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Praetorianus November 7th, 2017 6:32am

SOHAH: the rare late night adult topic question: is heavy petting (stroking etc, possibly to orgasm) sex, or does only actual intercourse count as sex?

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DrCarpenter Florence, Italy
11/07/17 7:52 am

I find this question interesting because it brings virginity into question. Does losing ones virginity equate to sex/sexual encounter or penetrative sex? If it's penetrative sex, do lesbians not lose their virginities?
I would consider "heavy petting" with my current bf to be sex. But if someone were to ask about the first time I had sex and losing my virginity, I would respond with the first time I had penetrative sex, but not my first sexual encounter.

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lj74
11/07/17 7:06 am

That’s a Bubba Clinton-type question! šŸ˜‚

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bluerum29 optimistic idealist
11/07/17 6:40 am

It's sexual acts, but not sex.

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UniversePlan Michigan
11/07/17 6:25 am

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DrCarpenter Florence, Italy
11/07/17 7:40 am

No, but I wouldn't want my husband kissing or even holding hands with my neighbor, either.

ronderman North Carolina
11/07/17 8:33 am

Exactly Dr. There are lots of things I don't want my SO doing with my best friend that does not count as sex.

FarmerManE djent
11/07/17 6:00 am

Its not the same price

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Liberty Lets Use Logic
11/07/17 4:38 am

Sex is sex. Things other than sex are...well...not sex.

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chinito Florida
11/07/17 4:34 am

It depends on what the meaning of the word 'is' is...

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zimmy Florida
11/07/17 4:53 am

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phalnx Ohio
11/07/17 1:08 am

It's all sex. If you're patient and in-tune with their arousal level, you can actually give them stronger orgasms with petting than with coitus. Of course, I consider cumnilingus a form of petting.

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Praetorianus Fair enough.
11/06/17 11:42 pm

Then Lesbians never have sex šŸ˜ø

crazyjane New Jersey
11/06/17 11:46 pm

They can have “sex” but not coitus

Praetorianus Fair enough.
11/07/17 12:00 am

That's my point, sex doesn't equal coitus imo.

Praetorianus Fair enough.
11/06/17 11:35 pm

I'm amazed that in poll comments of a similar topic, petting wasn't considered sex by some.
I think any sexual activity, especially when having orgasm as a goal (though this isn't a must), is in fact sex.

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