Counseling session #23: She agrees with the age-old marital advice: "Never go to bed angry." He says it does no good to continue arguing when you are tired. What say you?
Mr. Being tired doesn't help the problem.They can sleep on it and if they agree to discuss again at a set time they can both go to bed not feeling too horrible. (Unless someone cheated or murdurded in-laws. These should be discussed immediately)
I say both are right. He says "it does no good to continue arguing when you are tired." So put the argument aside, make-up and go to bed Happy. Or at least not angry.
I'm somewhere in between, I agree don't go to bed angry but I think there can come a point where it does both parties involved some good to sleep it off and clearer their minds.
Mrs. Have you ever tried going to sleep when you are angry? I can't and I can fall asleep standing up! Talk it out. You will both feel better and when you wake up you won't have this cloud of doom hanging over your head.
I think far more rationally when I have had time to cool down and evaluate the situation.
My wife knows that if I am getting heated it is best just to table the conversation and allow me to do some self analysis.
Mrs. Though I think it's more of a nice thought, not always doable. My boyfriend and I have only went to bed mad at eachother once, but I was mad for WEEKS. It would do no good to stay awake that long
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