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joker145 November 4th, 2014 10:24pm

SOHAH: So I went to the store and saw this women with the perfect ass. I really wanted to tell her how much I liked her ass (and at the same time tell her that I am not hitting on her). I just wanted to compliment her. Appropriate?

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Atheist A sheep amidst wolves
11/04/14 5:51 pm

I have the same thought process regularly, but I've never acted on it. I would more likely tell her she's beautiful than to specifically say she had nice tits, ass, etc..

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146787456777 .......
11/04/14 5:28 pm

I wouldn't, in our societal context its inappropriate, and her reaction most probably would be negative. in american culture its considered rude for whatever reason to compliment more sexualized parts of the body

146787456777 .......
11/04/14 5:28 pm

probably due to the taboo we place on sex in america

joker145
11/04/14 5:59 pm

I agree....but it's too bad

146787456777 .......
11/04/14 6:03 pm

I think part of it might have to do with dehumanization too. people like to be valued for who they are rather than how they look.

146787456777 .......
11/04/14 6:08 pm

it is too bad. we give out way too many mixed messages in regards to sex in our culture our media is full of it, yet we face stigma for talking about it. and especially women have a huge stigma with acting too sexual or even just talking about it.

Krystina Let Freedom Reign
11/04/14 4:34 pm

I'd be totally good with it, flattered in fact. But other women, especially straight, vanilla women, I'm thinking no way.

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alynn Somewhere wonderful
11/04/14 3:40 pm

Oh my. I do NOT recommend you telling her that!

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joker145
11/04/14 3:41 pm

Obviously not.....but it brings up the question......why not???

alynn Somewhere wonderful
11/04/14 3:43 pm

Most women would not take it well, coming from a stranger, and you might find yourself with a firm slap to the face.

joker145
11/04/14 3:45 pm

I know.....but again....why in our society is this not appropriate? If I told her she had a cute face, is this appropriate?

alynn Somewhere wonderful
11/04/14 3:46 pm

Some would be ok with it; others not. I don't know.

joker145
11/04/14 3:50 pm

Now you are as perplexed as I am!

Krystina Let Freedom Reign
11/04/14 4:39 pm

Flight, I wonder why myself. It's all societal conditioning and it's getting worse with the radical feminists. Pretty soon you may not be able to speak to a woman without a written contract establishing consent beforehand.

alynn Somewhere wonderful
11/04/14 4:40 pm

So, so true. Idiotic.

joker145
11/04/14 4:42 pm

Agreed

roundsquare round square
11/04/14 3:34 pm

Go for it and tell us her reaction. I'd love to hear it! LMAO

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roundsquare round square
11/04/14 3:34 pm

Go for it and tell us her reaction. I'd love to hear it! LMAO

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roundsquare round square
11/04/14 3:35 pm

I fucking hate when it does that.