Show of HandsShow of Hands

StilettoMiss October 22nd, 2014 5:59pm

I think no matter what people's differences are, if both people make an effort to be kind to one another, the results are usually pretty amazing. To that end...I just wanted to say I had a great talk with the old Okie :) consider that hatchet buried!

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RepMorris Pennsylvania
10/24/14 11:58 am

What happened? Did a big feud get resolved? If so, great!

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CoffeeNow JFK went AFK
10/23/14 9:16 am

1 of 3,277 hatchets buried. Such progress. Much wow.

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StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/23/14 4:58 pm

that's what happens when people meet halfway :)

It's a beautiful thing.

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/23/14 6:41 pm

I suggest you even consider trying it sometime.

CoffeeNow JFK went AFK
10/24/14 7:16 am

You apologize for all the sexist, bigoted comments you've left (and not to mention doxxing fellow members) and that'd be a start

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/24/14 7:18 am

I suggest you do the same and let go of your bitterness and anger.

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/24/14 7:20 am

Especially considering how negative you've sounded since you showed up.

When you point fingers...do realize that the rest of your own fingers point back at you.

CoffeeNow JFK went AFK
10/25/14 6:18 pm

Name one person I've doxxed. We'll wait...

So much for your fresh start. You're back to being a little liar

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/25/14 6:26 pm

Your lack of class is disappointing, but expected.

Do you need a lesson in manners?

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/25/14 6:27 pm

If you're not adult enough or mature enough to have a touch of class and be gracious, just let me know. I'd be happy to punt you back to the ignore pile...it's becoming clear you're just too ill-mannered to understand the grace you're being shown.

CoffeeNow JFK went AFK
10/28/14 8:31 am

You never ignored anyone in the first place. You were just throwing a tantrum. But yes, please pretend to put me back on ignore


You couldn't even answer the question. Name one person I doxxed. Caught on your web of lies...

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/28/14 8:39 am

I took you off of ignore for this specific poll, and I'm beginning to see that was a mistake as you're a low-class bum who doesn't have any sense of maturity or grace. Back to the trash heap with you :)

Byeeeee

CoffeeNow JFK went AFK
10/28/14 1:02 pm

Hahaha so much for you turning over a new leaf huh? Guess that was all a lie. But of course we already knew that. Have fun pretending I'm on ignore you hateful bigot

drunk ill be Bach
10/22/14 7:20 pm

I'm not sure who that is. But maybe cowboy and nemacyst can be next, and they can finally respect you for who you are. (Wishful thinking)

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FacePalm That Trick Never Works
10/22/14 6:45 pm

I have no clue who Okie is :). But it's heartening to hear that people can rise above their differences - it's a Good Thing!
Yay!

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gonzoboy Arizona
10/22/14 6:14 pm

I'm a peace lovin' Homie, so I dig it when others find their way towards it! I always think it cool when we can allow the haze of our differences and judgements blow clear, so we can see ourselves and others more clearly. I appreciate this. ❤️

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AbandonedAccnt Not here.
10/23/14 4:07 am

You do look like a beatnik sorta fellow. :-)

gonzoboy Arizona
10/23/14 4:18 am

Hmmm, beatnik seems a bit dated, but if the shoe fits, I'll wear it! (Mainly, 'cuz I don't do sandals!)

rlands
10/22/14 4:43 pm

That's wonderful to hear, for both of you! :)

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JennaF sunflower state of mind
10/22/14 3:45 pm

Yay! Let's all hug it out!

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JennaF sunflower state of mind
10/22/14 3:52 pm

I can't express how happy seeing this has made. I'm so proud of you and okie for putting negative feelings aside and valuing each other as living souls, as human beings. Seriously so so proud.

BigKennyShow Welcome to the basement
10/22/14 3:32 pm

That's awesome SM! I've had my rants and arguments with some of the users here. I think it's great to make a fresh start with people and get to know them better. Just because views are different doesn't mean we can't all get along.

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FemmeAdamWest in the Tardis library
10/22/14 3:33 pm

I miss seeing you around sir! I hope your little one is having lots of fun with daddy time!

BigKennyShow Welcome to the basement
10/22/14 3:42 pm

I miss being around and talking to you all! Are you enjoying the pics on IG and facebook?

FemmeAdamWest in the Tardis library
10/22/14 6:01 pm

Absolutely, they are so adorable!

Kay41 the Midwest
10/22/14 2:49 pm

I so agree!!
And yet, I had to put someone on ignore today for the awful things he was saying about someone. I just couldn't listen to his vile comments anymore. Sad.

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Kay41 the Midwest
10/22/14 2:55 pm

Sad part is, I am a very loving and forgiving person. It feels bad to have to tell someone that I don't respect them at all. Wish I didn't feel that way.

FemmeAdamWest in the Tardis library
10/22/14 3:32 pm

I was very surprised at your comments, but I did appreciate someone standing up for me. So in a way, I'm sorry I was involved in your first ignore.

Kay41 the Midwest
10/22/14 3:37 pm

Which part surprised you?
I was happy to stand up for you. No one deserves to be accused of something or talked to like that and I know you are a great person!

FemmeAdamWest in the Tardis library
10/22/14 6:03 pm

Well surprised in general because usually people just see the train wreck coming when talking to cowboy and turn away. Also surprised because you're so sweet and your anger at him seemed real.

Kay41 the Midwest
10/22/14 6:53 pm

My anger was real. Too often I have seen him say horrible things to people. I don't know who he thinks he is that he can treat people in such a way. I try to be nice to people, but he crossed a line and I got angry. I didn't handle it the best, but

Kay41 the Midwest
10/22/14 6:54 pm

I think I needed to say what I did. You didn't deserve his words like so many other people on here didn't.

fredd TrumpLand
10/22/14 2:47 pm

Confession. I broke my rule and Unignored a bunch of folks here. Gazillions of one-sided notifications and excessive curiosity will do that...
Cowboy goes straight back on ignore, the reason should be abundantly obvious.

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fredd TrumpLand
10/22/14 3:15 pm

Nemacyst also, for reasons stated in a thread below.

redsox95 New England
10/22/14 3:15 pm

Close minded ^

redsox95 New England
10/22/14 3:16 pm

Closed-minded* ^

fredd TrumpLand
10/22/14 3:31 pm

Cowboy? Yes I agree, I've never seen that guy once deviate even slightly from his stated opinion, even in the face of evidence that proves him abundantly wrong. There really is no point to engaging with such a person.

FemmeAdamWest in the Tardis library
10/22/14 3:34 pm

He ignores two people and he's close minded? Good grief.

MrMilkdud
10/22/14 2:20 pm

Since this is a forgiving group, I'm sure those of you who judged me because of my past association with Okie, which has since ended, will let bygones be bygones. How about we all just take each other off of ignore?

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Torfin Never Behind
10/22/14 2:26 pm

I guess I missed whatever drama occurred.

redsox95 New England
10/22/14 2:19 pm

Imagine if you lived by this creed of yours?!

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CoffeeNow JFK went AFK
10/23/14 9:17 am

If it did that, it wouldn't be stilettomiss

ScottyDoesNo Stand back and stand by
10/22/14 2:02 pm

So which username, out of his hundreds of alts, is Okie going by these days?

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StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 2:03 pm

I'm sorry, I made a promise that I wouldn't divulge that

ScottyDoesNo Stand back and stand by
10/22/14 2:16 pm

Oh c'mon, as a sign of good faith, eh? :-)

Nemacyst No Lives Matter
10/22/14 2:16 pm

This user is currently being ignored

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 2:18 pm

LOL :)

I hope it's no offense...my integrity is just something that I value dearly and when I give my word, I mean it. Growing up we didn't have very much, but my parents taught me early on that if you're honest in life, you'll have all you need.

Nemacyst No Lives Matter
10/22/14 2:31 pm

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Nemacyst No Lives Matter
10/22/14 3:13 pm

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TopsQueen Oregon Coast
10/22/14 1:58 pm

I could not be prouder if you were my daughter. I'm so glad to hear that you have made my day and I have tears in my eyes.

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StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 1:59 pm

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

TopsQueen Oregon Coast
10/22/14 2:17 pm

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️^^^^

Torfin Never Behind
10/22/14 1:58 pm

Not in a skull I hope!

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TopsQueen Oregon Coast
10/22/14 2:17 pm

Ha ha Ha ha ha oh that's good!

Djsoke
10/22/14 1:51 pm

I would hope so :)

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bethanyq Ess Eff
10/22/14 1:50 pm

Awww, that's awesome! I'm glad you guys had a chat.

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StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 1:51 pm

Hey hey! We're overdue for a drink!

bethanyq Ess Eff
10/22/14 1:53 pm

OMG yes we are! I will send you a gchat msg tonight :)

TopsQueen Oregon Coast
10/22/14 1:59 pm

Okay girls the next time I'm down that way you need to set up a meeting. My sons do not like me talking to strangers but you're not strangers.

bethanyq Ess Eff
10/22/14 2:10 pm

Sounds like a date, Tops! ❤️

TopsQueen Oregon Coast
10/22/14 2:16 pm

My sons partner does not seem to want company. But I will ask him again now that school has started.

bethanyq Ess Eff
10/22/14 2:26 pm

Tell him how awesome and fun we are. Also my apartment building has a heated pool and free coffee, just sayin'

TopsQueen Oregon Coast
10/22/14 2:30 pm

Believe me my son and his partner know all about so of hands. A heated pool sounds great we could work off the calories. My son used to live on market Street almost across from City Hall. You can see it from stilettos office.

TopsQueen Oregon Coast
10/22/14 2:31 pm

I have posted a picture of my son before I think he and Kermie could pass for brothers.

TopsQueen Oregon Coast
10/22/14 2:42 pm

The place I loved down in the city was a French bakery I think it was on Pearl Street. About five blocks from City Hall or so. They had an almond croissant that any girl would break her diet for.

Zimmeress Make Me Laugh
10/22/14 2:47 pm

I want to be invited to this fun date! Would love to meet up with ya'll!!

TopsQueen Oregon Coast
10/22/14 2:53 pm

Maybe we can get Megan to come on over too.

TopsQueen Oregon Coast
10/22/14 2:57 pm

Silly cat thinks she is a chin rest.

TopsQueen Oregon Coast
10/22/14 3:11 pm

I know Kyle was planning on going to the bay area for a while too.

Zimmeress Make Me Laugh
10/22/14 6:58 pm

Oh I would just grab Megan on the way!

kermie gaytopia
10/22/14 1:42 pm

Nope, sorry. There's some people I could never reconcile with.

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political Georgia
10/22/14 1:46 pm

I'm sorry Kermie for not apologizing! ;)

AbandonedAccnt Not here.
10/22/14 1:46 pm

Isn't there a favorite liberal bumper that says something about everyone's eyes getting poked out if we had "an eye for an eye?"

AbandonedAccnt Not here.
10/22/14 1:37 pm

I'm glad to hear this. Anytime civility is chosen over ugliness then it's a good thing. I have some nastiness in my SOH behavior that I need to fix. Thanks for the good story. It's inspiring.

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StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 1:38 pm

Thank you :)

It's just easier to not harbor that negativity I think

AbandonedAccnt Not here.
10/22/14 1:43 pm

Thanks. I had a nasty spat with someone a few weeks ago and damned if it didn't keep me up for hours late at night. The contention gets old, it's tiring, and an "entertainment app" just isn't worth the hassle.

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 1:51 pm

I think even Tony would be proud lol

AbandonedAccnt Not here.
10/22/14 1:52 pm

It might even cause a hair follicle or two to regenerate. :-)

fredd TrumpLand
10/22/14 2:38 pm

Tony who?

ScottyDoesNo Stand back and stand by
10/22/14 1:32 pm

hahahahahahahahahahahahaha

YOU doing a poll about polite political discourse?!

lol lol lol lol lol

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Nemacyst No Lives Matter
10/22/14 1:35 pm

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StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 1:39 pm

*shrug* I'm making an effort.

The least you could do is meet me halfway. Or not. That's for you to decide.

All I know is it's not my desire to harbor that negativity anymore.

ScottyDoesNo Stand back and stand by
10/22/14 1:55 pm

That's honestly great to hear Stiletto. If you're truly being sincere here might you consider taking me off block, making your profile public and allow me (and others) to follow you again so we can open a respectful dialog?

Nemacyst No Lives Matter
10/22/14 1:58 pm

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Nemacyst No Lives Matter
10/22/14 2:00 pm

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ScottyDoesNo Stand back and stand by
10/22/14 2:00 pm

Thank you Stiletto, this is a big step and I hope we can maintain the respectful, albeit passionate, discourse we've enjoyed in the past. See you in the forums.

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 2:01 pm

See you there scotty :)

Nemacyst No Lives Matter
10/22/14 2:02 pm

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Nemacyst No Lives Matter
10/22/14 2:03 pm

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Nemacyst No Lives Matter
10/22/14 2:03 pm

This user is currently being ignored

Nemacyst No Lives Matter
10/22/14 2:04 pm

This user is currently being ignored

Nemacyst No Lives Matter
10/22/14 2:10 pm

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fredd TrumpLand
10/22/14 2:57 pm

I think Nema belongs on the same shelf as cowboy. How obnoxious to insinuate that he (or she) would be doing SM a great favor by refraining from routinely insulting her, BUT ONLY if she meets Nema's demands.

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 2:59 pm

That's one person I don't think I'll ever take off ignore, fredd

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 3:00 pm

simply because it's just a little uncomfortable the intensity that user brings to the conversation

AbandonedAccnt Not here.
10/22/14 3:05 pm

Nema. See the thread down below. Cass and Stiletto apologized.

Nemacyst No Lives Matter
10/22/14 3:12 pm

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fredd TrumpLand
10/22/14 3:14 pm

Nema, you have no idea what half way means, do you?

You did your best to poison a reconciliation and you failed. Back to Ignore and Irrelevance you go.

Nemacyst No Lives Matter
10/22/14 3:15 pm

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Nemacyst No Lives Matter
10/22/14 3:32 pm

This user is currently being ignored

CoffeeNow JFK went AFK
10/23/14 9:20 am

" it's not my desire to harbor that negativity anymore."

Stiletto is pure concentrated hatred of people who think differently than it. A leopard can't change its spots. This just shows a lack of self awareness

MJSeals J.D.
10/22/14 1:00 pm

How deep into his skull? ;-)

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fredd TrumpLand
10/22/14 12:29 pm

Oh.

Guess I didn't refresh.

Ah well, you can't be friends with everyone.

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fredd TrumpLand
10/22/14 12:30 pm

Oops Misposted.

political Georgia
10/22/14 1:29 pm

It's okay. I misread a poll yesterday. I learned my lesson alright. :)

AbandonedAccnt Not here.
10/22/14 1:43 pm

It's OK Fred. Just don't ever let it happen again!!!!!!!

cowboy Here and There
10/22/14 12:13 pm

What about when you stalk women online? How was that kind to Cass?

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StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 12:27 pm

Maybe one day you'll make an equal effort to be nice, too.

cowboy Here and There
10/22/14 12:28 pm

Not to mentally deranged men that stalk women online.

fredd TrumpLand
10/22/14 12:28 pm

I have cowboy on ignore, but is there a chance that he is here to say something nice and positive on this unusually lovely poll?

Someone tell me and I might unignore him! :)

fredd TrumpLand
10/22/14 12:30 pm

Oh.

Guess I didn't refresh.

Ah well, you can't be friends with everyone.

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 12:30 pm

No, he was being rather mean again.

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 12:31 pm

I think he's just an angry person fredd

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 12:32 pm

By the way, I came to have lunch at this place called Miss Saigon and the food is so amazing :)

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 12:32 pm

Are you in NorCal or SoCal fredd?

cowboy Here and There
10/22/14 12:33 pm

So stalking women is being kind to you, huh? Your mental disorder is showing.

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 12:33 pm

whatever you say cowboy :)

I hope you're having a stellar day.

cowboy Here and There
10/22/14 12:36 pm

It's not what I say, it's what you did.

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 12:38 pm

Your outrage over things that don't concern you, you mean?

Whatever you say cowboy.

cowboy Here and There
10/22/14 12:40 pm

No... It's what you did.

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 12:43 pm

I'm rather certain your activity on SoH is plenty more egregious than a simple google search.

Interestingly enough, at least I said sorry. You're still bent on your anger. It'll get the best of you someday.

Abolitionist Voice of the people
10/22/14 12:44 pm

No wonder why cowboys wife left his ass; he's always been a piece of shit

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 12:44 pm

Might I suggest trying to fix your own deficiencies before self-righteously pointing fingers?

:) have a lovely day.

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 12:45 pm

Abo I feel bad for him more than anything.

Poor thing.

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 12:45 pm

That level of anger seems suffocating.

cowboy Here and There
10/22/14 12:47 pm

Ok Mr. Stalker...

FemmeAdamWest in the Tardis library
10/22/14 12:48 pm

I feel like you might be confused as to who stalked who...

cowboy Here and There
10/22/14 12:48 pm

Why do you hate yourself so much that you had to pay a butcher to chop off your penis?

fredd TrumpLand
10/22/14 12:49 pm

SoCal, orange county. Only been up to SF once so far. Fascinating place, loved the cable trolleys.

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 12:50 pm

your lack of manners is pretty disappointing.

What kind of upbringing did you have if you think talking to people like that is okay when they're not returning your meanness?

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 12:51 pm

I love the OC!

If you're ever in the area you'll have to let me know! San Francisco is amazing with regard to the food and culture, I've been working here for a few years and I'm still continually amazed at what I discover!

cowboy Here and There
10/22/14 12:52 pm

You didn't answer the question.

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 12:54 pm

you can go away now :)

It's clear you're only here to express whatever nastiness resides inside of you.

I don't wish to play your games.

cowboy Here and There
10/22/14 12:58 pm

Awww... What's the matter? I'm not a girl you can bully around, tough guy?

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 12:59 pm

you should probably familiarize yourself with the laws regarding libel cowboy.

With as many defamatory remarks you publish in a social application such as this...it's only a matter of time before someone who's bored decides to ruin you in court.

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 1:00 pm

consider it a piece of friendly advice from someone who understands how the law works.

cowboy Here and There
10/22/14 1:02 pm

Lol! Law advice from Mr. Stalker... That's rich... So why do you hate yourself?

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 1:04 pm

what's there to hate :) I attended an amazing university after becoming a decorated war veteran with 5 tours in Iraq and now I help victims of traumatic injuries piece their lives back together while getting paid amazingly well. I think you're

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 1:05 pm

engaging in what's known as "projection".

Frankly, I'm of the opinion that it's you who hates yourself. Me? I love myself :) Just the way I am. And interestingly enough, a beautiful girl I get to come home to every day agrees :)

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 1:06 pm

you're starting to repeat yourself though.

Run along :) be well.

cowboy Here and There
10/22/14 1:07 pm

You tell me. Your the one with the mental disorder. So what happened to you?

Abolitionist Voice of the people
10/22/14 1:08 pm

Cowboys broke ass couldn't even fuck his wife right so she left his sorry ass; now he finds happiness trolling online because like minded losers like his posts

political Georgia
10/22/14 1:21 pm

Alright guys....I don't even care at this point who is right and wrong. I just find these cheap personal attacks to be wrong. I don't think anyone should make fun of Cowboy's divorce, and I have strived to avoid pronouns when talking to Stilleto to

political Georgia
10/22/14 1:22 pm

...avoid unnecessary controversy.

cass95 Jesus 2021
10/22/14 1:26 pm

SM you mentioned that you said that you're sorry. It's worth noting that an apology was never given directly to me from you. Only an apology to your friends here on the app, for disappointing them. I kindly ask that you not misrepresent the "apology"

cowboy Here and There
10/22/14 1:27 pm

Of course he didn't Cass. This whole poll is bullshit.

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 1:32 pm

I kindly ask that you note that you have yet to apologize for the repeated vile things you've said and polls you've published Cass. Everything from absurd transgender bathroom habits to all manner of defamatory and libelous remarks. It's all saved.

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 1:34 pm

Nonetheless...I don't have a beef with anybody.

My life is pretty perfect as is. If you wish to stay mad, that's your choice. Just recognize that it's a choice I no longer wish to make :)

cass95 Jesus 2021
10/22/14 1:34 pm

Noted.
I've not misrepresented any sort of apology, though.
There were lines crossed on both of our parts. However, I've never Googled you or sought you out outside of SOH with malicious intent.
I've said my peace. Good day.

political Georgia
10/22/14 1:37 pm

It's no secret that you two do indeed have "beef" with one another. If SM didn't have beef with Cass, SM would not have criticized Cass personally in a poll thread for no reason. If Cass didn't have "beef" with SM, she wouldn't be asking for an

political Georgia
10/22/14 1:37 pm

...asking for an apology.

cowboy Here and There
10/22/14 1:38 pm

Answer: He's not sorry for being a stalker. Never will be.

political Georgia
10/22/14 1:40 pm

SM, I think Cass just apologized. Do you accept it? Now, have you apologized?

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 2:34 pm

We apologized to one another in a direct message. I think it was lovely :)

cass95 Jesus 2021
10/22/14 2:37 pm

It was, indeed. :)

I think it's time that we all put this behind us and move forward!

Rob Be Safe Be Smart
10/22/14 3:10 pm

If two vegans are having a disagreement, is it still called a beef?

Kay41 the Midwest
10/22/14 3:13 pm

The end of this thread makes me happy!! :)

Nemacyst No Lives Matter
10/22/14 3:14 pm

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StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 3:20 pm

Rob maybe it's called a "tofu" at that point? :)

TomLaney1 Jesus is Lord
10/22/14 10:19 pm

Pol - Thank you. You've learned well: "Blessed are the peacemakers."

TomLaney1 Jesus is Lord
10/22/14 10:21 pm

Cass and SM - proud of you both for putting that in the past. Love you both. ❤️❤️

political Georgia
10/22/14 12:02 pm

Okay....how on God's green Earth did this happen?

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TomLaney1 Jesus is Lord
10/22/14 12:46 pm

Okie has had a major mental readjustment as far as the importance of loving everyone, especially those who hate you. I recognize it because I've been going through it myself. SM is still sarcastic to me because I'm a Christian, but ai've stopped

GrandmaALiCE For a better 2021
10/22/14 12:50 pm

I'd like to know, as well.

TomLaney1 Jesus is Lord
10/22/14 12:51 pm

being mean to sm. I wish we could all lay down our personal animosities and show non-Christians that our Jesus is real. No matter what SM did in the past, sm need not apologize to us, only to Cass. But if we've called SM an "it," or even if we've

TomLaney1 Jesus is Lord
10/22/14 12:57 pm

spoken what we see as the plain truth and called sm a "him" or a man, that is hurtful to sm just as it would hurt if someone called you a d^^k or an a$$hœl. We can't hope to reach anyone by offending them with language. Yes, the Gospel itself is a

TomLaney1 Jesus is Lord
10/22/14 1:01 pm

"stone of stumbling and a rock of offense" to hardened unbelievers, but our sincere love can help soften their hearts. I pray that every Christian who needs these words will heed them. ✞

TomLaney1 Jesus is Lord
10/22/14 1:05 pm

Okie is using another name now, so you'll probably have to settle for my answer. We're close friends, and we've discussed this subject recently.

political Georgia
10/22/14 1:06 pm

It's usually easy for me to recognize right from wrong. However, I usually retaliate in a disrespectful way instead of taking the high road.

GrandmaALiCE For a better 2021
10/22/14 1:10 pm

How did the contact come about? That's what I'm curious about.

TomLaney1 Jesus is Lord
10/22/14 1:13 pm

Alice, I'll ask him, or SM might reply to your Q. IDK. ❤️

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 4:23 pm

Okie sent me a message this morning

TomLaney1 Jesus is Lord
10/22/14 10:11 pm

SM, I really still want to get along and be friends. We can each look past the delusions we feel the other has, can't we? ❤️

Krystina Let Freedom Reign
10/22/14 11:32 am

I don't know who you're talking about, but it's always a good day when people make up and move beyond their differences. Congrats, SM.

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fredd TrumpLand
10/22/14 11:23 am

Okie of the very many fake profiles? How can you be sure it was him?

And you are far more forgiving than I could be. Kudos.

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StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 11:25 am

I'm certain...SoH has a way of sometimes bringing out the worst in me as well. I feel accountable for that and I think overall it's getting a little easier to choose to be nice. It's definitely a work in progress, but I think it gets better :)

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 11:27 am

I can be rather vicious when I feel slighted and I hope to find ways to mitigate that...I think the first step is two people who are at odds simply choosing to make an effort not to be :)

fredd TrumpLand
10/22/14 11:42 am

Perhaps I moved in the opposite direction. After a decade of being too nice (at great personal cost) I finally cut people out of my life who were nothing but toxic. Personally I'd be done with that person and never look back.

fredd TrumpLand
10/22/14 11:43 am

But again, kudos for doing this in such a positive way. You deserve to feel good about it.

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 11:43 am

I think you're pretty wonderful just the way you are fredd :)

ShereKhan A very dark place.
10/22/14 12:03 pm

Yet you unfriend me on Instagram and SOH for what reason??

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 12:08 pm

I'm sorry shere, I don't recognize your SoH name...?

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 12:11 pm

As for IG, I stopped following about a hundred and twenty accounts recently because it was just making my feed too full of people I didn't recognize

AbandonedAccnt Not here.
10/22/14 1:22 pm

Ditto to what speedbump said. :-)

StilettoMiss SF med law, meme queen
10/22/14 1:22 pm

Likewise thank you :)

AbandonedAccnt Not here.
10/22/14 1:55 pm

"whaaaat?" Did I do it right?

MrAngerer
10/22/14 11:15 am

Is this real life?

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cowboy Here and There
10/22/14 12:44 pm

You're not falling for this bs, are you!

jvc1133 61535
10/22/14 11:12 am

Happy for you, you deserve the respect.

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GrandmaALiCE For a better 2021
10/22/14 11:07 am

Seriously?

That's amazing!

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