Option 1: Smoking hot and successful SO who is narcissistic and is only with you as a 'toy'. Option 2: unattractive beaten down SO who is financially and emotionally dependent but really loves you.
Love over all else for me.
Narcissists can often be abusive. I'd take number 2 any day.
This is super tough. I keep going back and forth on it.
Ah, why can't I have the smoking hot that really loves me. Why would I be with an emotional wreck? Life's to short and I'm not a therapist.
You already have a smoking hot wife that loves you!
I do. Thank you.
Neither. Absolutely neither
Play with me !
So my choice is being used or using someone... I don't want either... I guess option 2, but both situations eventually suck emotionally on both sides!
Neither are good choices
I'd rather be single
But gun to my head...option 1. And I just invest nothing in her so I'm not disappointed
First half of option 1 and second half of option 2.
Neither is not an option
If it's not a real relationship, then there's no point. I'd take a flawed partner who cares about me over a perfect partner who doesn't care any day.
You're married in this case
All the more reason to pick the spouse who actually loves you instead of one who will you as an object for the rest of your life.
Agree. Woman I used to work for was basically option 1, narcissists are no joke, never saw the husband but always imagined his life must be hell