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fracy March 15th, 2015 4:59am

Have you ever been sexually objectified?

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BrittneyBunny Maryland
03/16/15 7:03 am

I haven't had anything said since September. I should have turned them in considering my child was with me and it was from our On Duty military police.

Challenger TX
03/16/15 5:06 am

Yes. Almost everyone has been and its natural/human nature. Not some evil sexist cultural distortion left over from patriarchy.

bluerum29 optimistic idealist
03/15/15 7:28 pm

Sadly not that I know. If it has happened without my knowledge them that's a happy thought

cheermom New Jersey
03/15/15 2:11 pm

Does being cat called by a bunch of men while walking down the street count? Because that happened to me and all of my friends when we were young and pretty.

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Sicilian New Orleans, La
03/15/15 12:31 pm

Yes thankfully. I'd be insulted otherwise.

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EarlyBird Portland
03/15/15 10:52 am

I have been but it's not been bad. It's always been in flattering ways.

Laserbeam Crazy bird lady
03/15/15 10:08 am

Yes. Just a part of life. Sometimes it's flattering, sometimes it's creepy.

AbandonedAccnt Not here.
03/15/15 9:18 am

Does being told you have a nice body count? What about being called a "stud muffin/beefcake?"

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s4mm1 MD SLP
03/15/15 8:46 am

Sexual objectification is a normal part of the human existence. I do it to others, others do it to me. It’s by no means something negative in anyway.

mac Oregon
03/15/15 8:34 am

I have wished :)

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TheMadScientist the mad laboratory
03/15/15 9:51 am

^this, but with extra cheese

aj1545 Cat Lady
03/15/15 8:19 am

Yes its happened a lot. Everything from minor annoyance to severe violence. And with the minor stuff im not talking about just being checked out, i mean dehumaized.

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Squidboy Snarkapottamus
03/15/15 7:03 am

Yes. Did I care? No. It was only the stalkers that concerned me.

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aj1545 Cat Lady
03/15/15 8:20 am

Yes, stalkers are hard to get rid of too. Sorry you had to deal with that.

rons WOKE is sick
03/15/15 6:40 am

Friggin women never left me alone! The shame of it all!

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rons WOKE is sick
03/15/15 11:31 am

I got a lotta lies to tell!

Pirate Uses the Tap
03/15/15 5:14 am

Not nearly enough.

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TierasPet
03/15/15 4:51 am

Probably but I probably also paid no attention. Until recently, I was very good at blocking any signals of that sort because my ex was very jealous. Now, I have a hard time recognizing them.

MrLove lovers, dreamers and me
03/14/15 10:42 pm

No, but I think I'd like to be.

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rlands
03/14/15 10:37 pm

100%, it's really gross sometimes.

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HammeringMan Gods Away On Business
03/14/15 10:33 pm

Fortunately for all women, toxic wastes are destroying testosterone and soon men will have no sex drive. They will no longer work hard to earn the attention of females. No inappropriate glances. Minimal romances. Life will be better.

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MrMilkdud
03/15/15 8:12 am

I think you misspelled "internet porn."

aj1545 Cat Lady
03/15/15 8:17 am

Lol, i had to read that like four times. Inappropriate glances are a good thing? Mens testosterone is being destroyed? Cant say ive heard that one before.

HammeringMan Gods Away On Business
03/15/15 9:42 am

LOL... Obviously I believe in the right for a woman to be respected, however I believe women would be disappointed if sexual tension disappeared.

aj1545 Cat Lady
03/15/15 11:51 am

I think you can have insane sexual tension without being inappropriate.

aj1545 Cat Lady
03/15/15 11:51 am

Unless you're using inappropriate as synonymous with sexual.

HammeringMan Gods Away On Business
03/15/15 2:19 pm

AJ-clearly the issue of sexual objectification runs the gamut of a casual glance at a sexi person to debasing behavior. The first is normal and complimentary. The later, obtrusive and uncultured.

aj1545 Cat Lady
03/15/15 2:21 pm

Ok? Thats what i said in my own comment lol. You have yet to explain how being inappropriate is good or how mens testosterone is being destroyed...

HammeringMan Gods Away On Business
03/16/15 5:35 am

Inappropriate is very subjective. Many relationships begin with lust that marches on to love. The lustful male MAY turn into a responsive lover. That does not excuse or defend lecherous rude behavior.

HammeringMan Gods Away On Business
03/16/15 5:39 am

Reduced testosterone??? The growing number of infertile couples is alarming. The cause is unknown, however there is substantial suspicion that the use of birth control pills is related to biological feminization of the male.

aj1545 Cat Lady
03/16/15 7:58 am

Haha. Cuz there are no lustful women. And how do you figure birth control is doing that?

HammeringMan Gods Away On Business
03/16/15 10:43 am

The chemicals in oral contraceptives are not degraded by the female and are excreted into the environment.they remain active as feminine markers which is suspected to be sufficient to decrease male fertility

aj1545 Cat Lady
03/16/15 2:22 pm

No more or less than any other medication. And our fertility rate is fine, i see no evidence of it "feminizing" men lol

HammeringMan Gods Away On Business
03/16/15 10:22 pm

I am sure we are just reading different journals. Regardless the cause, fertility rates are dropping in Western cultures.

aj1545 Cat Lady
03/17/15 5:28 am

And causation has been proved? Over all the other possible reasons fertility is dropping? I dont know about different journals, i havent seen this in any.

HammeringMan Gods Away On Business
03/17/15 12:58 pm

AJ: I have tossed out an idea, not an edict. Alarmists have announced that the last mail capable of fathering a child has already been born! I rather doubt that. Infertility is a serious problem. No widely accepted causation has been identified.

aj1545 Cat Lady
03/17/15 1:49 pm

Exactly. Thats why claiming its happening and is caused by birth control is ridiculous.

HammeringMan Gods Away On Business
03/17/15 5:56 pm

AJ: you are correct, however I will hold you to the same exacting standards. Can I expect each and everyone of your comments to begin with: "this is only my opinion"? CiteTheSource would be pleased.

aj1545 Cat Lady
03/18/15 4:17 am

No because i know there arent studies showing causation here lol

HammeringMan Gods Away On Business
03/18/15 7:44 am

Prepare for your reading list. Report due on Monday.

Praetorianus Fair enough.
03/14/15 10:28 pm

I know it may sound ignorant, but what do you mean? Have I been the object of sexual desire without any emotional engagement? If you mean that, yes. Did I feel offended? No.

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Wino I need a drink
03/14/15 10:10 pm

Ha! Has any female (over a certain age) not been? I truly have yet to meet one. I've seen nuns objectified.

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HammeringMan Gods Away On Business
03/14/15 10:30 pm

It wasn't me. No no no.

Whichendisup uniquely unoriginal
03/14/15 10:59 pm

This is why it's so hard for guys to understand a woman's perspective I think.

HammeringMan Gods Away On Business
03/16/15 5:43 am

What. I just said it wasn't me. That's all I said. I did not say objectification did not occur or that it is welcome. I did not imply that "By the way, you have very nice breasts," is a responsible conversation starter.

Whichendisup uniquely unoriginal
03/16/15 5:57 am

My reply was to Wino & Susan.

HammeringMan Gods Away On Business
03/16/15 6:22 am

Thanks. I shall shrink back into the wall.