Your SO all of a sudden starts to put on a few pounds and isn't going to the gym to work it off. What do you do?
I married my wife for the great stuff inside, not how she looks on the outside,
It'd be a her, best left alone. 😎
Don't care even a little
How many is a few? He's 220, and I like his weight being there. Really wouldn't notice 5lbs on him the way you would on me normally. I wouldn't care at all if it were about that.
I assume he is a muscular man then. Let's say if he gained 20 pounds, of fat, and you could really notice a slight accumulating difference in the bedroom.
He's not that muscular. It's a mix of fat and muscle, but he's very broad in the chest and shoulders with thick muscular thighs. In general he's or a wiry frame that's well padded - which I like.
If it were enough to bother me though, I'd say
something. It's possible to be polite yet honest, even on sensitive issues.
I would do it in a very round about way. "Hey babe I think I wanna start eating better and working out, lets go take a kick boxing class together". I would also only cook healthy meals at home and not bring junk food into the house.
And since I do most of the cooking, I make better choices
Nope. I value my life. A few pounds isn't worth it.
Nor would I lie if asked. I would invite her to start running with me or taking a class at the gym. We need to spend some quality time together. 😜
I mention it it in a nice way.