If you were sure at the age of 21 that you would never want kids, would you get a vasectomy/tubes tied or just use traditional birth control?
pull out game so strong if you get a vasectomy
I'm 23 and I really don't think I want kids ever. But I would never do this bc someday I might change my mind.
At 21 with no medical reasoning for sterilization you'd be hard pressed to find a doctor willing to do this. Especially women.
Exactly! I kept being told I have to wait until in 28. Well I'm 29 and they still won't unless there is a medical reason.
They made me wAit until the magic 28.
When you're that age you may think you know everything, I know I did. Now I know I didn't. So much can change, don't do it.
Birth control and spermacite
BC, just incase something happened later on down the road like wanting to marry someone who really wanted biological kids. Or even the chance I change my mind. You never know what will happen.
Some really do know (I did), and both procedures are reversible, but I would agree that for most people they should not make a decision like that so young.
Definitely. Even just comparing 5 years, me when I turned 21 and me when I turned 26... a world of difference. You never know where life may take you!
No, so much in life can happen after that. I would wait.
If I were straight I would without doubt. I never wanted to have kids.
I have one son. My tubes were tied six weeks later; I was 22. They wouldn't do it during labor.
I was sure. I have always known i did not want children of my own. I had to wAit until I wad 28 but one week after my birthday i was on the table having a tubal ligation. I am now 35 and have no regrets.