Would you rather live in a town where everybody knows you or nobody knows you?
I've experienced both; everyone knows who I am (related to, etc), but few actually know me. In that circumstance, I prefer anonymity. If I lived in a community of like-minded and accepting people, I wouldn't mind being known.
I'm very private. I don't want people to know me.
I like that I know the kid that changes my tires, The girl who bagged my groceries, The guy who painted my house, the alteration lady, the girl who made my martini, the insurance guy. List goes on and on-a community of trust because of 30 years here
Nobody. I don't want everyone knowing my business.
I'm the same way.