Your spouse/so has quite a few friends you don't particularly like. He/she throws you a surprise birthday party. All of the hated spouse/so friends are there. Your reaction?
Be nice. His heart was in the right place.
If SO/spouse knew I disliked these people then silently fuming until after the party when we would have a l-o-n-g talk. But if they didn't know, I have no one to blame but myself and I would bite the bullet. And then still have that long talk. :)
My husband only has one friend that I don't like. I had a birthday party last year. (I rarely want one.) He knew better than to invite that guy. It's my party & there should only be people there that I like.
I'm lots of fun when I'm happy. But had he invited that guy, I wouldn't have been so silent about my fuming. For his birthday, he can have whoever he wants over. But, he also wouldn't throw me a surprise party. He's just not that guy.
As long as my Wife is happy it don't matter to me.
I'd make the best of the situation and talk to (not accuse) my spouse later
Did they bring me presents? Seriously, if my friends/family were also there it would be ok.
It takes a lot for me to not like someone. Honestly, I'd probably just go with it and try to have an enjoyable time. If I really didnt like them, I'd try to spend most of the time with the people I cared snout
*cared about,... Whoops
No worries...I too have some friends that are pigs. lol
...I have no idea how that came out...
My only excuse is alcohol...
I'll drink to that!
I'm really easy going and friendly, the ones I don't talk to, do so because they don't like me. I'll have a beer with anyone, friend or not