Two girls (9 & 6 years old) wrote down a list of things to look for in a boyfriend. One of their mothers uploaded it to the internet. Did the girls miss anything important?
He should have abs
They should be your best friend.
***TEEN MOM ALERT! TEEN MOM ALERT!**
Is she stupid or just dumb?!?! She's all proud & posting them like progress reports -WTH?!?! They are NINE and SIX for Pete's sake! They have yet to hit puberty! Hell, they have yet to hit the double digits! smh
The person should dress good in dates
Yes...they missed the fact that they are WAY TO YOUNG to be once rend with boyfriends!!!
Concerned....not once rend.
Those girls are gonna be so bitchy when they grow up!
The objectification of men begins at a tragically young age...
He should love you
Based on the handwriting, a 9 & 6 didn't write this!!!
It looks like 9 year old handwriting to me
Must be a born again God-fearing Christian.
That was #1 on my list. ;)
Why would you want your boyfriend to have a neurological disease?
no mention about STDs on that list...
Shouldn't be convicted murderers
Does that fall under "good maners"?
They missed the most important ones: Fully committed to serving God and his family. And those in need. And believes marriage is a lifetime commitment, and that sex should be saved for our wedding night. Is gentle, with a well-controlled temper.
They're 6 and 9 they don't know about sex
Looks like the missed "faithful".
They missed "sexually compatible."
Although that'd be weird if they did list it...
Does that mean only have sex for procreation?
I don't understand why so many people take issue with this. I think it's important to have high standards - whatever standards are important to each individual - for the person one is going to spend every day and raise children with.
These girls expectations are too high.
That's a great list, actually. What bothered me is: where the hell does mom get off posting someone else's list to the Internet? Even if she asked them first, it isn't her "story to tell." IMO.
That was my first thought when I read the question.
Full head of hair.
I've always thought I was lucky, but now I know for sure. My husband has all those things and more! Well, he's not a good cook but I like to so that doesn't count.
Boys list... Boobs... That's pretty much it.
Umm...is intelligent/can hold a conversation?
something tells me they asked their mommy for qualities of a boyfriend and they wrote it down.
I took pictures of their lists to help me fill in mine at 35 yrs old!! :)
He should share his toys! LOL
Make sure he isn't M-F trans. That would be awkward.
I fail at all of these. Also...why does a six year old and a nine year old want to date a boy that doesnt live with his parents?
They've gotta be ambitious.. Be out there on their own.
Maybe it's future plans.
Anybody else thing they're are especially negative in their outlook regarding men?
Not if they think this is possible. If they thought that this would be near impossible, it would be incredibly negative. Otherwise they just know what they want.
My favorite - doesn't have a weird last name.
I know! When I married my husband (who has a VERY unusual name) I told him I wasn't planning to change mine. He said I had to take the bad with the good. :). It's actually kinda fun to have a different sort of last name.
Says please and thank you!
I didn't see "is nice to me" "is responsible" maybe I missed them.
Tiger parents much?
"Takes care of body" makes me wonder where they got that from..
Doesn't do drugs.. Never been to prison.. Etc
It saddens me that these girls have some higher standards than a lot of "fully grown women" I know.
Fully grown women have to settle for what they can get. These girls can dream.
And why is that? Why do we "have to settle?" I mean obviously you won't find someone with all aspects you admire, but if you love the person, is it really settling?
It's true, women don't have to settle. They could find someone perfect or more likely be alone.
But yeah, I believe the definition of settle is when you don't get everything you want. Nothing wrong with that.
Just trying to be realistic
Women think "what they can get" is far lower than it really is. Also, if we would raise our standards (reasonably), men could step up a bit. What they're looking for isn't out of the question.
"Doesn't lie, has integrity and is faithful" are pretty important, but they are young. They will realize that soon enough I'm sure, based upon the thought they put into their list!
Like # 22
Doesn't tattle tale.. Makes me wonder what these girls are up to! Snitches get stitches!
Pretty much!!! Some SOH users should take notes!! Lol
Pretty much sums it up
Those are some pretty high standards.
They'll be single for a really long time. Cats might fill in some gaps.
Better to be single than with the wrong person. What they want isn't impossible. Having high standards isn't a bad thing.
"Is a regular SoH user"
"Christian who loves Jesus" is at the top of my list for my daughter.
Hallelujah. Jesus lives. Hallelujah Jesus is fake and our land Lord!
Yeah, you and your kind won't make the cut...
Walks on water and then turns it into wine.
Faithful & not abusive
If I could find a guy with every single one of those qualities I would consider myself the luckiest girl alive!
Some girls still have the same list.
I think they will be happy to find someone who has half of those qualities.
lol they nailed it pretty good for their age
1. Not Ugly
4. Decent rack
6 year olds would write "nice rack?"
Yeah right. -_-
#24 is a MUST! You should marry someone who makes you laugh. If you cannot laugh together, the marriage will not last.