You've dated your religious girl for 2 years without any type of sex. On your wedding night she tells you that her interpretation of the bible is that sex is only for procreation. She only wants 2 kids.
Im not interested in anyone who views sex that way. I dont even think id want to marry someone without having sex first.
Yep, tell me what I've experienced. I want to learn about love from someone who insults people on internet forums for having different relationship values lol
Which is totally subjective. I value sex- so will date someone who also does. You don't- and will date someone who shares that. We aren't all the same and thats ok. Also, i think youre misunderstanding sex as a value vs the only value.
Annulled. Right there. But then... Why didn't I know that before?
This. Even if she wanted to wait until marriage, I would have liked to think this would have been discussed over that 2 year period. Regardless, marriage is over.
If I am in so in love with someone that I am willing to marry them- I think I'd be capable of making that marriage work dry.
It wouldn't have gone that far. I've had a number of first dates with girls with that type of nutty belief about sex, but never a second date.
You could practice a lot but unless in total agreement...RUN!!! Far and fast!
Should have talked about that before you tied the knot!
Follow up: I don't know what Bible she's reading, because the New Testament makes it pretty clear that's not the case.
Run, run fast and run far- sex is important and should have been discussed way before marriage. Only for procreation? Uh no, NO!
Is wedding night the night before or night after? If it's the night after, I'm staying, night before, it's a coin toss. Honestly, sex isn't that important to me either, I probably could make do
While it's not the only reason to reassess a relationship, it's one that should have emerged after two years.
Apparently talking is not part of dating...
Whats the Bibles stance on blowjobs??
How would you not know her feeling on that before the marriage?
The question doesn't make sense (sorry) because after two years of dating it would have come out unless he's not normal and doesn't care.
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How you doin'? 😉
I heard that you're recently single. 😏
Seems to be going real well...
Goodbye, lady. Though I wouldn't have gotten anywhere close to marriage with that individual.
I would have hoped that's something that was discussed before marriage...however if it was and she changed her opinion of sex after you were married I wouldn't trust her. Either way I'd be getting out.
GET. OUT. NOW. Sidebar: I hope this isn't a true to life situation, haku. That would suck. But this is also why EVERYTHING needs to be discussed prior to walking down the aisle with someone. Not just how many kids and where to live, everything.
Well, I wouldn't date a religious person in the first place, not my type.
Honestly, that's probably why I married her in the first place. It'd make the marriage a lot less stressful for me.
Less stress to not have sex?...maybe for asexuals...but for normal people sex is a GREAT way to relieve stress. Not to mention it is incredibly intimate and a great bonding experience. But to each's own...who am I to judge?
He is asexual.
Then clearly it'd work in his situation 😊