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berdgoldberg May 15th, 2017 6:39pm

Option 1: Smoking hot and successful SO who is narcissistic and is only with you as a 'toy'. Option 2: unattractive beaten down SO who is financially and emotionally dependent but really loves you.

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inge MIA
05/15/17 3:36 pm

Narcissists can often be abusive. I'd take number 2 any day.

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mpurple oh no. trump won.
05/15/17 2:46 pm

This is super tough. I keep going back and forth on it.

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badattitude no place like home
05/15/17 1:17 pm

Ah, why can't I have the smoking hot that really loves me. Why would I be with an emotional wreck? Life's to short and I'm not a therapist.

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BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
05/15/17 5:46 pm

You already have a smoking hot wife that loves you!

RussianThunder Russia and USA
05/15/17 12:46 pm

Neither. Absolutely neither

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BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
05/15/17 12:20 pm

So my choice is being used or using someone... I don't want either... I guess option 2, but both situations eventually suck emotionally on both sides!

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Suzan Hawaii
05/15/17 12:14 pm

Neither are good choices

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CoffeeNow CCP virus
05/15/17 12:08 pm

I'd rather be single

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CoffeeNow CCP virus
05/15/17 12:20 pm

But gun to my head...option 1. And I just invest nothing in her so I'm not disappointed

Brandon2018 Stocks Are Overvalued
05/15/17 11:51 am

First half of option 1 and second half of option 2.

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berdgoldberg
05/15/17 11:42 am

Neither is not an option

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skinner Wisconsin
05/15/17 11:42 am

If it's not a real relationship, then there's no point. I'd take a flawed partner who cares about me over a perfect partner who doesn't care any day.

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berdgoldberg
05/15/17 11:42 am

You're married in this case

skinner Wisconsin
05/15/17 11:47 am

All the more reason to pick the spouse who actually loves you instead of one who will you as an object for the rest of your life.

berdgoldberg
05/15/17 11:55 am

Agree. Woman I used to work for was basically option 1, narcissists are no joke, never saw the husband but always imagined his life must be hell