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DeusOrbus February 3rd, 2014 4:02am

SoHAH-esque: When it comes to sex one should be good, giving and game.

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aj1545 Cat Lady
02/03/14 6:00 am

Yes haha. Giving will make your partner want to please you a d feels good for you, game might find you something new and fun! Respect should be always be included too.

bethanyq Ess Eff
02/02/14 9:12 pm

Giving, yes. "Good" is in the eye of the beholder, and "game" is one hundred percent the prerogative of the individual in question - never an obligation.

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inge MIA
02/02/14 9:05 pm

I'm concerned as to what else your options could be. Bad and not giving? Yikes.

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DeusOrbus Stay Positive
02/02/14 9:08 pm

Well being game for new things that your partner wants to try tends to be where people draw the line.

violence Pretty hate machine
02/02/14 9:13 pm

Often, I think it's less that the other partner isn't willing, but rather that the first doesn't express those desires for fear of being rejected and/or perceived as weird.

alynn Somewhere wonderful
02/02/14 9:26 pm

Violence: Very true! I've been sleeping with someone for 5 years and we are very comfortable with each other. We recently tried something new that one of us wanted and didn't think the other would be interested in giving or receiving. Now we feel

alynn Somewhere wonderful
02/02/14 9:27 pm

like we've been missing out on something AWESOME for the past 5 years! Speaking up is a good thing!

inge MIA
02/02/14 9:30 pm

I second that. I wasmt confident enough in myself until I found the right partner. I finally spoke up and wish it didn't take me so long.

alynn Somewhere wonderful
02/02/14 9:34 pm

Yep...with previous partners I was shy. Certainly not the case anymore, lol. With women, I think it's ALL about confidence...it's incredibly liberating.