A religious person tells a non-religious person who is suffering psychological/emotional trauma that they "hope they find God, because he is the only one who can help them."
Is there some backstory to this? Because I am not seeing how this is offensive.
I have personally often been told this statement. I think I can see how a religious person may not see it as offensive because it is not directly obvious, but it is passive aggressive statement which seems like it offers help but actually undermines the sufferer and implying the sufferer is at fault for their lack of belief in God. It is completely unhelpful and is a sneaky way of forcing beliefs into a tragic situation. I understand that some people may seriously not realize when they are making these indirect aggressive passes.
Also, on a side note, passive aggression is often left out and forgotten about in its abilities to hurt and manipulate others. (Sociopaths and Narcissists use this technique as their main tactic *not* accusing this statement as sociopathic, it isn't, just noting some facts about passive aggression)
Ok dude you have to be kidding. It's not passive aggressive, it's saying that God is the answer, and as a Christian, that's what we believe. They gain absolutely nothing if you convert to Christianity, it is out of the kindness of their heart because they want to get you help on earth and after you die. Chances are that you're not going to listen which seems to have happened but they are attempting to help you. There is no conspiracy of it being passive aggressive, it's them telling you God has the answer.
Horribly offensive. That is not the time to debate religion.
Not offensive. They believe that God is the only one that can help them so they say it. God has supernatural powers and it's them saying that they need to look to God for help. The non-religious person will probably find it offensive and not pay attention to the attempted help, but at least they tried.
I find it offensive. If you can't offer any sympathy or help, just S.T.F.U. and leave me alone to heal.
Very offensive. When someone is suffering you should express concern and sympathy. If appropriate, you offer them help on their terms. You don't use their pain as an opportunity to put down their beliefs (or lack thereof.)
That's not putting down their lack of beliefs and that is them trying to help by expressing that they can look to God for help...
It's not helpful. If you know someone does not believe in God, telling them to look to God for help is disrespectful, particularly if they're in pain.
It's a Christian's job to try and convert people, that doesn't mean be annoying but they see someone in pain and they know God can help them. They are trying to help the person that is hurting. They have no personal gain from spreading the word of God, it's out of the kindness of their heart because they believe that if you look to God you can get the help you need.
Sort of like an atheist telling a dying religious person, "top bad you put for faith in God; look where it got you."
I think in that case it is offensive because the other person hasnt taken the time to understand or help the one in need. Then they just proscribe the cure of, find god.
I wouldn't be as much offended as irritated and probably disappointed.
Im an atheist and I said not offensive. Trigger warning you douches!
Really? Wow. I'm religious and I still think this is disrespectful and offensive. It's wrong for a religious person to claim that God will solve all your problems when that's obviously not true. There will always be suffering in the world, and there's no reason to assume that pain is caused by the absence of God.
Right. Kind of like he prosperity gospel stuff some of them preach. God will make you healthy, rich, and happy, and if you're not, then you must not be praying enough. 😜 Total bull.
There are a few on SOH that would totally say something like that.
Definitely, it's like a passive aggressive "well it's your fault because you don't have God"
Yes. It's presumptive, intrusive and rude. But they don't get that.
Someone offering compassion even if it's not in your beliefs should never be, I thought you libtards were all about peace and love and coexisting....smh
Said in a compassionate manner would be different and obviously great, but in this case the statement is passive aggressive