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Nickid June 29th, 2025 3:36pm

With the passing of Susan and Rons, SoH lost two big voices in the community. While they contributed much, they were gone in a blip. What would you want to say to your SoH friends before you go?

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KellyDimples NJ
Today: 4:49 am

I take a little break and come back to this news? That is horrible. Susan and I often didn’t see eye to eye, but she was a nice person and very helpful with SOH issues.

DTinCA MANA
Today: 12:18 am

If I ever were to leave SOH, I’m sure my husband would say, “Well at least I don’t have to hear ‘Someone on Show of Hands said…’ anymore!

It’s been a wild ride. These posts are starting to feel like an obit for SOH. I appreciate those here who are saying they will leave instructions to family members to let us know if something happens to them.

Sentinel Ya ie wa noh
Jun 30, 10:48 pm

@rons is/then a good egg, @Susan, did not see mich eye to eye, but I spoke with her....πŸ™'s and a peaceful journey......Aho!.

bringstheeagle Colorado
Jun 30, 3:51 pm

I’m very sorry to hear about Rons loved his kitchen tips but I did know about Susan’s passing she was a dear in all respects…I’ll miss them both. πŸ˜”

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Krystina Let Freedom Reign
Jun 30, 3:28 pm

Aww. I didn't know we lost Rons, too. That's sad.

I'd tell people love is the answer, so they should to strive to love one another, especially when it's difficult.

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lcamino Florida and Georgia
Jun 30, 2:05 pm

I knew about Susan, but not about Ron. I’ve asked a few times about him. What I liked best about Rons, was his love for his wife, and his commitment to her. He was always so proud and complimentary of his wife. She was beautiful, AND she could chop wood. πŸ’”

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badattitude no place like home
Jun 30, 1:44 pm

I didn’t know Rons died too. Very sad.

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CudOfCow Oregon
Jun 30, 1:28 pm

Live long and prosper. πŸ––

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JulieB Texas Lake House
Jun 30, 12:58 pm

I had not heard that Rons passed. I had missed seeing him around for a while, but I’m so sad to hear he’s gone. 😰

Susanr is sorely missed.

I would want my SOH family to know I appreciate your ability to educate me, to include me in your community, and the grace most have given me in our discussions. I value this group a lot, and would miss many that I consider friends.

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missmorganmarie ...
Jun 30, 11:32 am

nothing. no one would notice if I left

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JulieB Texas Lake House
Jun 30, 12:51 pm

Fake news! I’d miss you! 😘

Kay41 the Midwest
Jun 30, 12:58 pm

I think you'd be surprised how many of us would miss you. πŸ’›

lcamino Florida and Georgia
Jun 30, 1:32 pm

I would. I’m not on as consistently as I used to be, but you are one of my favorites!!

DisneyGirl24 The Triangle, NC
Jun 30, 1:54 pm

I would definitely miss you, 3M! πŸ€—

bringstheeagle Colorado
Jun 30, 3:54 pm

I’d miss you too. 😁

me2knkneez Shakuntala
Jun 30, 5:13 pm

Of course I’d miss you❀️…but could I have your cat 😬❀️❀️

KellyDimples NJ
Today: 4:47 am

I thought the same thing, but a few people actually did notice that I took a break.

Jazzy5 USA
Jun 30, 8:29 am

Mark.. damn..

It’s hard enough, holding off the left on here!
Expiration, doesn’t always mean expiration .
My dad exceeded his by 15 years !

I never looked at SHO as an extended family, until recently.. Tops, 4JC, you, can use prayers, Ron passing, many things have surfaced to make me think differently, about those that I respond to..I have one dem, Brings, that I like.
I believe this… Heaven is for real. Believer or not..I believe it’s a time when you get to see things are really beautiful around you…
You never noticed before….Enjoy.

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mark4
Jun 30, 9:16 am

☺️
Perhaps…no, probably our losses do exaggerate or focus us on what we still have. Bedtime and morning wake-up brings increased joy as prayers become more intimate. Rather than senses dulled by age, food tastes better, and more sensitive to fat degradation.

TopsQueen Oregon Coast
Jun 30, 10:52 am

I’m always here for you. You can message me here I can. give you my Facebook information if you want there’s two of us by the exact same name one of them is my sister-in-law

ozzy
Jun 30, 2:01 pm

Mark - a good re-read of Marcus Aurelius, meditations

bringstheeagle Colorado
Jun 30, 3:57 pm

@jazz5 😒 I’m surprised and deeply touched. I like you too. Mostly 😁

bringstheeagle Colorado
Jun 30, 3:57 pm

I’m kidding @jazz5 I like you too.

cowboy Evil will not prevail
Jun 30, 5:25 am

I didn’t know Rons was gone. RIP

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kermie gaytopia
Jun 29, 11:13 pm

Oh I’m gutted. I had no idea Susan had passed. I first met her on another forum before SOH even existed. Beautiful lady. I’ll cherish the memories.

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TopsQueen Oregon Coast
Jun 30, 10:53 am

I still feel got punched. It was on Facebook her daughter posted.

TopsQueen Oregon Coast
Jun 30, 10:54 am

As we are friends on Facebook, I’m sure my family will post there.

LibertarianB0b Chaotic Neutral
Jun 29, 10:39 pm

Thank you for your time.

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suppressedID destiny is right now
Jun 29, 10:17 pm

“I was always right.” Peace ✌️

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4JC Christian Pastors Wife
Jun 29, 8:46 pm

I would say that I’m in a much better place and hope to one day see them there, as well. I would hope they would remember how I shared Jesus’ love with them and that He is God and died for them to give them better lives both here and in eternity! ❀️❀️❀️ and πŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ»

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TopsQueen Oregon Coast
Jun 30, 10:55 am

You have been on my mind a lot and I’ve been worried about you. Have you got all your results back yet?

4JC Christian Pastors Wife
Jun 30, 5:37 pm

No. I haven’t even set up the appointment yet for the oncologist in B’ham. They’ve just recently called and left a message. I’m not sure I’m going to go to that one because I’m not in pain right now and don’t want to do anything that will stir that up again.

4JC Christian Pastors Wife
Jun 30, 5:37 pm

I’m waiting on God’s leading on that matter.

fotns1
Jun 29, 8:31 pm

Get your moderate friends to joins. We need some more diversity and centrist views.

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RobertUSA 21087
Jun 29, 8:00 pm

Its been fun. Occasionally frustrating. Sometimes surprising. But always interesting.

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BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Texas
Jun 29, 7:27 pm

I had not heard that Rons passed. πŸ˜”

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BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Texas
Jun 29, 7:32 pm

As to what I would say...
"I might not know all of you well but I have love for all of you as does my Lord & Savior, Jesus the Christ. You might not believe in Him. If not I hope that changes & at the very least I hope I have reflected Him well. To those who do believe, I will see you again & know that I am in a much ch better place! πŸ’œ"

SFLiberal 1 Corinthians 6 9
Jun 29, 7:42 pm

3M tagged you in my poll. Maybe it didn’t work because the letters weren’t capitalized.

3675Bumpa
Jun 29, 7:57 pm

Perfect, Bamagirl.

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Texas
Jun 29, 9:49 pm

SF, I saw it. Thank you for your research.

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Texas
Jun 29, 9:51 pm

SF, to clarify I saw that tag after I commented in this poll.

SFLiberal 1 Corinthians 6 9
Jun 29, 9:56 pm

Bama - Ok I’m glad you saw. Do you know of rons was a Christian? I’m assuming yes but I don’t recall.

Texas1 did not proofread
Jun 29, 7:15 pm

I’ve thought about giving the ole lady instructions to let the SOH community know if something happens to me. I don’t have any personal contact with any other users. I know I’d like to know why someone is absent. Idk….
I never expected to live this long, if you go by mu family tree I’m long over due for heart failure. I feel find, meds seem to be keeping ticket in check, but you never know.
I suppose I’ll have the talk with the ole lady n tell her to let y’all know. I’ll give her the names of all the good ones and the ones that can GTH too. lol πŸ˜‚

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BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Texas
Jun 29, 7:33 pm

I think we still have email contact, so she can email me if that's easier.

martyinca California
Jun 29, 9:53 pm

🀣🀣🀣

EarthMunkey The Golden Rule. Always.
Jun 29, 7:09 pm

Not much really. I've enjoyed talking to everyone. The debates over the years have evolved...minds slowly roll one way or another. It is always nice to get a new perspective on something you thought you had figured out. Even if it could be from the same side with different information or history.

Over the years I have realized that most arguments are not even worth the effort if you can't have them in person. It's just exhausting online sometimes. Social media, including SoH, is full of trolls... Sometimes the conversation is better than someone winning.

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EarthMunkey The Golden Rule. Always.
Jun 29, 7:10 pm

Sad to hear about Rons. He was a good dude and a fellow vet. We didn't agree on everything but were parallel in many discussions. There should be more people like him in the world.

weird4
Jun 29, 5:45 pm

No one gets my organs.

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desolatia Oregon
Jun 29, 5:07 pm

I would say—See ya, losers! I love all of you, even the ones I disagree with.

Just know, if I disappear, that I was sarcastic up until the last minute!

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Diogenes Accountability Now
Jun 29, 5:16 pm

Damn, girl. You said it better than me! πŸ†

DisneyGirl24 The Triangle, NC
Jun 29, 3:58 pm

My heart breaks to hear about these two active SOH users. I almost felt like I knew Rons because he lived across the river from where I used to live in PA. We have had several conversations about the area.

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DisneyGirl24 The Triangle, NC
Jun 29, 4:07 pm

What would I want to say to my fellow SOH users (and some who I might even call friends!)? I would want you all to know that you have enriched my life through the interactions that we have had through the app. I would also want you all to know (if you don’t already!) how very much I love my Lord and Savior. And I hope that you would all come to a saving, loving relationship with him if you aren’t already. Even though I may not agree with some of you, I always respect your opinion. And I would hope that you would do the same for me.

lj74
Jun 29, 9:17 pm

Where did he live in PA?

martyinca California
Jun 29, 9:57 pm

Disney,
That's very sweet!
I'd give you a hug right now if we were in person ( and,if it didn't weird you out).

DisneyGirl24 The Triangle, NC
Jun 30, 4:21 am

@74 He lived in Sussex County, NJ which is just over the border from Pike County, PA. Across the Delaware River.

@marty Aww…that’s very kind of you (and no, absolutely wouldn’t weird me out!). Thank you so much!!!

Diogenes Accountability Now
Jun 29, 3:43 pm

You’re all idiots! No hard feelingz. 😏

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TrumpWon2024
Jun 29, 3:41 pm

RIP, see you soon. Life goes by in the blink of an eye.

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HappyLez No Worries... Be Happy
Jun 29, 3:07 pm

Very Very Sorry to hear about Susan and Rons 😒
Rest In Peace

I’d like you all to know that I didn’t always agree but always respected your opinions
And almost always learned something 😁

And I blocked the real nasty folks
Life is way to short to deal with mean spirited people

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martyinca California
Jun 29, 9:59 pm

@HL, πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

gts1963
Jun 29, 2:33 pm

I would want people to love God and love others. That don’t need to remember me. Knowing God is what really matters most of all. ❀️

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gts1963
Jun 29, 2:33 pm

Not “that” but “they”

historylover Navy Seawolves
Jun 29, 1:53 pm

Do any of you know how Kelly Dimples is doing?

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zimmy Florida
Jun 29, 1:32 pm

Very sad they are both gone. They will be missed!

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chickencookie
Jun 29, 1:29 pm

I hate to say it but things come in threes. Who will be next?πŸ₯Ί

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Diogenes Accountability Now
Jun 29, 3:44 pm

You had to bring ip the triplets. Oy vey!

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Texas
Jun 29, 7:35 pm

Do we know that Zod is okay? He disappeared before Susan passed.

chickencookie
Jun 29, 1:24 pm

I think if you are a frequent user here you should let someone in your family or a friend contact us in someway should something happen. Otherwise we all are just left wondering and worrying. After 13 years, this place has become part of my life.

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FATSHADOW Cyborg Gorilla
Jun 29, 12:43 pm

“You were all lucky to be graced by the presence of FATSHADOW”



Im saddened by the news of Ron. He and I lived on different ends of Jersey, but we had many of the same hobbies and interests….I always saw him as sort of a glimpse into my future if I ever made it past 65.

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alkie New York
Jun 29, 12:01 pm

Sorry to hear this. I had no idea they both passed.

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MrsCrayonWax Bethesda
Jun 29, 11:44 am

I’d want SOH to know that people are more than the sum of their religious and political beliefs and that life is too short to hate each other.

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ozzy
Jun 29, 3:37 pm

Well said !

MrsCrayonWax Bethesda
Jun 29, 6:11 pm

Thank you Ozzy. You better not go anywhere!

martyinca California
Jun 29, 10:06 pm

@MCW,
Agreed, even though we nearly never agree. ( not meant in a creepy way) love ya sis!

MrsCrayonWax Bethesda
Jun 29, 10:22 pm

I replied in the wrong thread. Love ya back!

martyinca California
Jun 29, 10:23 pm

β˜ΊοΈπŸ‘

ozzy
Jun 30, 1:59 pm

Hanging in there. Thanks for!!

mistah Happy Happy Joy Joy
Jun 29, 12:11 pm

Yeah, sfliberal did a little light digging and found his obituary. They made a poll about it

RussianThunder Russia and USA
Jun 29, 10:59 am

I did not know they passed. I am sorry. They were both interesting and Rons could be very funny (I didn’t interact with Susan enough but when I did, I enjoyed it).

I guess I would say I appreciate everyone I interact with and thank you for making this app interesting and often thought provoking.

May their memories be a blessing.

……..

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RightOfCenter TheCurrentThing
Jun 29, 10:54 am

I’m sorry to hear of their passing. Both had many interesting & helpful comments, some of which I was not always in agreement, but who always made good cases for their points of view. I particularly enjoyed @Rons humor. Sad they are no longer with us.

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Kay41 the Midwest
Jun 29, 10:36 am

I would want people to know that this app and knowing you all has truly impacted my life in a positive way. I feel blessed to have "met" so many people that I wouldn't have been able to without being on here. Some have become my friends in real life, and even those of you who aren't IRL are still my friends here and I'm better off for knowing you. I wish I'd done a better job of staying positive, kind, and empathetic and I'm sorry for not always being so.

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Diogenes Accountability Now
Jun 29, 3:46 pm

If you’ve a πŸ‘‘, you’re family. ❀️

Kay41 the Midwest
Jun 29, 4:43 pm

♥️♥️

FacePalm That Trick Never Works
Jun 29, 5:14 pm

Thank you for being a friend. πŸ’“πŸ’“

Diogenes Accountability Now
Jun 29, 5:15 pm

Just consider me the crazy uncle.πŸ’©

Think Lovin Life
Jun 29, 5:38 pm

Kay … you are a jewel! Thanks for the sense that you bring!

Kay41 the Midwest
Jun 29, 6:35 pm

Your guys are all so sweet! And some of the best on here!

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Texas
Jun 29, 7:36 pm

Dio, I agree about the πŸ‘‘

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Texas
Jun 29, 7:37 pm

Love you, Kay & I am honored to have met you IRL.

3675Bumpa
Jun 29, 8:00 pm

Nice, Kay!

Kay41 the Midwest
Jun 30, 7:49 am

Same, Bama, same!!

Krystina Let Freedom Reign
Jun 30, 3:39 pm

Beautiful post, Kay. Says gobs of good things about you as a person. ❀️

Kay41 the Midwest
Jun 30, 6:13 pm

You all know how to make a person feel good! πŸ’›

moonshot More often I know nothing
Jun 29, 10:28 am

I have a rule that I try hard to follow here - don't engage with rude people. I like engaging with people who disagree with me, as long as they can stay civil and respectful. Given my avoidance of rudeness, I have very little interaction with the fringe elements often found here. I appreciate all of you who can discuss a topic without tossing about insults.

SOH member since February 2011.

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Odysseus We All Need A Fantasy
Jun 29, 10:25 am

I definitely am not a communist
I definitely am not a socialist
I am a capitalist who sees the value of integrating more socialism into our society specifically designed to help the middle class.

I am definitely not antisemitic
I am definitely not anti religion at all
I am an atheist who respects everyone’s religious beliefs but I am opposed to anyone’s religion being taught in our public schools.

I believe in the American Constitution
I believe we do have a representative democracy and I want to keep it
I oppose authoritarianism and autocracy and I see us sliding into an autocratic executive branch and I don’t see our Congress or our Supreme Court attempting to stop that from happening

I would like to see more sarcasm, satire and humor in our SOH threads and much less hate filled name calling and corrosive rhetoric.

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Kay41 the Midwest
Jun 29, 10:43 am

Ody, you've always impressed me and I appreciate all your thoughts and comments!

TopsQueen Oregon Coast
Jun 29, 10:48 am

Would you mind if I prayed for you. I would love you to meet my savior.

HoosierFan In my opinion.
Jun 29, 10:51 am

You want humor? I’ve got humor.

Three legged dog walks into a bar.

“What can I get you, partner?”, asks the bartender.

“I’m looking for the man that shot my paw”, says the dog.

Odysseus We All Need A Fantasy
Jun 29, 11:07 am

Right back at you Kay

No I don’t mind you praying for me, TQ, I prayed an awful lot going to private Christian schools. Nevertheless, it can’t hurt and I do need all the help I can get.

HF, I am at a loss for words. I will give you an attaboy for effort.

martyinca California
Jun 29, 10:11 pm

@TQ, you are always so thoughtful!

FLSun Florida
Jun 29, 10:19 am

Politics is a soap opera. Fun to watch and even interact, but like anything else, don’t let it consume you.

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Jazzy5 USA
Jun 29, 10:25 am

Don’t you just love it..I do..People go nuts on the left, they take it so seriously.
That part is worth the show!

me2knkneez Shakuntala
Jun 29, 11:10 am

@Odysseus. And there’s your sarcasm πŸ‘†πŸ½

shygal47 Florida east coast
Jun 29, 10:09 am

To the SOH members that I respond to:
It’s been fun! Thx! πŸ‘πŸ»β€οΈ
To the SOH members that have called me names, belittled me, called me stupid and a retard over the years:
Sucks to be you! πŸ˜„ and Go To Hell! πŸ˜‰

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me2knkneez Shakuntala
Jun 29, 11:11 am

You’re welcome?

Diogenes Accountability Now
Jun 29, 3:49 pm

Me love Shy long time. We do have our differences. πŸ˜›

TopsQueen Oregon Coast
Jun 29, 9:39 am

I did not know that Ron’s had died. My brain just blanked out the guy in Washington. I’m afraid we lost him too. Zod. I would want everyone to know that I truly loved many people here. This app actually truly changed my life. I thought I was so worthless first place I really felt appreciated and valued.
I would want people to know that my faith is in Christ and I am peaceful about whatever has happened. Several people here follow me on Facebook and they can share

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Jazzy5 USA
Jun 29, 10:22 am

I didn’t know RONS passed.. Took my breath away, when I read that! I always answered his polls. I agreed with him, a lot !!
Tops, believe that you are liked and supported..You don’t need to see us to know, we care…
I don’t say things, unless I mean it.
I can be honest, to a fault .
The most important thing would be:
If you need or needed me, I was always there!

TopsQueen Oregon Coast
Jun 29, 10:47 am

That means a lot to me right now. I am seeing doctors this week and I’ll have more test done so I’ll know more what the future holds.

RussianThunder Russia and USA
Jun 29, 11:00 am

Zod is gone as well? Wow

Jazzy5 USA
Jun 29, 11:34 am

You are correct… you will know more..
Test results, will give your doctor the information he needs, to create a plan.
πŸ™ Be Tops Strong!

chickencookie
Jun 29, 12:46 pm

Russian we don’t know for sure about zod. He just stopped posting one day.

RussianThunder Russia and USA
Jun 29, 12:59 pm

Oh I see. Thank you chickencookie

Diogenes Accountability Now
Jun 29, 3:49 pm

I think Zod left. Miss the Beagle pics.

Nickid do good in the world
Jun 29, 9:38 am

I’d say thanks! The app has been a place of both comfort and consternation, but it’s never dull! I have learned a lot from you all, and appreciate that we could share our thoughts and beliefs without too much vitriol. I have communicated with some of you away from the polls and we’ve come together in our shared struggles.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts and opinions and for helping me better understand and communicate mine.

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gonzoboy Northern AZ
Jun 29, 9:06 am

I knew about susanr, but NOT about rons until this moment. It makes me wonder of all the others I've seen here/interacted with that have seemingly become vapor, who may have actually passed on that we may never know about, because they didn’t establish personal relationships with others herein…🀷🏻‍β™‚οΈπŸ˜”

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iloveyou3002 P Sherman
Jun 29, 9:27 am

I don’t know I’m still here.

gonzoboy Northern AZ
Jun 29, 9:39 am

…and I love you back! 😊

Kay41 the Midwest
Jun 29, 10:45 am

Gonzo, it's a sad thing to think about. I just hope we gave them all some joy while they were here!

gonzoboy Northern AZ
Jun 29, 11:04 am

Amen, dearest Kay! That is a truly wonderful way to view this, and I know ALL of my exchanges with both these good folks were always civil, respectful, and often fun; and with susanr, though we didn’t necessarily share core beliefs, we actually enjoyed our interactions! Thank you for your perspective, sweet girl!

BamaGirl ROLL TIDE from Texas
Jun 29, 7:40 pm

Gonzo, it is sad but true that some we will never know about.