Have you ever had a same-sex experience?
That's what she said..
I dated a couple girls in high school but I guess I prefer men.
All of my firsts were with women.
First kiss, love, relationship, sexual experience, orgasm
I find it interesting that I ended up with a man. Could have easily married a woman. I suppose I vibe with the male persuasion a bit better
Why weren't you here last night?! Ugh... );
I definitely missed out!
You can still share the details. You wouldn't hear any complaints from me! ;)
Aside from such, how are you doing? (:
I'm great, Ty :)
And ask whatever you like. I'm an open book
Hehe, I'm just kidding. :) I mean, I'm just rather curious as to what it's like to have done those things in the past and then decided to marry a guy. I have zero feelings of any kind towards men, so it's not like I have any first-hand knowledge.
Tiz a good question... I like girly girls for the looks, but prefer the butch attitude.
Never met a girl with both qualities, that I really vibed with (basically someone like me) I'm like a guy trapped in a chicks bod.
Plus I'm quite fond of the male appendage. ;)
My ideal relationship would be with a man AND a woman, but that rarely works unless its a sexual fling.
Hehe ;) As I pointed out below, I feel that people, regardless of gender, have potential to be both dominant and submissive. I know exactly what you're saying, though. It becomes a balancing act between which traits and which body parts you prefer.
I feel that most people, like yourself, can satisfy the needs of another person in a great many ways - emotionally, mentally and obviously physically. For some, it's natural. For others, it's learned. Since I can't speak from experience, all I can go
by is what runs through my head.
We all like what we like. And usually for different reasons.
I knew I was attracted to women from a very young age. Not sure exactly why.
Haha, same here. ;) It because they're perfection. (Don't tell the guys I said that, I'll be kicked out of the male community.) I don't want to say that I'm a feminist, since that doesn't make sense and it's extreme, but I'm certainly a very big
advocate of women. They're awesome. :) personally, I understand them much more than I understand men. I'm the guy who gets dragged into "girl talk" sessions since I listen and help them as best I can, and they know I'm not just looking to he laid. :P
Men can and absolutely should be feminists too. We're your mother, sister, gran, aunt. And feminism should NOT be about male bashing. It's about empowering women. We should only bash the men that disrespect women & I'd like to think that's a small %
If that's the case, then I would say I'm a feminist. Although their bashing of men isn't completely unjust. Sometimes, the things I see and hear in regards to my male "counterparts," angers me and makes me ashamed to be grouped into the same group.
Mainly things like my experience at Yankee stadium, among a plethora of others.
I've met some disgusting, disgraceful, make-u-ashamed-to-be-the-same-species, pieces of sht, but that's no reason to hate all men. That's we're some feminists get a bad name.
I definitely agree. They get a bad name, mainly because a relatively small percentage of extremists - as is the case with most schools of thought or belief.
..I'm sure you'd complement anyone you're with.
Hahahaha, you couldn't be more wrong. I try not to judge people, but I don't compliment people unless if they're deserving. :) If you do, the compliments become less meaningful.
Oh, replying to Moo42Q, you had your chance MrLucchese =p
And thank you Miss! X thats nice of you to say. Ive always had very mutually fulfilling relationships (and i've tried many variations) that worked quite well
Sounds like all pleasure and fun ;) imagine that's how the experience with a woman is..
Ive been with some amazing women. Its definitely a lot more sensual in the sense that we know how foreplay and the vagina works :)
*Poor guys, its just a shot in the dark until we teach you
..wow, when you say it like that, I'm definitely missing out..
I heart all of you. There's some good convos on this question. SOHAH is my fav!
I <3 You, too ..and will continue to poll in SOHAH, especially if it's highly rated!
OK one thing I do remember, when I was in high school I had some friends. They were bored and somehow it got to I dare you to kiss the other guy. Of course you cannot say no to that, so they kissed and it wasn't just on the cheek, it was all in.
The crazy part was they liked it or maybe they were bored, who knows, but they continued and repeated more than once.
Sounds like you had fun in high school! Or torture. You know, matter of perspective..
We had a lot of fun. This was quite a memorable experience and I was in the audience only.
This was also the time when same sex marriage was legalized in Denmark. I think you can guess what 14 year olds would discuss.
Oh, being in the audience does sound like more fun than torture m.
More like what happens afterwards. It was a very new concept when it was made legal in '89. We also discussed in it school a couple years later. One guy said out loud in class that he fully supported it, because that would leave more women to him.
That is true. I like this guy. Coming up with smart statement all the way back in '89.
It was probably a couple years later, we were 14 in '89, but yes that was classic.
Thank God for SoHAH. I need this, should be fun to read.
Oh and sorry no interesting personal stories here.
Your head might explode after reading certain threads, I'm warning you to proceed with caution!
LOL someone already hitting on me ☺
Sorry not my thing
I know how you Danes are.. Well, some of y'all I guess
Niz, still on first page and I'm already ready to explode ;-)
Don't say I didn't warn you, sir!
Yes you did and I should have listened, now I need some cold water, think I may need to take it in chapters ;-)
How Danes are?? Yes there's nothing better, ha ha
I need to try a Dane.
Inge I have told you, you are welcome here any time.
If you are looking for women I may be able to help you out too, but it requires a longer trip
Missin out, Inge
Lol. no more women for me, I'm growing boring in my old age. I'll just take you ;)
And you are not old, I'm quite sure I'm much older than you, and I don't want to be called old.
I know I'm not old. I'm kidding. only 26.
Yes very young and a very good age btw
My divorce is aging me quite fast mentally though. how old are you?
Sorry about that, hope you can look forward to the day it's over.
And why do we know have to discuss age. I'm 38-ish and I don't like I'm closing in on 40.
Perfect age :)
Yeah I love it, life doesn't end at 30 for sure. Only thing is just that everyone at my age have settled down with family etc. and I'm still running around like I was 20.
Yeah...a handful of times. there is just something about a beautiful woman...
Oooooh la-la miss Inge!!!!
Scandalous AND fabulous all rolled into one
Yeah... You're telling me... Just something about them. More like, everything. :P
Lol. Women are just softer and gentle. Don't get me wrong, I love men and being dominated...but when I can be submissive with a woman....holy cow.
Inge, I think it's that women can be versatile, and switch between dominating and submissive ..put to women together and it's an explosive combination!
I'd like to think that guys can be both, as well. Personally, I have no actual, physical experience, but my personality lends itself to being both dominant and submissive in other aspects of life. I believe it has to do with how you're "taught."
Men can definitely be dominant and submissive heh.
Yes absolutely, I like playing that role. Not all women know how to handle that.
Which role, Tom?
The submissive man
It's the flexibility that makes same-sex experiences work! ..probably couldn't handle a submissive man too much, just need a man who can relax a little and not be too overpowering ..however, could have enough to be slightly dominating with a woman..
Exactly. It's about balance, and figuring out how to please your mate best! It doesn't matter what gender they are - a good lover will please their partner in the best way they can. I could be wrong. I just think that not enough people put the needs
and desires of their partners before their own. My thoughts are: please your lady inside and outside of the bedroom in whatever way she wants, as long as you're content as well. But that's probably just my inexperience speaking...
So here I am sitting here like, "yeah, we have a boob grabbed and a butt smacker, a confused evseng, poor cf ):, lost beech, flirty Tops, kissy dawl, Niza (she needs no preface), confused Tony, borderline Kelsey "innocent" MissN, wedding crashed
Speedbump, and myself..." Yeah. One of these things just doesn't belong here.
It's me, isn't it?i just don't belong damnit!!!!
I included your name in there. ;) it's me. ):
I got that, I was trying to make light of it so you wouldn't feel badly but I guess I didn't do too good of a job. Ad of course you belong, you play an integral role of these comment sections, you add funny and insightful commentary which is always
Which is always a good thing. Necessary even!
Of course you belong, I don't know what you were implying there ..We're a lot alike =)
Hehe, I was just kidding. ;) Thanks though, beautiful! This is why, among many reasons that we all love you. :D
And MissN... what?!?! 0.o how?
But Lucchese!!!! You belong in the group you mentioned! We're all unique but you still fit in perfectly and we love you!
Aww thanks Mr L, you're not so bad yourself!!! I'm fairly confident that almost everybody else would agree that YOU, sir, absofuckinglutely belong, you are fantastic!
Flirty. Gee thanks. ;~*
I am super flirty, some people say that I am too much of a flirt but I think it's fun AND funny most of the time. Maybe I'm just ridiculous haha
I get that ALL the time. Somehow my talking to someone is flirting. I had lessons on talking instead of flirting hah.
Haha I NEED those lessons, too! Maybe we both are just attention-whores, maybe not, who knows?
I'm such an attention-whore you had to tell me twice! ??
Hitting on people, flirting, etc. are a hell of a lot of fun. (; nothing wrong with that! Besides... All of us in here except tops and Speedbump are single...
Haha no, it just keeps sending duplicates of some of my replays every since the update. It keeps doing several annoying things ever since the update
Awwww you don't have the plague, we all love you Mrs Speedbump!
Also, when is your baby due? It must be so exciting to be expecting, nut it must also be miserable I this HEAT!!!!
I JUST BECAME nizabelle's 200th FOLLOWER!!!!
How's that for attention whore??? ;)
BOOM!!!! I feel so honored to have achieved such a wonderful number in only 13 days!!! BOOHYAH B*TCHES
:) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)
Speedbump, you don't have the plague! ;) I was just making a clarifying statement. I have no problem with it. (;
And congrats, Nizabelle. You've earned them. :*
Scratch that, I think it has been 19 days since I started commenting, it's one of the two
Almost 2000 comments in 13 or 19 days. Impressive. *insert clapping hands here*
Well hopefully the next week and a half fly by and good luck with the delivery!!!! We have to throw you a SOH virtual baby shower
Yayyyy! ;D I'm feeling the pregnant lady love. Hehehe ❤
Seriously though... I'm so happy for you! I'm sorry you have to go through everything prior, but once he's in your arms, it'll all be worth it.
Alright guys, it's been fun and all but I must go, Larry is on his way over so I need to pick out an outfit that says "do me but don't fall in love with me, or else!"
Have a wonderful night everybody!!!!
Ah hell. At least someone getting some. xD
Nite nite Reeree ..keep us in mind and talk to us when you're bored after..
hahahaha... You wouldn't want to try to have a conversation with the guy. You might hurt his brain!
Hahaha reeree, that's funny, I think I might like it!
I've admittedly flirted with a few other chicks and um, pics. But physically, I've only grabbed the boobs and ass of a few of my best-friends.
I never would have guessed that out of you. Hmm... Anything else you'd like to share with the class?
Not right now teacher... But there was that one guy that tried forcing me to kiss my best friend. That's literally all then though. He did that after I had grabbed her boobs.
Don't lie to your teacher or you may be punished. (; hmm... Not sure how that would work since we're still chained together...
Haha I'm not so sure either
Not by choice :-(
I'm sorry :(
I've been hit on by a guy.. But that was it
You weren't tempted, were you?
No.. I know I'm straight!
This guy just didn't know I was. :)
That should tell you something...
What? That I'm so hot both even guys want a piece of this?!
Yeah I know Lucchese ;-)
Been hit on.
I feel like the only guy on this comment thread...
Oh, whew, never mind. And yes.
Are you talking to yourself?
Well, I saw mrlucchese, tony, and Zod down below. Missed them at first :)
I figured- just messin with ya! ????
Yeah, then I forgot to answer the question. And then I got flustered as I forgot half my comment. And then, well, I missed the joke. Sigh, it's late.
Women are great kissers! And that's as far as it went :-)
Prove it! ;)
Is OK Dawl, you can tell them. The truth about us. We made sweet sweet love and it was incredible :)
Haha! MissN I would love to! Niza darling yes it's true and after me even a fireman can't satisfy you ;-)
Exactly, I miss your body and I need your loving STAT!!!! If I did hook up with girls, I would totally hook up with you baby-cakes!
Likewise you sexy goddess!!!
I've always had my suspicions about if women are so much better at kissing, dawl this is surprising!.. and you two, I knew something went on behind my back ;)
I think women just tend to be better at most things in life, no?
And yes, we have been keeping it from you but we made a decision to not only clue you in but also to invite you into our next session!
MissN - It was just softer and more sensual, she had nice plump soft lips. But it didn't make me want to do anything else, like what happens when kissing a guy.
And you can play with Niza and me next time!!!
Session? Sounds relaxing, you two will have to schedule me in for one!..
It's kind of sad when out of 10 guys, there's not one good kiss, but they sure seem to be enjoying it on their end.
Well.. That was fun to read
It was titillating to read, wasn't it?
And our "sessions" are fantastically relaxing, you should definitely join in on the fun next time darling!
Appreciate the offer.. Truly.. But it seems to be an all girl fest goin on here.
And I'm a dude.. I would fit in..
That was rather... Entrancing to read. Hmm...
If any of it had been even remotely true then I guarantee it wold have been even hotter in real life than the words here could have made it out to be. I'm just saying!
Well I mean, that's always the case ;)
Good thing we live in completely different parts of the country.. or it could get dangerous ;)
I've been scarred for life. Sadly, the SOHAH polls stay in the morning. Ahhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!
Actually it's more envy of your experiences. Hahahaha.
You're still a baby, you'll have plenty of awesome experiences of your own in NO time!
Not really, I sort of had a foursome once but it wasn't really a foursome because me and the other girl didn't even kiss, it was kind of a weird night
But I am not necessarily opposed to it either ;)
Needless to say, but I'll say it anyway... I'm jealous. ;)
Haha of who, the 2 guys or the girl I DIDNT hook up with? Oh and I don't even think I hooked up with both of the guys, it was more like we were all just doing it next to each other in my basement after a night of debauchery in the city
I was actually drunk that night, which as you know is extremely rare. So it is possible that I am wrong and more than that happened but I'm pretty sure that I remember it correctly, or fairly correctly
I bet you would have loved to have been a fly on that wall that night, sir! I'm sure that a lot of people would have. Well maybe not because of the two guys that were there, what do I know anyway
Of course I would have. ;) As long as they stay the heck away from any gay stuff, I'm fine with it.
Two of the straightest guys ever,they wouldn't even look at each other that night let alone anything else. But it was interesting, for sure. I have no regrets :)
I've kissed a girl on a dare once or twice. No feelings on my part but I guess I can cross it off the list?
♪ I kissed a girl.. ♪
No, not even close.
No, but I'm not dead yet, so who knows what the future holds?
Does MrWolfe's "forced gay marriage" poll from the other day count?
Same thing I was going to ask.
Not really... I've had a les girl flirt with me but I'm not sure that counts
I see why she might have flirted with you. Was it random?
Haha how do you see? :p
And sort of she seemed just nice but then I heard she came out, and I realized she was a little more than nice haha
It's not fair, because pretty much anyone would want to flirt with you.
Yeah, I can't really tell if they're being anything other than just friendly, clueless..
Why do you say that? Haha oh wait, sarcasm...
Maybe you don't get told enough..
THAT YOU'RE HOT SILLY GIRL!!!!
*big eye pink cheek emoji*
From what I can tell, you're an attractive girl..
Maybe I should change my pic haha I wasn't expecting so much ❤
Nope, feel like I'm in the minority on this. Share your first-time experiences..
I'm not sure why, but I'm actually surprised by that. (;
..well, I'll keep you on your toes =)