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OldLady November 9th, 2014 2:52pm

Jane is on a diet. Bob hasn't seen her in 2.months. When he does he says, "wow you look great how much weight have you lost"

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Wackacrat Harford County
11/11/14 3:25 am

Nope. Bob gave a compliment and asked a question in regards to the compliment. It's not his business but Jane can tell him that if she's uncomfortable with the question. Most people who work hard on some thing are eager for people to notice.

elianastar FreeSpeech
11/09/14 6:48 pm

Stop after "you look great." If other brings up why/how weight was lost then it would be appropriate to pursue particulars of the change.

LadyA Earth Explorer
11/09/14 1:08 pm

"Wow you look great" is sufficient.

EarlyBird Portland
11/09/14 11:34 am

Compliment the weight loss and leave it at that.

Pirate Uses the Tap
11/09/14 8:36 am

I think it's different with a male bringing up weight to a woman. I think it's best left alone.

chickencookie It really is
11/09/14 8:32 am

Unless Bob is her husband, father or brother...

imanag My heaven on Earth
11/09/14 8:14 am

I think Bob started off well with the compliment, but should've stopped before asking Jane how much weight she'd lost.

Diogenes FreeMeBe
11/09/14 8:13 am

He darn well better notice!