SOHAH: In your current or last relationship (if it applies) when participating in a blow job, is there finger manipulation on the males ass hole?
I'm happy if that was helpful in some way. I don't think sex should ever be boring, even with couples that have been together for decades. It's important to mix things up and try new things!
Testing is fine. I'd rather her be interested enough to test than be too passive. A very good point you made. I'll show her your comment.
My girl said it wasn't on purpose but I know she was testing me.
Would you rather her test the boundaries sometimes, or assume that you aren't into something unless you specifically express an interest in it?
no. but my last ex loved that
No. My current partner isn't into it. My last partner was.