xxclixxx Rhode Island
09/30/12 7:32 am
I consider my wife and I as one unit. if you tell either of us assume we both know. that being said we don't want to tell each other everthing our friends are going through.. TMI!
09/28/12 11:39 am
My word is my bond. I would never willingly break a promise to a friend.
I would tell my spouse all MY secrets, but a friends secret is not my own to tell.
09/27/12 12:38 am
You should tell your friend that you'll tell your spouse if there is a question. My friends know I'm a vault.
09/26/12 7:55 am
I keep my promises. If she (spouse) was intended to know the secret, then she would have been told.
09/26/12 6:58 am
My spouse is my partner in life. Marriage has made us one, therefor if you share something you share it with her too. I trust her with my life and kids, so I should trust her also with your secret. Unless it is a gift for her. Then I keep it to myself.
09/26/12 5:55 am
You can share your own secrets with your spouse, but why share someone else's secret? Marriage makes no sense to me
09/26/12 5:44 am
Definition of SECRET: 2.
kept from the knowledge of any but the initiated or privileged: a secret password.
I don't get it, when the person confided in you, did they say your spouse was privileged? Did you ask if they could be " privileged"?
If not, then shut up!
09/26/12 2:36 am
I think most of my friends know that telling me not to tell anyone means I won't tell anyone except my husband.
09/26/12 2:17 am
I don't think I could keep anything from my wife she has gave me her life and she tells me everything and I love her with all my heart so I would tell her anything
09/26/12 1:41 am
This is a tough question. What if my wife has a big mouth? And if I don't share it with her then she will likely think that I don't trust her.
Forget it I'm keeping the secret. But I still love my wife.
09/25/12 10:11 pm
I'd really like an "are you sure" button too. I accidentally reported someone tonight too, and I know I'll most likely do it again because the report button is right under my thumb when I scroll.
09/25/12 9:20 pm
It would depend on what the secret is. If its something that would be innocuous to tell my spouse, I would. But if there was some reason he shouldn't know, or my friend specifically said NOT to tell him. I wouldn't.
09/25/12 8:25 pm
I keep accidentally reporting people. I really apologize!!
I just figured out why this is happening, though. I tend to scroll through comments on the left hand side of the screen. It's easy for my finger to tap the report button.
Tony, would it be very hard for you to add "are you sure"?
09/25/12 7:56 pm
Most best friends would expect you to share with your spouse. If not, must be a good reason not to share with your spouse
09/25/12 7:45 pm
I keep nothing from my husband. We are of the same mind and have the same vested interests. He knows everything I do.
09/25/12 7:37 pm
If I were married(i'm not),and the secret concerned me, I'd probably tell my husband about it. I would hope I would be able to trust him not to tell anyone else. Family doesn't count sometimes, if something's bothering you.
09/25/12 6:18 pm
Not necessarily a secret, but people, friends, needed someone to talk to and they felt they could talk to me without it ending up all over the place. Isn't that what friends are for, to help in times of need?
09/25/12 6:02 pm
Man, I don't know if I would want to confide a secret to 50% of the people on here! Wife and I used to work together and people were always surprised that we didn't know something they told one of us in confidence. That's the way to should be.
09/25/12 5:59 pm
My wife can't keep her mouth shut whether consciously or unconsciously so depending in what the secret is would effect the my answer but from experience I say no
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