A woman, of her own volition, goes to a party, gets drunk, and hooks up with a fellow attendee of said party. Did she, in fact, make the decision to have sex on her own free will and accord?
So for some of you here's this example:Your daughter goes to a party,gets drunk.I end up meeting her,she's drunk and I decide to take advantage of her.Since it's easier to get a drunk girl to say yes.I have sex with her.Is it ok to say she wants it?
She'd be in big trouble for being drunk.
It's easier to get a drunk person to make any bad decision: sex, driving, jumping off tall objects, saying things they shouldn't, etc.
You make the choice to drink, that doesn't absolve you of any choices...
...you make while drunk.
No, she was intoxicated.
Legally: not in most states. Sadly the laws state intoxication removes the possibility of consent, but does not remove the responsibility of the male from being charged. Gender inequality?
The Law is certainly inconsistent.
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Add to that... And used and interpreted inconsistently as well.
Problems on problems, haha.
Yes - unless it's the first time ever she got drunk she knows what mindset she gets in when drinking, and getting drunk, knowing this, was decided while she was sober.
We need to talk.
I'll email you
I closed that email account.
I guess never mind then.
What does it pertain to?
You. And a recent set of polls that are about you without naming you. I know you've seen them.
It makes me physically nauseous. If any/all of it is true....... It breaks my heart.
Oh. I'm unaware of it. Which author?
The other alpha that you stopped following after the fall out.
Well the BofM poll is obviously targeted at me, but I don't see how the others have anything to do with me. Why would he do this? What's his beef? Is this really about me and the doc talk alt thing?
I've seen the news articles, okie. Unless there is another you and another woman with your wife's name in CA (at that time) ....... I don't want to say anything more on a public forum.
Truth is, I held you in the highest regard. I was your biggest cheerleader. I know we all have a past. But finding that out along with the military thing...... truthfully, it breaks my heart.
If you can believe that was me then you never knew me to begin with.
Well I never imagined anything like this from the other "alpha." it's truly shocking and sad. I don't know what his motivation is, but I'm not mad; just surprised. ;-(
I thought I did know you. That's why I find this SO sad. Truly. What are the chances of a guy having your first, middle and last name, being married to a woman with your wife's name, being your exact age in CA at the same time...?? Please be honest.
I'm not altogether sure what I'm defending myself against and what you're matching to. I'm also not sure why this is happening, but it seems like more of why I abandoned kik in the first place. It seems his new tactic is to impact me here too.
Also, I don't know how I could defend myself with proof short of providing lots of documents.
It sounds like I need to abandon SOH too.
No worries cass. I still hold you and EB in high esteem and I won't hold a grudge. It's a sad ending, but it somehow seems like a relief. Have a good one.
So... I'm signing off now and won't be responding further. Bye.
You need to do what's healthiest for you. I just wanted you to know that I'm hurt. Genuinely hurt.
Why all the name changes, Okie?