freetobeme146
01/21/13 11:00 am
I left my family and everything I've known since I was 6 in Oklahoma to come to Maryland. It's easier to just not think about everyone and everything I miss there.
tanner904
01/21/13 12:20 am
Yeah it's all about context of question. Once enough time goes by its out of sight out of mind but if u know you will be seeing the person again it tends to be fonder
tanner904
01/21/13 12:16 am
I think it does make the heart grow fonder I'm surprised by the result but its kinda how u look at the question because if it goes to long then it does start to become out of sight out of mind. I assume they mean maybe weeks apart tho
LilWing00
01/20/13 7:28 pm
I feel "fonder" is more for the partner who was broken up with who realizes how much the other did for them now that they r gone OR for couples still together who reflect on their relationship when the other is away. "Outta sight" is used more for ppl trying to get through a break up. I use both
IceWoman New York
01/20/13 3:50 pm
In nearly every single instance of my life and those surrounding me, the men would say outta sight (but may not admit it) and the women would say fonder.
Dustinjwcook
01/20/13 5:18 am
Depends on the subject. I've been away from the big city for a bit and thought, wow this really is pleasant out here, but been away from my girlfriend for a bit and realized how much I really do love her...
godcyanide Probably gone for good
01/19/13 5:58 pm
I think it really depends on how much time you can spend thinking about them. One of my ex-girlfriends used to go to Europe every summer (her fam owns a business there, she runs it now). I would be so busy working and seeing my friends that I barely had time to dwell on her absence from my life.
CaseyECE
01/19/13 3:47 pm
Fonder. My husband leaves for several months at a time and it never gets easier. I only get to talk to him every few weeks and it always makes me happy!
lebneniye85
01/19/13 11:56 am
I don't know how the relationship is still working for you guys but you must really love each other, I know I couldn't do it.
RGirl
01/19/13 10:49 am
Well it depends if it's people I hate or people I like. When my enemies are away I am very happy when I find out and then I just forget about them.
magnum
01/19/13 9:44 am
Humans are terrible at living on memories. We might idealize someone yes but, there is a reason long distance relationships rarely work out.
christine1986
01/19/13 4:00 am
Many marriages end after a deployment. And some go on never knowing what each other did while they were apart. It's sad.
christine1986
01/19/13 3:59 am
Personally I say fonder because I miss my hubby so much when we are apart we are always much nicer when we are together again. But as someone who has deployed to the Middle East I can tell you the opposite is true for most people. Both wives and husbands can't last a single deployment without sex.
abbeylove Syracuse, NY
01/19/13 1:27 am
If you really love them fonder. My boyfriend lives in Las Vegas and I always looking forward to seeing him and its just much more special because he's my soulmate.
kaik12 Twin Cities, MN
01/19/13 1:22 am
It depends on the people. My boyfriend and I have spent more time apart than together for the almost 7 months that we've been dating. I go to college 5 hours away. However, it's all so worth it each time we see each other. :)
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