off buildings. There are people who claim to be Christian that would advocate this thought. Just like there are the God hates fags people.

You should be ashamed that you can’t see that.

And yes most Christians wouldn’t, but there are certainly some who would love to have a law that says women need to dress modestly.

MrsCrayonWax
11/14/17 12:38 pm

You’re right. They do everything in their power to spout off against sharia while still systemically finding ways to keep others down, calling it religious liberty. Don’t believe me? Look around.
1. Women who have abortions should
Be given the death penalty (any reason for the abortion will do).
2. Gays and transgenders are mentally ill and should be treated with love and not indulged in their mental illness.
3. Gay conversion camps (mike pence).
4. Women should never be president, pastor, or in any lead position over men.
5. Flag burners should be jailed.
6. 1a should not extend to anything which directly contradicts the faith.
And then there is this on rape:
• Testimonies of 4 male witnesses are required to prove rape of a female.
• A woman or girl who alleges rape without producing 4 male witnesses is guilty of adultery.

MrsCrayonWax
11/14/17 12:38 pm

Look around at all the good Christians who’ve character assassinated Roy Moore’s accusers.

No, they may not throw gays off building or stone people to death but they are still pretty damn oppressive.

voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 12:39 pm

But yet I should be ashamed. Smdh....

MrsCrayonWax
11/14/17 12:39 pm

And the rape comment was from sharia. I tied it in with what’s going on with any female accuser of good Christian men of power.

shygal47 Florida east coast
11/14/17 1:10 pm

Ahhh Mrs C - you described my dear sister to a T. I love her dearly but we do not see eye to eye and never have. Now in our 70s, we just love each other - flaws and all.

MrsCrayonWax
11/14/17 1:34 pm

Shy, I’m very much not like this in my real world life. Looping s kOslxa

MrsCrayonWax
11/14/17 1:36 pm

Toddler hit send.

I’m pretty much live and let live in my everyday life. I’m sure most here are. With the exception of a handful, people generally reserve judgement for the privacy of their homes and generally don’t speak like this in public. Since being on this app I’ve become more disgusted with what Christianity is being represented by. It’s certainly not all people but a vocal minority is enough to sour more than a few people.

shygal47 Florida east coast
11/14/17 2:30 pm

That is what I tell my sister. For literally YEARS I have said to her “Judge not lest ye be judged”. Works for a couple days at least.

Tariq88 Utah
11/14/17 10:42 am

No. Modesty from both and women is a good thing, but regardless of how women dress men should mind their business and behave.

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Tariq88 Utah
11/14/17 10:43 am

Men and women*

Hogoke Constitution
11/14/17 10:42 am

They can dress however they want, they should know however men might take notice to them if they don't.

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voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 11:05 am

Yup. But in the same respect, men should know to look only, not touch.

SticksandStones Stop fearmongering
11/14/17 10:42 am

Why can't everyone just dress modestly?

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voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 11:04 am

Exactly! Turtle necks for all! Actually a big boobied woman in a turtle neck is HOT!!

orgblu10 Shamerica
11/14/17 10:39 am

Please tell me it's not Groundhog Day.

voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 11:04 am

Babe...I got you babe....

orgblu10 Shamerica
11/14/17 11:22 am

If the polka band comes on, I'm outta here...

snagglepuss Story Time
11/14/17 11:32 am

Roll out the barrel! 🎶🎵

Louderthebetter
11/14/17 3:36 pm

We’ll have a barrel of fun🤣

Louderthebetter
11/14/17 3:36 pm

I need to laugh today.
Another damn mass shooting.
I Can’t Take It‼️

Nemacyst No Lives Matter
11/14/17 10:35 am

This user is currently being ignored

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MrsCrayonWax
11/14/17 10:30 am

Sure. After all, the strong man is not strong enough to control himself. A woman who doesn’t dress modestly is clearly tempting men or inviting sexual harassment. Yeezus, are we living in the Middle East with this thinking? Who said this?

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voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 10:35 am

No one said this. It was implied.

jfish82285 Tennessean in Colorado
11/14/17 11:12 am

Well, it was said later on in a comment, voc.

MrsCrayonWax
11/14/17 11:24 am

Said, implied, I’m disturbed.

voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 12:12 pm

It was said later? In that same poll?

jfish82285 Tennessean in Colorado
11/14/17 1:06 pm

Unless I’m remembering incorrectly, that’s what the fellow said in a comment thread started by me.

voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 1:15 pm

Good grief....

bower8899 ...
11/14/17 10:30 am

Hell no. Men should control their list on there own.

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voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 10:34 am

I’ll bet you can guess what inspired this

bower8899 ...
11/14/17 10:35 am

I was there

voc I am...what I am
11/14/17 10:29 am

Inspired by real SOH events!

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MrsCrayonWax
11/14/17 10:30 am

Like an episode of law and order!