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TopsQueen November 13th, 2017 9:43pm

@SunsetLeopard Lost her husband to suicide last night. Please keep her in your thoughts and prayers and send little messages of encouragement. Thank you.

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11/14/17 7:37 pm

My condolences to her and her family.

SonoranBloom Formerly cowtown2
11/14/17 12:42 am

Lifting her and her son up in prayer. 🙏

lcamino Florida and Georgia
11/13/17 10:05 pm

I just found out a little while ago. I’m wondering what we might be able to do in addition to praying for her. I don’t think she has a big support network nearby.

TopsQueen Oregon Coast
11/14/17 12:28 am

She said she doesn’t need anything right now. It’s so shocking for her.

lcamino Florida and Georgia
11/14/17 12:49 am

She has put up a gofundme link on another poll to help pay for the funeral. It’s for her in laws, I guess they are planning the funeral.

SunsetLeopard Still writing my story
11/14/17 1:29 am

Im still plnning it...they are just in charge kf financing it.

lcamino Florida and Georgia
11/14/17 1:40 am

I know it is expensive. I just planned my mother’s funeral in August.

lcamino Florida and Georgia
11/14/17 1:51 am

I know. You have had a lot of loss in a short time. I’m so sorry. I’ll donate to the go fund tomorrow. Wish there was more that could help you.

SunsetLeopard Still writing my story
11/14/17 2:18 am

Thank you 💖 so do i

TopsQueen Oregon Coast
11/14/17 8:05 am

You should put a link here too. ❤️💐

missmorganmarie ...
11/14/17 6:46 pm

if there's a go find me link for you and Connor please let us know

4JC Christian Pastors Wife
11/14/17 6:51 pm

@Robert97206 & @jadeburt here is some info about GoFundMe. Sunset, they were asking me to let them know if you’re doing a GoFundMe account. Apparently, it’s in another poll, guys.

Sunset, if you have the link, could you post it here, also?


lcamino Florida and Georgia
11/14/17 9:22 pm

Go to @SunsetLeopard she has an update, and the gofundme link is in there. I did that today. Only problem is, the money is going to her mother in law for the funeral. Not to Sunset.

missmorganmarie ...
11/15/17 12:22 pm

yes. we asked her to create a link for herself

jadeburt Ann Arbor, Michigan
11/15/17 2:42 pm

Thanks @4JC (and others). I knew you’d be more plugged in to this than I was because im not logging in to SOH as much as normal right now (busy schedule).

4JC Christian Pastors Wife
11/15/17 3:12 pm

You’re welcome, Jadeburt. I’m actually doing less on SOH now through Christmas because of babysitting my 2 year old granddaughter while daughter works, decluttering the house and working on three counted crossed stitched Christmas gifts.


LadyBug237 Florida
11/13/17 10:03 pm

So sad!! I will be praying for her and her son. I am teary.

Sunset, allow yourself to feel Gods love and support.

Thank you Tops for tells no us.

evoecon nearest binary system
11/13/17 8:14 pm


jadeburt Ann Arbor, Michigan
11/13/17 6:06 pm

Oh my goodness. I know that her family was going through a hard time. I’ll keep her in my prayers. Also, if she sees this poll, I hope she would feel confident asking us for help if there were anything we could do. I’d be happy to help lift her burden any way I could.

4JC Christian Pastors Wife
11/13/17 6:23 pm

I would, as well. I’ve been there, done that.

And to Sunset Leopard, and for any of YOU contemplating suicide, know that



Robert97206 Portland Oregon
11/14/17 11:13 am

4JC, if sunset sets up a go fund me. Please DM me.

4JC Christian Pastors Wife
11/14/17 12:23 pm

I will if I hear about it. I wasn’t actually following her until yesterday when I heard about this. We had talked before, in other people’s polls, I think, if I’m remembering correctly.

4JC Christian Pastors Wife
11/14/17 6:48 pm

Didn’t think about that! Thanks, 3M!

jakecrs905 New York, NY
11/13/17 5:58 pm

Wow, truly awful I hope she and her family can begin to cope and heal.

aj1545 Cat Lady
11/13/17 5:00 pm

Oh my god, thats horrible, my heart goes out to her. I cant begin to imagine how she feels.

jimiscott Survivor
11/13/17 4:34 pm

It’s a terrible tragedy for anyone to go through. There are no words to describe what kind of feeling you have when this happens. Love and support are what matter right now as well as non judgmental listening.

TopsQueen Oregon Coast
11/13/17 5:39 pm

I’ve been thinking of you. Prayers and love

4JC Christian Pastors Wife
11/13/17 6:22 pm

As a suicide survivor, I agree 100%. My prayers are with Sunset Leopard and her family during this most difficult time. There are NO words thad can make it better.

Hugs, Sunset!


GrandmaALiCE Rocky Mtns aerial view
11/13/17 8:54 pm

Jimiscott, I hope this doesn’t open old wounds for you, too much.

jimiscott Survivor
11/13/17 8:59 pm

It’s always hard to see this kind of thing happen. I went through four months of PTSD and grief counseling in order to learn to deal with it. I learned a lot and healed quite a bit. It never leaves you and there’s not a day that goes by that I don’t think about it. I just hope she gets the proper counseling and support she needs.

GrandmaALiCE Rocky Mtns aerial view
11/13/17 9:06 pm

I felt especially bad for you, when you were trying to get through to cowboy. I think, in his strange sick way, he really thought he was being helpful.

Did you know that his father attempted suicide? That’s where some of his bitterness comes from.


GrandmaALiCE Rocky Mtns aerial view
11/13/17 9:07 pm

And I agree with you about Sunset. I hope she and her son get the counseling they need.

Think Lovin Life
11/13/17 4:15 pm

Tops ... thanks for sharing. I’m so sorry for her loss! We will pray for her to find peace.

11/13/17 3:24 pm

My heart goes out to her. 💜

Kay41 the Midwest
11/13/17 3:04 pm

Oh my gosh! That is awful! I can't imagine what she is going through. My prayers are with her and her son.

proudGA New Jersey
11/13/17 3:03 pm

I’m sorry to hear that. The unfortunate truth is too many of us have lost someone to young.