Show of Hands

What about a guy getting caught checking out a woman's chest or behind? Same principle, I believe. There are those who will be offended, yes, but many will also think, a compliment is a compliment, no matter who it comes from.

Agreed.

I agree, Beach. I'm not attracted to every male, even. The question was intended to be phrased in an unbiased manner.

I'm not certain I agree with that idea, just yet. But honestly, I am extremely modest (usually).

I don't blame you but in Europe, they probably wouldn't think twice about it.

True...good point to bring up.

I'm with twss.. However.. As a guy, I want to agree all 100% with you thinkaboutit

It wouldn't bother me to have a unisex restroom...locker room I am a little hesitant on.

You made me spit out my coffee!!! LMAO!

Pizza, what a heartwarming story.

Ah, Zod. Ever the voice of reason :)

Kinda what I thought too.

I agree, Tops.

Ha! Yeah they talked about him this morning as well.

Exactly

They're gay, not perverted predators.

I am pretty sure gays are sex crazed perverts that should be kept separate from normal society

It's not about being attracted to someone. Many Men would feel uncomfortable having a naked woman in the same locker room. Having a gay man in there is equivalent.

Common, my husband made the same point. But I do think most women wouldn't care and most men don't appear to either, at least from this poll.

Pizza, I assume you're kidding.

I agree. I cannot imagine being upset by a lesbian in my locker room.

...Women's sexuality is very fluid, and bi experimentation is not just accepted but encouraged. To me, a woman seeing me naked doesn't bother me, but a straight male does. Also, with men, their sexuality is black and white, or at least...

...society encourages it to be. Men don't get a free pass to experiment with their sexuality the way women do. The conclusion to this convo was that my husband said he would feel uncomfortable being naked or showering in front of a gay male, but...

...also would feel equally uncomfortable in front of a straight woman. My thinking is that part of that goes back to the fluidity or non-fluidity that society allows in the sexuality of each gender. I am curious to see how this poll comes out...

...because neither my husband or myself are anything but 100% supportive of the sexuality of others, as long as it involves consenting adults, of whatever gender. But his response surprised me. I am wondering if many men feel this way.

I really think it's more of a man thing.. Men have that testosterone that makes them more of a predator. My TOPS group went out of town a couple years ago. My husband was sure this one lady had the hots for him. I told one of my friends

We laughed so hard we almost got sick.

Tops, you crack me up ;) I asked my husband if his discomfort stemmed mostly from modesty (since he would be uncomfortable showering in from of straight women and gay men alike), and he took a sec and then said that might be his reason. He's not...

...full if himself, for sure. But I guess he might have a point. He did say that separate locker rooms for gay/straight athletes were unnecessary.