You're getting hitched next week when your partner says there's something you need to discuss. S/he confides in you that s/he just got out of a cult before your first date, and only left because it ran out of money. Do you still get married?
So she worships the devil, what difference does it make
Don't believe in this type of stuff
That would depend on what else she had to say about it and how it blends wth My beliefs.
We would definitely have a long, long discussion about it, but if there were no other warning signs, I'd probably go through with it.
There would need to be a serious discussion but it seems they have been living fine without it the whole time we have been together?
What kind of a cult?
If she only left it because of the money, she was probably only in it for the money. So it's not as worrisome.
It would depend if they want to go back if they're over it and it completely cut ties other than that I don't want a cult in my life.
That would depend on the cult she was a part of.
Run from it! No more using S/he, it valid to call S/he "it" because it's non gender.
"It" is used to describe non-human objects. "They" makes a little more sense, but makes it sound plural. So "S/he" is the best option here. There are other non-gendered pronouns, but usually specifically for people who identify as non-gendered.
I wouldn't marry someone who isn't a Christ follower. That said, what she did/believed before her decision for Christ doesn't matter to me. It's all forgiven.
My thinking too!
I actually went out with a woman still in a cult. That did not work put at all.
It would depend. Is it a pretty cool
cult I might enjoy too? Is she planning on going back as soon as she has access to my cash, or is it just part of her past. Am I just learning this now because she was hiding it, or did it just never come up?
ZOD - how does being part of a cult ever just come up in casual conversation?!?!? I really want to hang out with the gang you hang out with!
I think by the time you're talking marriage you've probably talked a little bit about each other's philosophy of life, what you were doing before you met, and what your dreams and future plans are. A cult would probably fit in there somewhere.