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My mother-in-law. It's always awkward because she's so messed up on meds and crazy that she can't hold a normal conversation, but she's always happy that I come see her.

Had several subjects that you couldn't talk long on your own. They may be medicated and then able to respond. They will enjoy the company. But prepared to be the driving force of every conversation.

Sneak in some chocolate goodies and just talk.

I brought my friend their favorite take out food. She said it was much needed. Other than that try to relax and make the conversation no different than you would normally.

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No, but I worked part-time in a mental hospital while in college. Wasn't really that different from college except for the uniform and the bad coffee.

Yes, as part of a job I once had. It was a state mental hospital. One of the difficulties was distinguishing the staff from the patients...

Bring cards.

Some people will be doing/saying strange things.
Try to stay calm and not stare.

Back when my husband was still talking to his mother, we visited her a few times when she was in. (She's been in and out quite a lot.) One time we showed up with copies of Mad and Cracked magazines. She liked reading them. We didn't think about the names possibly being offensive.

However, my husband has stopped talking to most of his family -- for very good reasons. So we don't have to mess with it anymore.

Don't watch One flew over the Cuckoo's nest...

Crack jokes, make a less awkward situation less awkward. It's hard enough being in a place where plastic wrapping the mattress is the norm.

It's not that you should be ignoring that something happened, it's that you should encourage them that things will be normal again. They are getting enough therapy where they're institutionalized. Normalcy is the greatest gift you can give.

No. Sounds depressing though..

I'd bring a game or two if you can. If not, just talk and be yourself or listen if they need that.

I don't know what the situation is, but don't be condescending (talking to them like you would a pet) if they are more mentally functional opposed to less

I haven't but if I were you I would treat them like you always did.

I've worked in two. Visitors always felt awkward, understandably.

I have visited someone in the mental ward of a regular hospital. Find out what things you're allowed to bring that they might enjoy... Maybe a special treat or something like that.

Just talk to them like you would at home. They are the same person you know, just going through something you most likely cannot understand. Actively listen and give them support, so they know they can count on you.

I haven't, but why not ask at the hospital what kinds of things would be best? I like Othello as a two-player game.