What is emotionally harder for you: to be madly in love with someone you see almost daily at school or work but have no romantic relationship, or get a relationship only to have a stormy breakup soon?
I had the second one, too. Dated a girl at age 16 who was buddies with someone I absolutely couldn't stand. I complained about it and eventually she wrote me a Dear John letter.
The former. I had that for SIX years till HS graduation, with a lot of non sexual physical contact like partner exercises in PE, so I felt constantly teased, and going separate ways after graduating STILL felt like a breakup.
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