Thanks to CudOCow I now have 300 followers! Think I'll try an AMA, but since my life is an open book on SOH I don't usually get many questions...but let's try!
What was the last thing you did to help a stranger IRL?
At Christmas time I buy gifts for less fortunate families
I'm currently buddied up with a local Starbucks that is sponsoring a single parent family.
Bought lots of Baby clothes and toys
Even bought stuff for Mama
You're a good person! 😀💕
One decision you would have made differently in life?
I would not have stayed with my X as long as I did (21 years) it was very bad after about 10 years... Just felt stuck...
I know that feeling.
Not now. Of course. The wife says we are happy.
Congrats! What is one goal you still have set for yourself?
Well... I'm 60 and already retired
I've always wanted to go to Hawaii though
I would love to go before I'm 65
What are your three favorite scents/smells? Any special reason for the choices or just simple preference?
My wife's perfume
Congratulations Happy!! You seem to have really enjoyed the 80's. Did you ever have fun/crazy 80's hair?
😂 Why not?! I figured it was that or crimping with a Flock of Seagulls flare.
I see you like music. What is the best concert you've been to? What songs inspire you the most?
The best concert I ever went to was my First one...1969.. Midnight show on New Years Eve.. Jimi Hendrix at the Fillmore East..Awesome!!!
Next favorite would be George Harrison's concert for Bangaladesh in Madison Square Garden in 1971
I go to multiple concerts and live shows every year
I was just at the Beacon Theatre for an annual benefit concert for Homeless Children this past Saturday. Cyndi Lauper puts this show together.
Hard question about inspirational music. I truly like almost everything
I was originally turned off by Rap music because it seemed so abusive to women but learned to avoid the ass***e artists
Congratulations! No questions but you do seem very happy and it's always good to see that.
What has been the happiest moment in your life so far?
By far.... Getting Married on the beach this past September
How did you and your wife meet?
When did you realize you were gay?
What advice would you give your younger self?
What is your favourite memory?
I'll have more questions later.
My wife used to be a dog groomer and groomed a friend of mines Yorkie
About 2 years prior I broke up with someone I was with for many years... So I wasn't looking for anyone... I Was Done!
I think that helps.... Not looking...lol
I didn't put together being Gay with how I felt.
I was attracted to my babysitter and many female teachers
I was even engaged to a Very Nice Guy (we're still friends to this day)
I started playing softball in 1977, I was 22 and that's when it all came together for me
Advise would have to do with work... I was a big closet case
I would never hide again
I think playing softball when I realized I was gay.... It was like being in a candy store
But truthfully, I've only been with 3 women in my life.... Remember that I'm 60... Soon to be 61 in January.... 😯
Congrats and Seasons Greetings 8)
Do you have a favorite Holiday tradition?
My Mom always used to cook different Fishes on Christmas Eve
When I'm cooking I try to do the same
I also always make sure I get to Rockefeller Center to see The Tree .... 🎄
Different Fish? As in more that one type or as in a different/new recipe?
It sounds like a lovely idea! Even more so since you are continuing it 8)
I think it's an Italian Thing
I think it's actually called the night of 7 Fishes
She made an assortment of Fish Dishes including a Pasta/Fish Dish...like clam sauce or lobster tails in a red sauce
She fried shrimps and flounder
It was a potpourri of different dishes!
I keep it more simple because I'm not as good a cook as my Mom was.
Congratulations! Are you lesbian? 😇
Lol...... Thanks.... Made me laugh early in the morning.... 😜
Quick follow to earlier question. Are you happy?
Lol..... Very Very.... 😄