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haku March 17th, 2015 1:30pm

You've dated your religious girl for 2 years without any type of sex. On your wedding night she tells you that her interpretation of the bible is that sex is only for procreation. She only wants 2 kids.

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aj1545 Cat Lady
03/17/15 10:27 am

Im not interested in anyone who views sex that way. I dont even think id want to marry someone without having sex first.

aj1545 Cat Lady
03/17/15 11:16 am

Yep, tell me what I've experienced. I want to learn about love from someone who insults people on internet forums for having different relationship values lol

aj1545 Cat Lady
03/17/15 11:22 am

Which is totally subjective. I value sex- so will date someone who also does. You don't- and will date someone who shares that. We aren't all the same and thats ok. Also, i think youre misunderstanding sex as a value vs the only value.

Maj Worth Economist
03/17/15 10:16 am

Annulled. Right there. But then... Why didn't I know that before?

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Squidboy Snarkapottamus
03/17/15 10:42 am

This. Even if she wanted to wait until marriage, I would have liked to think this would have been discussed over that 2 year period. Regardless, marriage is over.

fuhgahwz bourgeois nihilist
03/17/15 10:11 am

If I am in so in love with someone that I am willing to marry them- I think I'd be capable of making that marriage work dry.

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hrankta
03/17/15 10:04 am

It wouldn't have gone that far. I've had a number of first dates with girls with that type of nutty belief about sex, but never a second date.

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dlaw4570
03/17/15 10:00 am

You could practice a lot but unless in total agreement...RUN!!! Far and fast!

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orgblu10 Shamerica
03/17/15 9:53 am

Should have talked about that before you tied the knot!

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orgblu10 Shamerica
03/17/15 10:03 am

Follow up: I don't know what Bible she's reading, because the New Testament makes it pretty clear that's not the case.

mac Oregon
03/17/15 9:49 am

Run, run fast and run far- sex is important and should have been discussed way before marriage. Only for procreation? Uh no, NO!

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NOTColonelWest
03/17/15 9:14 am

Is wedding night the night before or night after? If it's the night after, I'm staying, night before, it's a coin toss. Honestly, sex isn't that important to me either, I probably could make do

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Wert A picture of my junk
03/17/15 9:02 am

While it's not the only reason to reassess a relationship, it's one that should have emerged after two years.

smarttexan More Moderate Than U
03/17/15 8:45 am

Apparently talking is not part of dating...

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FATSHADOW Cyborg Gorilla
03/17/15 8:31 am

Whats the Bibles stance on blowjobs??

cowboy Doors of Perception
03/17/15 8:28 am

How would you not know her feeling on that before the marriage?

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chickencookie Jihad Joe
03/17/15 8:18 am

The question doesn't make sense (sorry) because after two years of dating it would have come out unless he's not normal and doesn't care.

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Laserbeam Crazy bird lady
03/17/15 8:10 am

No way it would've lasted anywhere close to 2 years. Sex is important.

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cowboy Doors of Perception
03/17/15 8:29 am

How you doin'? 😉

Laserbeam Crazy bird lady
03/17/15 9:10 am

Bom chicka wah wah

cowboy Doors of Perception
03/17/15 9:13 am

I heard that you're recently single. 😏

Laserbeam Crazy bird lady
03/17/15 10:43 am

I only date guys who surf. Tough break.

cowboy Doors of Perception
03/17/15 11:01 am

Seems to be going real well...

MrLucchese If curious, ask.
03/17/15 7:56 am

Goodbye, lady. Though I wouldn't have gotten anywhere close to marriage with that individual.

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SunsetLeopard Still writing my story
03/17/15 7:49 am

I would have hoped that's something that was discussed before marriage...however if it was and she changed her opinion of sex after you were married I wouldn't trust her. Either way I'd be getting out.

twss trump is a garbage human
03/17/15 7:32 am

GET. OUT. NOW. Sidebar: I hope this isn't a true to life situation, haku. That would suck. But this is also why EVERYTHING needs to be discussed prior to walking down the aisle with someone. Not just how many kids and where to live, everything.

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TheIndian Virgo Supercluster
03/17/15 7:29 am

Well, I wouldn't date a religious person in the first place, not my type.

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SticksandStones Stop fearmongering
03/17/15 6:35 am

Honestly, that's probably why I married her in the first place. It'd make the marriage a lot less stressful for me.

SunsetLeopard Still writing my story
03/17/15 7:52 am

Less stress to not have sex?...maybe for asexuals...but for normal people sex is a GREAT way to relieve stress. Not to mention it is incredibly intimate and a great bonding experience. But to each's own...who am I to judge?

MrLucchese If curious, ask.
03/17/15 7:56 am

He is asexual.

SunsetLeopard Still writing my story
03/17/15 8:11 am

Then clearly it'd work in his situation 😊