Inspired by MJ seals: Do you care what people think about you or do you love yourself?
I'm pretty comfortable with who I am. I have a wife and kids who love me dearly. I'm not too likely to sweat someone not liking me, though I do try to be good to people.
I'm comfortable with who I am, but I wouldn't be honest if I said I didn't care about how others perceive me. If another person believes that I have wronged them, it eats me up until I can try to make amends or explain the situation.
Both. I love myself (and feel extremely narcissistic for saying that) but also feel that what others say about me is important to learn from.
both - I very much love myself, but I do care about how others see me as well