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slaodjdndfij August 18th, 2015 3:06am

What I did was wrong lying about my death, and pretending I was my sister. I just wanted attention. I apologize for all the prayers you guys made for a scam. I hope you can forgive me and my deeds. (My name is a a fake name for bc of stalkers btw)

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Pheasant
08/18/15 2:55 am

Dude that's fvcked up. Screw you

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johnnycub Bronx
08/17/15 11:21 pm

What's going on? Am I in the twilight zone?

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gow488 Wisconsin
08/17/15 11:26 pm

Missmorganmarie had a pretty good summary of what happened below.

gow488 Wisconsin
08/17/15 10:56 pm

Could someone please explain to me how it was discovered his story was a lie.

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missmorganmarie ...
08/18/15 5:34 am

it was too obvious not to be

Rainey 633 Stag Trail Road
08/18/15 7:16 am

I found lies in almost every poll they posted.

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
08/18/15 8:43 am

It was mentioned to me that it was suspicious, so I searched for an obituary & couldn't find one...I did a rather exhaustive & in depth search, then there were some other things.

anniepoops wisco fever
08/18/15 10:44 am

Bama, I did the same thing! Like the day of the original poll. I'm glad I'm not the only one.

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
08/18/15 10:57 am

Aveg, there are several of us that I know about who search for an obituary.

anniepoops wisco fever
08/18/15 11:02 am

I kind of felt guilty at first. I was like maybe I should just trust it. πŸ˜–

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
08/18/15 11:06 am

I did trust it first... Then someone mentioned they thought it was fake, so I decided to check it out.

anniepoops wisco fever
08/18/15 11:20 am

Such a shame though πŸ˜•

Kimbobee the middle of nowhere
08/18/15 12:15 pm

I searched for an obituary as well...

missmorganmarie ...
08/18/15 4:20 pm

same. πŸ˜•

Bekka Just relaxing...
08/17/15 10:29 pm

So I was wondering what I missed...

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BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
08/18/15 8:41 am

Read this user's previous polls. If you are still lost, PM me.

JamesOuk Cleveland
08/17/15 10:04 pm

Hahaha yoooooooooo dude not cool

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kennabenena life is a blonde moment
08/17/15 9:56 pm

You know, some people could have a field day with this, but you're lucky most of us are very forgiving people. That was a REALLY shitty thing to do, and I seriously almost cried when I found out you "died." Tons of people reached out to you & you

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kennabenena life is a blonde moment
08/17/15 9:57 pm

abused their trust and mine.
Anyways, I forgive you now, and we were all SO onto you. Dude, if you're gonna lie, you need to get your story straight and not give different people different information!

kennabenena life is a blonde moment
08/17/15 10:15 pm

Also, one more thing to add, you pulled off being a girl a little too well...

Christian1459 Cookin Trouble
08/17/15 10:29 pm

Damn. Agree. Just read all of that...

Pheasant
08/18/15 2:56 am

LoL πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

CoffeeNow Powderpuff Leftist
08/17/15 9:47 pm

I don't get it. So you faked your death and pretended to be your sister (who is fake?) because why? So you'd see what people would say about you?

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PrinceOberyn Vive LEmpereur
08/17/15 10:01 pm

I wouldn't call it clever, but I'd definitely call it crafty.

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
08/17/15 10:05 pm

Prince, I'm about done with you! STOP encouraging this behavior!

Rainey 633 Stag Trail Road
08/18/15 7:17 am

Yeah, not something you should even remotely be proud of..

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
08/17/15 9:41 pm

If this apology is sincere, then we can move forward. I harbor no ill will & I let go of the anger a while ago. I was hurt, because not only did you lie in the polls, but I reached out to you & you lied directly to me until you realized that I might

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BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
08/17/15 9:44 pm

have figured things out. I'm sorry for whatever issues you have in your life, but you need to understand that this hurt many people. People were sincerely concerned & praying for you & your family. What you don't seem to understand is that even

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
08/17/15 9:46 pm

those of us who might argue or disagree or even fight in the comments respect one another. For many of us this is a special community & quasi-family & we were willing to take you in & love & support you in your time of grief, but you betrayed our

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
08/17/15 9:48 pm

trust. On top of that, you did it in a week where other SOHers experienced legitimate loss of life, so when we figured it out, it was like pouring salt into a wound.
I can't speak for anyone else, but I will not hold this against you, if you will be

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
08/17/15 9:49 pm

real with us from this point forward.
Also, this community would have gladly helped with whatever REAL issue if you would have told someone.
You have been in my prayers even after I knew you lied, because that made it apparent that you needed help.

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
08/17/15 9:51 pm

I will continue to pray for you & for you to get the help that you need. All that I ask is no more lies.

LadyBug237 Florida
08/17/15 11:16 pm

Bama has said it all.
Please Tyler get help. Talk to someone about this. I will continue to pray for you and your family.
Thank you for telling us the truth.

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
08/18/15 8:39 am

Why have you changed your username again?

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
08/18/15 9:08 am

James, if you don't think you need help, then why do you think was so important to know that we cared? IMO, that indicates that you might be depressed or have self-confidence or self-esteem issues that need to be addressed before you do something

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
08/18/15 9:10 am

more dire to see if anyone cares. I think we have proven that we care, now please be real with us & reach out to someone for help, so we aren't really mourning your death one day. πŸ’›

LadyBug237 Florida
08/18/15 11:54 am

As Bama has asked - why have you changed your user name again.
And gone private?

missmorganmarie ...
08/18/15 4:24 pm

did he really get banned?!!!!

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
08/18/15 4:36 pm

It looks like it...

Ru12bseen Ignoring the Ignorant
08/17/15 9:38 pm

And now you have it. Congratulations.

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EnderWiggin So disillusioned...
08/17/15 9:48 pm

There's a few of us down lower. Grab a chair...

gow488 Wisconsin
08/17/15 9:26 pm

I just don't even know what to say.

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TopsQueen Oregon Coast
08/17/15 9:17 pm

By the way it takes courage to admit what you did and asked forgiveness.

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missmorganmarie ...
08/17/15 9:20 pm

he only made this poll because I called him out on another one about it

GrandmaALiCE For a better 2021
08/18/15 4:14 am

True. But, he DID make the poll.

You ask somebody to apologize and he does so. If you don't accept the apology, then what was the point in asking?

missmorganmarie ...
08/18/15 5:35 am

an apology only means so much if it isn't sincere

GrandmaALiCE For a better 2021
08/18/15 9:54 am

I'm curious why you think it isn't sincere.

missmorganmarie ...
08/18/15 10:40 am

because he didnt come out and say it on his own. I guess time will tell if it's sincere but the kid is what? 13? so it isn't looking good

GrandmaALiCE For a better 2021
08/18/15 4:47 pm

I'm sorry about that. I saw what happened on the other poll just now. He was trying his hardest to turn it around and start fresh. Then, Nemmy started taunting him and lowering himself to the kid's level. That was totally unnecessary!

GrandmaALiCE For a better 2021
08/18/15 4:51 pm

They were going at each other like a couple of little kids. Only problem is that one really IS a kid and the other is supposed to be an adult.

TopsQueen Oregon Coast
08/18/15 5:42 pm

Really sad. Nemmi sure reached out for help in his time of need. I guess compassion is a one-way street.

missmorganmarie ...
08/18/15 5:48 pm

nemmy didn't make up the miscarriage to get attention... and from the feed, Tyler or whoever was very nasty to Kenna and nemmy

GrandmaALiCE For a better 2021
08/18/15 5:59 pm

As far as I can tell, he was only nasty to Nema, not to anybody else. And Nema purposely asked for it.

When my kids were little, I had the same problem. Seriously. My son taunted his sister, until she got mad and hit him. Then, she got in trouble ..

GrandmaALiCE For a better 2021
08/18/15 6:03 pm

.. for hitting!

Really, that's what I did, but hindsight taught me that was a mistake on my part. My son started it. Unfortunately, I gave him a pass, when my daughter responded. I should have disciplined either both or neither, not just one.

GrandmaALiCE For a better 2021
08/18/15 6:04 pm

A big difference, however, is they were both kids. Here, we have a kid and an adult.

GrandmaALiCE For a better 2021
08/18/15 6:06 pm

And no, Nema didn't fake the miscarriage. I'm genuinely sympathetic to him about it.

We have already all agreed that faking his death was inexcusable. That's no longer the subject at hand.

GrandmaALiCE For a better 2021
08/18/15 6:08 pm

To be clear, I mean Tyler or James or whatever his name is, faking his death was inexcusable.

MachoMatt84 Mountain climbing
08/17/15 9:05 pm

I went through a period in my life where I sought attention any way I could get it. I even attempted suicide a couple times over it. I got counseling and learned how to deal with my own emotions and fix my own feelings. I would recommend the same.

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MachoMatt84 Mountain climbing
08/17/15 9:07 pm

You've taken the first step though, which is recognizing what you did wrong and apologizing for it, so that is commendable. I forgive you, but don't expect your credibility to come back quickly. That takes a tremendous amount of work to regain.

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
08/17/15 10:03 pm

Matt is a wise man. Listen to him.

TopsQueen Oregon Coast
08/17/15 11:03 pm

I too tried to kill myself. There has been a lot of abuse physical and mental in my life. I'm so glad I failed my life is so rich now.

MachoMatt84 Mountain climbing
08/17/15 11:06 pm

Top - I agree. I've become thankful for my past failures and bad experiences as I learned from them and am able to call back on those times when it's appropriate, like now. I hurt many others, but there is always atonement and redemption.

TopsQueen Oregon Coast
08/17/15 9:05 pm

I had a feeling that's what was going on but didn't say anything in case I was mistaken.

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PrinceOberyn Vive LEmpereur
08/17/15 9:12 pm

Had a feeling too.

TopsQueen Oregon Coast
08/17/15 9:15 pm

I hope you are aware also, a very wonderful man on this site did lose his son. The same week you pulled your stunt.

TopsQueen Oregon Coast
08/17/15 9:16 pm

As for identical triplets. I would imagine you could have three of one gender but a male and female cannot be identical for obvious reasons.

missmorganmarie ...
08/17/15 9:32 pm

exactly why I'm so infuriated tops
my heart is breaking again for joe

GrandmaALiCE For a better 2021
08/17/15 10:35 pm

Missmorganmarie, I can understand how you feel. It was immature and inexcusable.

However, to be perfectly fair, he very likely did not know about the other *real* deaths.

TopsQueen Oregon Coast
08/17/15 10:59 pm

I think compassion is very lacking in our society today. He's apologized I would say give the young man a break. He's had a lot of mothers and fathers scolding him.

TopsQueen Oregon Coast
08/18/15 5:38 am

Read what some of the people had said I would say that scolding. I would imagine you are pretty incredible. You have to darn good imagination. Just don't use it to upset people please.

orgblu10 Shamerica
08/17/15 9:03 pm

Apology accepted, man. BUT, though this community might seem unreal at times, we are all real human beings with real feelings. Many of us truly care about each other, and the sadness we felt because of you was real. So let's not try this again, ok?

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firefly5 the verse
08/17/15 9:02 pm

We make mistakes. We learn. We move forward. Thanks for apologizing.

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anniepoops wisco fever
08/17/15 8:55 pm

I kind of had a feeling, but it's great you apologized. I agree with some of the people below. It's sad that you lied about this, and I don't know why. I hope that you never do it again.

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brianator2
08/17/15 8:51 pm

You're forgiven, but you very much need to examine your life choices and what's going on with you emotionally such that you would do this. I recommend professional counseling, because you aren't yet the person that you want and need to be. Ok?

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brianator2
08/17/15 8:54 pm

If you're really sincere about your apology, we'll never truly know. But if you are sincere, you'll seek out professional counseling. We all make mistakes, but the question is how we react when we do. You took ownership and that was a 1st first step

brianator2
08/17/15 8:54 pm

Getting insight through professional help is the next step.

missmorganmarie ...
08/17/15 8:59 pm

they only took ownership because I called them out on it on another poll and told them to apologize

LadyBug237 Florida
08/17/15 11:20 pm

What Brian said^

brianator2
08/17/15 11:39 pm

could you prove he was lying without the confession?

GrandmaALiCE For a better 2021
08/18/15 4:16 am

Missmorganmarie, as I said above, why ask for an apology, if you have no intention of accepting it?

missmorganmarie ...
08/17/15 8:46 pm

I hope Tony bans you permanently. some things you just don't make up and lie about ... how immature and pathetic

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PrinceOberyn Vive LEmpereur
08/17/15 9:10 pm

If we banned every person who lies on the internet there would be no internet at all.

missmorganmarie ...
08/17/15 9:12 pm

this is a worse lie than saying "hey I'm from Ohio" or "hey I'm married" or "hey guys I'm 20 years old" or something minor. this is one thing you don't joke about

PrinceOberyn Vive LEmpereur
08/17/15 9:25 pm

Meh, until there is hard evidence he actually caused someone to suffer any real trauma I'm gonna let it pass.

Sidenote: More people should joke about death in a broad sense. Without death, there isn't a good life to live for.

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
08/17/15 9:36 pm

Prince, not only did he lie & fake his death, but it was the same week that JimiScott lost his child, so it was callous at best.

PrinceOberyn Vive LEmpereur
08/17/15 9:43 pm

Again, true, but being callous is not worth being banned. This public apology and its eventual backlash is enough. As for JimiScott, I did not even know about it until someone here said something.

missmorganmarie ...
08/17/15 11:35 pm

and also joesoup bama

GrandmaALiCE For a better 2021
08/18/15 4:19 am

Do we have any reason to think he knew about those two deaths? It may have been an unfortunate coincidence of timing.

GrandmaALiCE For a better 2021
08/18/15 4:22 am

Don't get me wrong. I'm NOT excusing him. What he did was immature and very, very wrong. However, I DO forgive him. Forgiving and excusing are two different things.

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
08/18/15 8:52 am

Yes, joesoup, too & Nemmy & GrumpyFace, but those were before & after...regardless, I am certain as often as he was on here that he was aware of those losses which is why this hurt all the more.

PrinceOberyn Vive LEmpereur
08/17/15 8:34 pm

Fakes his death, impersonates a sibling, and openly admits it and apologizes. Ingenuity, Guile, and Balls. I like that. Apology accepted.

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rlands
08/17/15 8:20 pm

Apologizing is the right thing to do :)

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dawl adulting
08/17/15 8:18 pm

I guess I missed this whole thing I'm not sure what's going on but whatever you did it takes real courage to come apologize for it!

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EnderWiggin So disillusioned...
08/17/15 8:51 pm

I dunno either. I'll just drag a chair over and sit in this section.

EnderWiggin So disillusioned...
08/17/15 8:54 pm

So! Howya been Dawl? I'm actively avoiding getting some work done... but that happens every time I open this app. ;)

Maj Worth Economist
08/17/15 8:57 pm

Hey, guys. Mind if I join you? I'm clueless, too.

dawl adulting
08/17/15 8:57 pm

Lol!! *makes room for chair* I'm good winding down from Monday how about you?

dawl adulting
08/17/15 8:58 pm

Ok brings couch 😁

missmorganmarie ...
08/17/15 9:01 pm

he was a user on here and pretended to be his sister (she doesn't exist either) and said the guy died, right on the heels of 2 user's sons committing suicide and other users who are ill or injured. check out this user's previous polls to be clued in

Nik
08/17/15 9:02 pm

Dawl, Maj and Ender, mind if I join the I don't know what's going on club? I'll sit in the back and just watch...πŸ˜€

EnderWiggin So disillusioned...
08/17/15 9:02 pm

...and here's the pitcher of iced tea. I've warmed the brie and baguette. I'm just sitting down to finish up a solar panel layout on a co-op, and this melodrama appears in the poll.

Reminds me of Tops' poll about drama the other day. Ya catch it?

EnderWiggin So disillusioned...
08/17/15 9:05 pm

msmm, I did. All I can say is I'm glad I wasn't a follower. 290 polls in such a short time? Funny. I caught one post where they took umbrage at being called an attention whöre... Or was that a poll?

Canapé anyone?

dawl adulting
08/17/15 9:05 pm

Brieeeeee yum thank you and yes our couch is big enough for more! Get comfy *pours wine*!
Thanks for the update Morgan!

Nik
08/17/15 9:07 pm

I got popcorn and gummys, that good??

Maj Worth Economist
08/17/15 9:14 pm

Merci, Mademoiselle Morgan Marie. I brought chocolate fondue with Grand Marnier for dessert.

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
08/17/15 9:32 pm

Y'all are cracking me up!

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
08/17/15 9:33 pm

Ender, it has been quite a ride!

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Arizona
08/17/15 10:07 pm

Guys, I have to get some sleep. I have an interview in the morning, but if anyone is still lost or wants the rundown message me & I will reply tomorrow. Night.

Nik
08/17/15 10:08 pm

Good night Bama, good luck tomorrow

Christian1459 Cookin Trouble
08/17/15 10:34 pm

I love all of you. β€οΈπŸ˜‚

orgblu10 Shamerica
08/17/15 11:08 pm

Hey, where'd everybody go? The night is young!

Christian1459 Cookin Trouble
08/17/15 11:09 pm

Maybe there, Org...but it's pretty over the hill here πŸ˜‚

orgblu10 Shamerica
08/17/15 11:35 pm

LOL! Party Poopers!!

missmorganmarie ...
08/17/15 11:38 pm

best of luck with your interview bama!

lakhsksjdnds
08/17/15 8:07 pm

Hey Tyler (James really) thank you. I know you didn't want to do this but it was the right thing to do. ☺️ Great job buddy

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lakhsksjdnds
08/17/15 8:18 pm

No problem now get some rest

Rainey 633 Stag Trail Road
08/17/15 8:36 pm

So you really are Tyler? Because His told me your name was really James.

PrinceOberyn Vive LEmpereur
08/17/15 8:41 pm

A man has many faces.

missmorganmarie ...
08/18/15 5:36 am

Rainey who knows what to believe with him