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fire4life July 10th, 2013 3:21am

A close friend you talk to on a daily basis, all of a sudden, hasn't attempted to contact you. It's been 3 days. If they finally talk to you, do you ignore them and give them a piece of their own meds, or do you go on as if your soul wasn't crushed?

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askmenething Buffalo, NY
07/10/13 3:30 pm

If he/she had not contacted me, why didn't I try to contact him/her rather than getting upset?

fire4life Narnia
07/11/13 6:45 pm

Haha bc it's their turn to contact you. A relationship is give and take. I'd like to see some effort on the other end every now and then :) haha

stickman46 NJ
07/10/13 11:10 am

Get over it life is toooooooo short.

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bonemedic Texas
07/10/13 3:33 am

I would try to understand, there may have been something going on in their life- maybe they were just really busy...

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kc17 Minnesota
07/09/13 10:41 pm

I would go on and be kind, however I would try my best to show how I felt.
I had a best friend who I literally talked to all of the time and we helped each other through everything. Then he got a gf and I dropped off the face of the earth. This was

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kc17 Minnesota
07/09/13 10:42 pm

A little bit more than a year ago, but he did text me a couple times randomly throughout the year, but all sense of true friendship had left. I never told him how I felt and I totally regret it because I miss him a ton. Tell that person how you feel

kc17 Minnesota
07/09/13 10:43 pm

And mend it when you can!! Its too late for me and I wish I had. Thats my advice anyways. :)

fire4life Narnia
07/09/13 10:55 pm

Wow! I'm sorry you lost your friend :/
That's good advice though :)

kc17 Minnesota
07/09/13 10:55 pm

Glad to help! Any time. And yeah, I'm sorry too.

fire4life Narnia
07/09/13 8:52 pm

You guys are so uplifting, seriously :) its incredible

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Keldeo Laverre City
07/09/13 8:44 pm

Lol, 3 days? Not really too long :-)

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fire4life Narnia
07/09/13 8:49 pm

Haha any time is too long :)
But you're right. 3 days isn't that long but it's very odd

Keldeo Laverre City
07/09/13 8:50 pm

Just know there is probably a good reason, and you are not the problem :)

mtbRIDER Gone riding...
07/09/13 8:44 pm

Always be the bigger person... Especially until you know what's going on.

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fire4life Narnia
07/09/13 8:48 pm

That's been my specialty through my years haha. It's hard sometimes though. But I'm starting to worry a little

dramaschick All ways in my head
07/09/13 8:41 pm

I would go on but I would share how I felt. Because how else would they know

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fire4life Narnia
07/09/13 8:47 pm

Yeah. That's a good idea too :)

MrEdwin Mystery
07/09/13 8:37 pm

I'm a forgiving person.

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fire4life Narnia
07/09/13 8:47 pm

Me too. I usually just let it all roll off and start over

susanr Colorado
07/09/13 8:23 pm

I would assume something had happened, not necessarily connected with me. I might worry about them.

fire4life Narnia
07/09/13 8:30 pm

Me. Too.