SoHAH-esque: When it comes to sex one should be good, giving and game.
Yes haha. Giving will make your partner want to please you a d feels good for you, game might find you something new and fun! Respect should be always be included too.
Dan Savage ftw!
Giving, yes. "Good" is in the eye of the beholder, and "game" is one hundred percent the prerogative of the individual in question - never an obligation.
I'm concerned as to what else your options could be. Bad and not giving? Yikes.
Well being game for new things that your partner wants to try tends to be where people draw the line.
Often, I think it's less that the other partner isn't willing, but rather that the first doesn't express those desires for fear of being rejected and/or perceived as weird.
Violence: Very true! I've been sleeping with someone for 5 years and we are very comfortable with each other. We recently tried something new that one of us wanted and didn't think the other would be interested in giving or receiving. Now we feel
like we've been missing out on something AWESOME for the past 5 years! Speaking up is a good thing!
I second that. I wasmt confident enough in myself until I found the right partner. I finally spoke up and wish it didn't take me so long.
Yep...with previous partners I was shy. Certainly not the case anymore, lol. With women, I think it's ALL about confidence...it's incredibly liberating.