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Nickid June 29th, 2025 3:36pm

With the passing of Susan and Rons, SoH lost two big voices in the community. While they contributed much, they were gone in a blip. What would you want to say to your SoH friends before you go?

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mark4
Jun 29, 9:02 am

As my final days approach I’d like everyone to know how much I appreciate everyone's input. I know I’ve offended many, but believe me when I tell you it is not my intent to insult but to point you to the eternal verities.

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Jazzy5 USA
Jun 29, 10:29 am

Mark4…. Where are you going????
final days??? I’ll going to need sangria! Bottle!
After this !!!

jen2214 eastern Ohio
Jun 29, 11:15 am

πŸ™β€οΈπŸ™

mark4
Jun 29, 11:26 am

πŸ˜„
Thought you knew.
I’m in the final stage of a type of leukemia called myelofibrosis. My bone marrow is replacing healthy cells with nonproductive fiber and the effect is easy bruising, free bleeding, and very low energy. My oncologist reminds me of how very much I’ve outlived expectations, and I’m grateful for that. The chemo treatments are not helping. At 81 I’m fine with it. Because of an NDE I live both by faith and by sight. I am sorry that this will result in my wife going into as assisted living facility, but with her personality she’ll be okay. Didn’t mean to be so long winded about it, but thought your inquiry deserved it.

mark4
Jun 29, 11:28 am

Enjoy the sangria! Good stuff on a hot day.

MrsCrayonWax Bethesda
Jun 29, 11:45 am

Pastor. You can’t die because I won’t let you. I know we’ve disagreed and even fought at times but I truly enjoy and appreciate you. 🩷

gonzoboy Northern AZ
Jun 29, 12:29 pm

Oh dear mark4, I’m sorry, and thank you for sharing! I will feel we are blessed each and every time we see a post from you. Thank you for being a beautiful human!

chickencookie
Jun 29, 12:49 pm

Mark please let someone in your family know about this place so we don’t miss you terribly like we did for Ron for 7 months and worry and wonder.

ozzy
Jun 29, 3:43 pm

Always praying for you Mark! Hang in there brother

Diogenes Accountability Now
Jun 29, 3:52 pm

Spirits never die, my brother. πŸ’ͺ

mark4
Jun 29, 5:05 pm

Hey folks! I’m not gone yet!

Thank each of you for your dear responses, but I’m just milking this a little. I’ve not exaggerated anything but since I’ve exceeded expectations thus far, I really don’t know if it’ll be this week or this quarter. And I will get my wife to tell you goodbye.
🎼Don’t cry for me SOH friends. The distant glimpse of heaven I had as an atheist, assures me of the love that waits.

In the mean time you’ll still have to put up with me.

Diogenes Accountability Now
Jun 29, 5:19 pm

You’re not dismissed until you get your πŸ‘‘!

JadedRose73 Formerly Jade73
Jun 29, 6:00 pm

Mark4, I will miss you and your posts. Please stay with us as long as you can. Prayers.

TopsQueen Oregon Coast
Jun 29, 6:04 pm

What I have can turn into leukemia. I’ll know more in about three or four weeks when testing is done. It’s so nice. It’s so comforting to know that we will someday meet.

Diogenes Accountability Now
Jun 29, 6:05 pm

What type of leukemia?

mark4
Jun 29, 7:17 pm

Myelofibrosis.

Tommy1776 Midwest
Jun 29, 7:21 pm

I appreciate our discussions mark and wish you well. Even if we can't agree on some things. I've learned a lot from you. Mostly vocabulary, like the word numinous. But also some deep insights. And I'm realizing I'm not called to teach some of the things I've learned about God to older people, respectfully. Older people have beliefs about God that have served them well, and some of the things I'm suggesting are difficult to reconcile with these beliefs, and can be upsetting. I'm aware of that, and I should be more careful. My calling seems to be more about teaching younger people these concepts.
I appreciate your perspective in death. It's cool that you aren't afraid. You shouldn't be. I'll say a prayer for you and your wife.

3675Bumpa
Jun 29, 8:06 pm

Prayers, Mark. I am battling cancer too.

MrsCrayonWax Bethesda
Jun 29, 8:26 pm

I’m sorry to hear, Bump.

martyinca California
Jun 29, 10:19 pm

For what it's worth: Mark, Bumpa & TQ ( Always).
You are in my prayers.

MrsCrayonWax Bethesda
Jun 29, 10:21 pm

I wish everyone here got that. Love ya back!

Jazzy5 USA
Jun 30, 8:30 am

Mark..
I dropped a post at the verrrry top for you. ⬆️

FiveRabbits FourRabbits
Jun 29, 9:01 am

I would tell the users that you have more in common with each other than you realize. Your indulgence in finding the most vile insults to hurl at each other affects you as much as it affects them. There is a reason that none of the users on here are honest about who they are in real life and you are a contributor to that reason either though your own attacks, or in avoiding conflict.

I’ve left this app three times and I’ve returned three times. There are valuable insights, but the toxic burden is palpable. I would expect no one to mourn my passing as I am far too afraid of all of you to ever reveal enough for you to give two sh*ts if I live or die.

This account is nearly burnt since the ignore system makes people invisible and if you’ve been on the app for any length of time the amount of conversation you miss tends to increase until the conversations no longer make sense.

I will not remain much longer.

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gonzoboy Northern AZ
Jun 29, 9:09 am

I feel the poignancy of this comment. Thank you for your honesty; I appreciate you.

makem Chinese Xinjiang Camp
Jun 29, 9:00 am

You'll probably never know.

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Crawdaddy11 big TESLA fan
Jun 29, 8:54 am

I would want my SoH headstone to say, “FIRST!”

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Crawdaddy11 big TESLA fan
Jun 29, 8:56 am

Condolences to families and friends by the way, I hope this didn’t come across as disrespectful.

TomM
Jun 29, 9:17 am

This is one where I will let you be first 😬

Crawdaddy11 big TESLA fan
Jun 29, 10:03 am

You can pretend you let me but I earned this one fair and square.

Kay41 the Midwest
Jun 29, 10:44 am

Craw, you've made me laugh more times than you know over the years! πŸ˜ƒ

Crawdaddy11 big TESLA fan
Jun 29, 10:52 am

🀟🏼

buckleharry
Jun 29, 2:20 pm

In honor of @Odysseus request for more sarcasm I’ll point out that the first to die was unable to post that they were “First”

Diogenes Accountability Now
Jun 29, 3:53 pm

LMAO!!🀣

FIRST! Too much!!!

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Texas
Jun 29, 7:41 pm

Craw, πŸ˜‚πŸ€ͺ🀣